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02/11/2023

A TRUE EYE-OPENER! ✨
A friend came to my house for coffee, we sat down and talked about life. After a while I interrupted the conversation and said to him, ′′I'm going to wash the dishes, I'll be right back.”
He looked at me like I told him he was going to build a spaceship. So he said to me with admiration and a little stumped, ′′Glad you help your wife, I rarely help mine because when I do she never thank me. Last week I washed the floor and she didn't even tell me to thank you.”
I sat back down with him again and explained to him that I don't ′′help′′ my wife. Actually, my wife doesn't need help, she needs a partner, a teammate. I'm her home partner… and due to that, all functions are divided, which is not “help” with household chores.
I don't “help” my wife clean the house because I also live in it and I need to clean it too.
I don't “help” my wife cook, because I also want to eat and I need to cook too.
I don't “help” her washing dishes after eating, because I use these dishes too.
I don't “help” my wife with kids, because they are mine too and I have to be a father.
I don't “help” my wife wash, extend, fold, and put away laundry because it's mine and my kids too.
I don't give a “helping hand” at home, I'm part of it.
Then with respect, I asked my friend when was the last time his wife finished cleaning the house, doing laundry, changing the bedsheets, bathing the kids, cooking, organizing, etc.. and did he say: “thank you?”
I mean a real thank you, like, “Wow, baby!! You're amazing!!"
Does this all seem absurd? Does it sound weird to you? When, once in your life, you cleaned the floor, you expected at least an excellence award with great glory... why? Haven't you ever thought about that?
Maybe, because for you, macho culture taught you that everything is a woman's task.
Maybe you've been taught that all this should be done without you having to move a finger.
So praise her as you would like to be praised, likewise, with the same intensity. Hold her hand and behave like a true companion, and assume your part, don't behave like a guest who simply comes to eat, sleep, shower, and satisfy s*xual needs... feel at home, in your home.
Change in our society begins in our homes, teaching our children the true sense of fellowship!

20/10/2023

Never Do These 8 Things in Life.

1. Never play with someone's feelings just for your happiness. You may win the game, but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a lifetime.

2. Never stop to make yourself better. No matter what you know, the minute you stop building yourself, you begin to deteriorate.

3. Never think that you are not good enough. In life, people will take you for what or how you present yourself.

4. Never lose hope in life. To hope, is to breathe life, to free your mind from fear and pessimism and fill it with optimism and positive thinking. So, no matter how difficult your life gets, never deprive yourself of hope.

5. Never lose your self-respect. Self-respect is a form of self-care.

6. Never beg for opportunities. Sn**ch them. When you beg for opportunities (including jobs), you will be seen as inexperienced and of low value. It is much better to have confidence in the value you have to offer than to beg.

7. Never take anyone or anything in life for granted. Taking things for granted is considered irresponsible, even damaging. Taking your spouse for granted is a surefire way to make them feel unloved. Taking your income for granted can put you at financial risk if you lose your job. Taking your health for granted can lead you to take poor care of yourself.

8. Even if the world takes advantage of you, never let the good in you d!e

07/10/2023

Strictly for the Married Couples...

(((S*X DOES NOT BEGIN IN THE BEDROOM)))

I have noticed with disdain that in this part of our world, most Christian couples are not romantic at all. I can say with a heavy heart that romance is virtually dead in many christian marriages.

Many christian couples live like intimate strangers in the name of being spiritual and practicing holiness unto the Lord.

I was at a Christian couples' retreat some years ago where the guest speaker asked all the couples present to kiss each other. You needed to see the look on the faces of most of the couples; it was as if they had marched poopoo. I was a bit irritated by the spirikokoism I saw on display that day.

Dear Husband, when last have you hugged your wife as you were going out or coming in? Do you even hug your wife at all? Or you think your body is the temple of God and must not be used for hugging?

Dear Wife, when last did you grab your husband's head and plant a kiss on his lips?

When last did you dance together? When last did you crack jokes together? When last did you leave the kids with grandma and travel on a fun vacation together? When last did you do pillow fight?
Who told you that in marriage couples should only talk about kids,schoolfees,farming, relatives,church,property,investments,football,movies,everything except how to enjoy each others company.

The only time some Christian men hold their wives' hands is when they want to pray together. Re kindle your marriage with laughters ,smiles,humour around the house.

I charge all Christian couples, don't only PRAY together, PLAY together as well.

