Reyn

22/08/2025

I believe when you grow inside you will grow outside .. what inside you will reflect to your world around .

Each of us has a purpose that we carry in this world 🌍 and that purpose is meant to be shared. As we are part of one consciousness and we are all connected . As we become aware of it …expresses the philosophical and spiritual concept of non-duality, which suggests that underlying the perceived separation between individuals is a single, unified field of consciousness.

As we grow in awareness, we can begin to perceive this interconnectedness, recognizing our individual consciousness as an expression of the universal whole, rather than distinct entities. And our ego and or duality is the only thing that separates us from each other. Our individual consciousness contributes to a collective awareness, and every action, thought, and interaction has an impact on the larger whole. We are not merely beings within the universe but are the universe experiencing and evolving through us.

Like what my spiritual guru said we’re a piece of puzzle .. each one of us has unique skills, talents that we shared in our existence.

Imagine in a party .. you are not there just for nothing … you have the purpose why you are there — it could be your the catering … the dancer … the host .. or the celebrant . And that party is what we call life . Actually Rumi and his teaching is part of my healing journey.. I love his work and ideologies.

And my existence is not accident. And for the past 4 years I was searching my dharma for the highest good of all . And just recently few weeks ago during the long off coz of typhoon and sickness .. got time to solitude. And discovered my dharma .. my life purpose ( it’s a journey - took me 4 years of healing and internal work - to master) .

To you REMEBER THIS : You are magnetic. You’ve touched lives in ways you’ll never fully know. Even when you feel empty, others see you as full.

Love and light ,
Reyn

09/08/2025

“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” Lao Tzu – Respect

We’re all in a world of competition- whether in our personal lives or in our professional lives.

In our personal lives, we compete with our friends, our family, our children’s friend’s parents, sometimes even our lovers.

In our professional lives, oh yeah! We compete with every possible person and push ourselves to strive and do better than the others- why? Because, we’re human and our wants and desires never end. We want to be paid a higher salary, we want to be promoted, we want to be the perfect husband/wife/parent/friend etc.

In effect, we seem to go to great lengths to achieve things in our personal and professional lives to be validated, to be praised, to make ourselves feel better. And the cost/ price we pay for this, is losing our peace of mind, losing respect, losing ourselves most importantly, which eventually leads to losing others.

What is the best way to get respect?
We find contentment in being our authentic selves when we stop comparing or competing with others. It gives us a sense of inner harmony. Though respect is not solely dependent on self-acceptance and non-comparison but also on achievements, social status, or power. People who excel in life tend to command more respect in society. Ultimately, the quest for respect is an interplay between embracing our authentic selves, fostering inner harmony, and acknowledging the importance of achievements, social status, and power.

So - Be yourself and be comfortable in who you are, don’t try to change for someone else by comparing yourselves or your lives with them or theirs. Don’t compete because you’re only going to lose something beautiful. When you are yourself, you will notice the difference- the way people view you and that will be with respect.

Love and light ,

Reyn

30/07/2025

Letting go of the past can be difficult, especially if it’s caused you emotional pain. Past trauma can affect your everyday life, from relationships to your perception of failures and successes.

It can be challenging to live in the moment, especially when you’re worried about the future and have past events holding you back.

Most of the time we tend to avoid pain. Doing this is not good as it can build up inside you.

Old emotions and wounds will reappear, possibly stronger than before if they’ve been repressed. It is suggested to let yourself feel the emotions to help you move forward.

Allow yourself to feel pain, but find an outlet—- like writing the emotions and thoughts down in a journal…. Experiencing and releasing your emotions will prevent them from consuming your life.

It is important aswell to forgive yourself -practice self-compassion —-We are all human. We’re all prone to making mistakes! Forgive yourself so you can use the lessons from your mistakes to build a happier future. Forgive yourself for letting other to treat you that way.. remember it’s not happening to you it’s happening for you .. don’t be too harsh to yourself .

Past can’t be change , sometimes we find it difficult to accept past traumas. Acknowledging and accepting the past allows you to grieve and let go of your negative emotions.

Remember that it’s okay if you need extra time to accept past events. Don’t keep dwelling on them, though. You’ll just be hurting yourself. Be honest with yourself throughout the grieving process.

Finding a balance is essential when you’re working on yourself. Self-compassion is a great start. It can help you feel empowered and in charge of your happiness again. If you can show love to yourself, it will be easier to move on.

If you need to take time away to heal, do it. Spend time doing things that make you happy, and that relax and rejuvenate you.

Unresolved emotions can prevent you from letting go and living a happy life. Dealing with your feelings is crucial to moving on and accepting that you can’t change the past.

You deserve to be happy, and you can learn to put the past in its proper place and move on with your life.

Surround yourself with positive people, be honest with your emotions, and focus on taking care of yourself.

Love and light ,
Reyn

26/07/2025

"Be yourself - everyone else is already taken." These words from Oscar Wilde are a strong reminder to us all of how important it is to stay true to ourselves, despite the many pressures and distractions we all face every day.

Stop caring about what their thinks …..Most people aren’t thinking about you as much as you think. They have their own problems. We waste so much time trying to live up to others’ expectations, but here’s the truth: no one’s paying as much attention to you as you think they are. Once you understand that, life becomes easier.

