18/05/2025
“Celibacy becomes effortless for a woman who honours her worth.”
That quote landed deeply today.
Not from a place of bitterness...but from experience.
When you’ve been cheated on, disrespected, emotionally and verbally torn down, something inside you shifts.
Not in a “never again” wall-building kind of way…
But in a sacred remembering:
“I am not here to suffer in love.”
And while it’s easy to point fingers (and some people absolutely earned that blame), the first step in real healing is turning inward.
Owning your patterns.
Clearing your energy.
Facing the parts of you that once settled for less.
But here’s what nobody tells you…
👉 The more you heal, the more disconnected you might feel from the world.
👉 The more self-worth you embody, the harder it becomes to find someone who truly meets you there.
👉 The deeper the healing, the more sacred - and sometimes solitary - your space becomes.
You don’t want to invite chaos back in.
You don’t want to perform worthiness.
And you definitely don’t want to heal in a relationship that still triggers your wounds.
So you stay solo.
Awake, but guarded.
Strong, but craving softness.
Healing… and wondering if it will ever feel safe to love again.
And here lies the paradox:
You don’t want to be in a relationship until you’re healed.
But the healing feels never-ending.
So when is the right time?
Some days I wonder if this is part of the wider unraveling...
A world full of broken dynamics on one side… and sacred, solitary seekers on the other.
Neither fully nourished.
Neither fully seen.
But still…
Still, we rise.
Still, we trust.
Still, we remember:
Healing is sacred.
Self-worth is non-negotiable.
And conscious love is still worth believing in.
If you feel this too... you’re not broken.
You’re just aware.
And that, my love… is your power. ✨
OracleMe Magazine