Husband, feel free to play the keyboard on your wife's body. You paid dowry over the owner of that body. You see those twins on her chest! Whether they are Extra large, large, medium or small; size does not matter; Play with them regularly. Squeeze them often. You think they are mere decorations? You think they are meant for the babies alone? No! Use your hands and mouth skilfully on those things. It does not reduce your anointing. Smack her playfully on her backyard once in a while! It's not a crime,shes your wife not in law😅

Wife, feel free to trouble that man in the other room. Fight like children doing chamama! It is allowed. Mummy, It does not reduce your spirituality. It even makes you to bond together. Mummy, do you even sit on Daddy's lap often? We know you are born again. We know you are Spirit filled. So are we too!

I remember how an older pastor advised me some time ago, "Pastor, if you want to operate in more power, you have to limit how you meet your wife, too much s*x with one's wife reduces the anointing." The reason I did not laugh right there before him was because of my respect for his age.

To be candid, S*x does not begin in the bedroom but outside it.

Husband, in the other room, don't just lay your wife on the bed and go straight into action.pinduka! ...? Who is chasing you? What's the rush? Are you a "Russian?" Who is hurrying you up? Try to go downstairs and work some magic there with your hands.It is not a wrestling match ooh💪

Wife, don't just lie down on the bed like a log of wood showing no emotions or feelings while the man does all the action. What are your hands for? Kilode? are you not the one ran from your psrents home to get a husband? Let the man hear your ringtone. It's not a sin for ringtones to be playing in the other room. Any other room where there is no ringtone during fellowship is a cold room.

Many Christian homes are just too cold and most couples are too formal. Many Christian marriages are just too boring. No intimacy! No different styles,no display of affection either openly or secretly. This shouldn't be. Christianity is not against romance.

This is lockdown period, don't allow your chambers to be under lockdown too.

Wife, Please don't listen to those women that are saying a man will still cheat no matter what you do to satisfy him during s*x. Don't listen to such women and allow what they say to kill your enthusiasm and action in the other room. Intimacy should not always end in s*x,are we tugetsa,you can cuddle,fondle,carress,feel all that watmth and sleep.

I agree that a man that will cheat will still cheat but that is no excuse for you to be boring in the other room; because I have also seen men that were pushed out because of that. Though that's not a genuine excuse.

Uncle, Daddy, please wake up, be a Lion for aunty/mummy. Aunty, mummy, please wake up, be a Tigress for Uncle/Daddy in the other room.

I believe this will help many Christian marriages....

"But, man of God, I don't love s*x. After all it is not food" If that is what I can hear you saying to me.Have you heard people mourn as they eat,so ,of course its not food,its on another league.Eti missionary what again?

You want to know my response to you? It's simple: "Keep quiet sir/ma! Why did you marry in the first place"

Chai! I have forgotten this is post Easter period, we should all be focusing on spiritual things. I hope I'm still spiritual sha!

God bless all the Christian marriages out there.

Enough of the Voltron we are forming with ourselves. Let's be real and frank.

Let's make the most of this lockdown period, my people. At least work stress is not an excuse at the moment.

God bless all the Christian couples out there. May your homes be heaven on earth..

06/10/2023

6 KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP...

1. FRIENDSHIP:
Try to be your spouse best friend. No matter what happens, be a friend first, and a lover later.

2. TRUST:
The key element to any relationship is trust, so before starting this beautiful journey with your spouse, learn to trust in all circumstances.

3. UNDERSTANDING:
Try to figure out each other and work out on your differences. There are going to be many differences, but it’s mutual compromise and sacrifice which makes this relationship beautiful.

4. COMMUNICATION:
Try to talk and convey your message to your spouse. Let your spouse know about how good/bad your day was along with reminding them how you feel for them.

5. HONESTY:
Always speak the truth, never lie or hide things in fear that your spouse won’t understand.Give your spouse a chance to understand you.

6. FREEDOM:
Give your spouse space and freedom to decide for themselves. Don’t take away the personal time of your spouse.

03/10/2023

18 - IMPORTANT FACTS ABOUT LIFE YOU SHOULD KNOW.

1.Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important at hand

2. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

3. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

4. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

5. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

6. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

7. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

8. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

9. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

10. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

11. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

12. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;

13. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;

14. Never give advice until you’re asked;

15. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;

16. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;

17. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and

18. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

19.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message"

Thank you for reading 📚 ❤️ 🙏

02/10/2023

𝗪𝗛𝗘𝗡 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗗𝗜𝗘

When you die, don't worry.
Don't be concerned over your body because people will take care of what is required.

