16/09/2025
A narcissist would actually pursue you, move in with you, marry you, have children with you, and absolutely hate you!!!! That’s the chilling truth that most people don’t realize until it’s too late. They will go through every step of commitment—not because they genuinely want to share a life with you, but because it gives them a deeper hold, a perfect image, more control, and a guaranteed source of supply. They don’t love in the way healthy people love. Instead, they envy you, resent you, and secretly despise you for the very qualities that drew them to you in the first place. They’ll study you, mirror you, and charm you into believing you’ve found your forever person. But once you’re locked in, the mask starts to slip. The marriage, the home, the children—all become tools to bind you tighter and make it harder for you to escape. They will play the perfect partner in public, convincing everyone else that your life together is picture-perfect, while behind closed doors they chip away at your spirit, your confidence, and your sense of self. Their hatred isn’t always loud or obvious—it’s in the dismissive comments, the cold stares, the way they withhold affection, the way they make you question your worth. It’s a quiet, corrosive kind of hatred that eats away at you little by little. And the cruelest part? They need you to stay while they do it, to clap for them even for finding new mistresses because for them, sleeping around is their validation as men; they want you to apologize for finding them cheating and they want to forgive you because they cheated—sarcasm right?? They’ll drag you into building a life with them, only to turn that very life into a prison. That is the devastating paradox of being entangled with a narcissist: they promise you the world, but what they really give you is a slow destruction wrapped in illusions.
