
18/08/2025
Don't give up what you want most, for what you want NOW...
read that again!
This is the game. The ability to delay gratification for the long term reward is where our polarities meet.
Sitting in sadness rather than finding something to make us happy, or eating vegetables, seeds and chicken rather than toast with vegemite & cheese. The small shifts we make on a day to day basis, culminate in massive changes in our habits.
AND excellence is a habit. It is what we do consistently, on repeat that defines our character.
And so I have a question...what do you want? You can ask this in relation to health, wealth, relationships, education, family...but when you ask, be prepared for the answer and also to take the action steps to move towards the result. THIS is going to involve discomfort, giving up instant gratification, displeasing others, letting go of needing to be liked, stopping being nice, no more fitting in....and so on.
I completed 75hard at the beginning of the year, and after 75 days with no Prosecco, I decided I did not really enjoy it anyway and so 'dropped the habit'. Nobody really questioned it because my circle is awesome...but imagine in normal circles where you are constantly asked 'why aren't you drinking???' when for me, the real question is 'why are you drinking?' It is a shift in perspective and I have no judgement on those who drink, we all get to choose, but when we really desire to break out of our
conditioned patterns, there is going to be resistance.
You don't just decide once to break a habit, you decide over and over again until the new habit forms and a whole new character has developed.
I have set myself a challenge of 'becoming lighter' and 'eating fresh, beaming foods' as I focus on the new version of me. Today is day one...and already I have wrestled the 'quick fix' - 'it's just one piece of toast' - 'you can walk an extra hour' - all of the old reasons cramming for attention because I have created a habit over the last few months. The mind is on fire 🔥AND the new version of me (my why in relation to health) is even hotter😉
Lighter, leaner Robsie is already winning...I can feel her.
It is the same in every area of life.
Parts of us that are stuck on the treadmill of dread, doom, gloom and survival need to be silenced, through the golden voice of your why.
WHY do you want to feel lighter?
WHY do you want more money?
WHY do you want more time freedom?
WHY do you want that relationship?
WHY do you want to travel more?
When you dig deep into your WHY you can cement the new you in concrete boots and never get stuck on the loop of lack...
It takes courage & consistency, it takes devotion & deciding on repeat, it is the small steps on your stairway to heaven that will lift you out of the funk that has been your habit and transform you into the light, bright spark you already are.
Share with me what you want...the more you voice it and let everybody know, the more it will keep you on the path. Truth is the root, trust is the fruit.
It is time to start telling the truth about what you really want and trusting that you can have it.
I believe in you.