*They will..
*1 - Buy you new white clothes
*2 - Wash you
*3 - Take you out of your home
*4 - to your new place of stay (the grave)
*5 - Many will come to bid farewell at your funeral - in fact, many will cancel work for the sake of your burial, even though most of them didn't know you whilst you were alive.
*6 - Your belongings will be gotten rid of:
* your cars
* your cheque books
* your bags
* your shoes
* your clothes
* Your job, someone else will take your position*
* Your wealth will go to inheritors
* Whereas you will remain to be questioned about every minor and major deed
* There will be 3 types of mourners over you
* 1- The people who knew you only at face value will say 'poor man'
* 2- Your friends will grieve for hours or days but then return to laughter
* 3- The deep grief at your household will last for a week, two weeks, a month, 2-months or even a year

* And thereafter they will add you to their memories
* And so your story amidst the people ended
* And your story with the reality begins, *where will you spend Eternity?*
* And that is the life after death
* Indeed, the following things will leave you:-
* 1- Beauty
* 2- Wealth
* 3- Health
* 4- Children
* 5- The mansions
* 6- Your spouse
* And your real life has just started, *Eternity*.

The question here is....
*What have you prepared for your Eternity or hereafter?*
This reality needs to be thought over: Therefore
*Take care of these two things ..*
*1- Salvation*
*2- Sanctification*
Don't forget your *Prayers*
*And don't forget to pass this message on to many...* Because once your eyes closes in death, the only property left for you is *"your relationship WITH GOD".*
Where will you spend Eternity, *Heaven or Hell.* Let's all live a *holy life* my Brothers & sisters.

Going to church will not take you to heaven, paying tithes and offerings

01/10/2023

✨The Most Effective Ways to See a Person's True Personality

1. Observe their actions when they are under pressure.

2. When you give them a lot of power and responsibility.

3. Compare what they say with what they do. Never trust words alone.

4. Observe if they can keep appointments

5. Ask them for help and see if they will show up.

6. Lend them money and see if they will return it, without you reminding them about it.

7. Compliment or even flatter them to know if they play their accomplishments down and show genuine humbleness or brag about the achievements.

8. Observe if they take responsibility for their life or always looking for someone to blame in everything.

9. Observe how they behave when they are drunk or high. If they can be aggressive, emotional, look for troubles or let out any underlying issues or personality.

10. Find out their role model. Someone they are looking up to.

11. Find out the type of books they read or if they even read at all

12. Observe how they treat animals, children or anyone that does not have control over them.


13. Observe how they talk to staff, waiters, cleaners, gatemen or security people.

14. Observe how they talk about the other gender or their judgement of other s*x.

15. Observe their conversations. Are they discussing things or people?

26/09/2023

13 🆁🆄🅻🅴🆂 🆃🅾 🅸🅼🅿🆁🅾🆅🅴 🆈🅾🆄🆁🆂🅴🅻🅵...

𝟏. Be Patient:

Personal growth takes time. Embrace the process and be patient with yourself. Instant success is an illusion.

𝟐. Embrace Failure:

Don't be afraid to make mistakes. They are stepping stones to success, teaching you valuable lessons along the way.

𝟑. Value Solitude:

Find comfort in solitude. It's in these quiet moments that we often gain the most insight about ourselves.

𝟒. Set Personal Goals:

Outline what you want to achieve. Having clear goals gives you direction and motivates you to work towards them.

𝟓. Continuously Learn:

Never stop learning.

- Read books

- Take courses

- Learn a new skill

- Pick up a new hobby An open mind is a growing mind.

𝟔. Practice Mindfulness:

Being present allows you to fully engage in activities and creates a deeper understanding of yourself.

𝟕. Challenge Yourself:

Push beyond your comfort zone. Personal growth happens when we challenge ourselves.

𝟖. Take Care of Your Health:

Eat well, exercise regularly, and prioritize sleep. A healthy body supports a healthy mind.

𝟗. Cultivate Positive Relationships:

Surround yourself with people who inspire and support you. Positive relationships enrich our lives and encourage personal growth.

𝟏𝟎. Practice Gratitude:

Appreciate what you have. Gratitude helps maintain a positive outlook on life.

𝟏𝟏. Avoid Comparisons:

Your journey is unique. Comparing yourself to others can hinder personal growth. Focus on your progress.

𝟏𝟐. Be Authentic:

Be true to yourself. Authenticity invites genuine growth.

𝟏𝟑. Implement Self-Care:

Take time for activities that nourish your body and mind. Self-care is not an indulgence - it's necessary for maintaining balance and promoting personal growth.

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