Stop worrying about being judged. Stop letting other people’s opinions define your actions. Be you. 😊

The need to fit in starts early. But here’s the problem: it doesn’t make you happy. Trying to mold yourself into someone else’s version of success only takes you further from who you are. And the years slip by.

The moment you will stop trying to fit in …life changed. People who were supposed to be in yourlife will show up. Opportunities that aligned will appear. Build what you believed in!
The moment you start living for yourself, things click into place. Trust me on that.

It’s not too late. Stop pretending. Don’t spend another minute living up to someone else’s idea of who you should be. There’s no expiration date on being yourself. But you have to start now. You owe it to yourself.

Most people never realize this truth. They spend their lives pretending, chasing expectations that aren’t their own. Don’t be that person. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken. And trust me, the world needs you.

Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself.✨🤍

Love and light ✨
Reyn

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24/07/2025

Don’t be afraid to fail, be afraid not to try. If you do nothing, you will get nothing. But if you try to do something there are chances that you may fail or you may succeed.

People are SO AFRAID to FAIL…….. and when they do, are SO quick to give up on themselves, quit or throw in the towel! Don’t view FAILING that way. Just because you failed at something does NOT make YOU a failure!! There is a difference. It’s not about the mistakes and failures you have in life, but has EVERYTHING to do with how you handle them!! This is what determines your outcome, and determines whether you propel forward in life or remain the same.

The ONLY way to FAIL is if YOU quit, stop, or do nothing. Instead, use these mistakes and failures as TEACHABLE MOMENTS! What can you learn from this to become better? The most IMPORTANT thing is that you KEEP GOING and don’t stop fighting for what you want or BELIEVE in. There is no straight line to success with anything in life. It’s a jagged road with bumps, cliffs, twists and turns…..but if you can make it through all of that…….. then the destination is BEAUTIFUL and so worth it!!

Take it one day at a time! Don’t be afraid to fail!! If you are not failing, then you are not GROWING! We only have one life and we should all be encouraging each other to be better and do better things in this world! It all starts with being OK with making mistakes and failing. We fall, we learn from our mistakes, and we take that knowledge and what we learned and use it to MOVE FORWARD. The most successful people in this world, are the ones who FAILED the most.

Love and light ,
Reyn

24/07/2025

Our time is limited, yet it’s easy to waste it. Our time on this earth is limited, and that we should make the most of it by living a life that is true to ourselves.

It takes courage to follow our hearts and live authentically instead of living someone else’s life.

Living authentically isn’t easy. It requires the courage to be vulnerable, to admit our imperfections, and to own our mistakes.

Living authentically takes effort. In our noisy, imaged-driven world, it takes daily, intentional effort to remain on the course we have chosen, especially when our choices conflict with the wishes or beliefs of others.

Many people spend their lives chasing success, wealth, or status, thinking that these things will bring them happiness. But the truth is, true happiness comes from doing what you love, pursuing your passion, and living a life that aligns with your values and beliefs.

Living someone else's life can lead to a life full of regret and unfulfillment.

But in order to reap the benefits of a happier, more meaningful life, we must hold fast to our values and priorities, stay tuned to our true self, and act courageously. And everything else is secondary.

It is important of living our own lives, rather than trying to live up to the expectations of others. By being true to ourselves, we can find genuine happiness and fulfillment, and make the most of the time we have on this earth.

It's crucial to remember that your time on this earth is limited, and you have the power to choose how you spend it. Don't waste it living someone else's life or chasing someone else's dreams. Be true to yourself and follow your heart, and you will find happiness and fulfillment.

Love and light
Reyn

10/06/2025

Quitting something can be a difficult decision, often laden with feelings of uncertainty and self-doubt.

However, it can also be a powerful act of self-affirmation, allowing one to reassess priorities and pursue paths that resonate more deeply with personal values and aspirations.

Whether it's a job that stifles creativity, a relationship that drains emotional energy, or a commitment that no longer aligns with one's goals, stepping away can lead to newfound clarity and freedom.

Embracing the act of quitting often opens doors to fresh opportunities, enabling personal growth and the chance to explore passions that were previously sidelined.

Ultimately, quitting is not a sign of failure, but rather a courageous step towards a more fulfilling and authentic life.

Bossbabe Reyn
Reyn Genesis Dimas

07/06/2025

You could make millions and still stay poor in your mind. Being poor is not about making less money. Being poor is a mentality. It’s a choice to live a low standard of life. When I say low standard, I don’t mean the luxuries and pleasures rich people can afford.

You can raise your standards regardless of how much money you make. It’s not about money; it’s about mindset. Different people have different values. We can have high standards in some areas of our lives while we may avoid the other areas.

✨Health

Clearly, an average person is not a healthy person. Getting diagnosed with diseases has become a common thing. Smoking, excessive drinking, eating unhealthy foods and a sedentary lifestyle are the major reasons for such an epidemic. Your health and fitness have to rise above an average person if you want to live well and feel good in your body. Raise your standards by eating healthy foods, training your body, sleeping well and relaxing on purpose.

✨Wealth

If you want to raise your wealth standards, learn to manage your finances. Spend money wisely, track your expenses, save for the rainy day, negotiate and invest. You can live a frugal life without being a miser by buying things, services or experiences that truly enhance your life. Avoid impulse shopping for yourself, but don’t hesitate to spend money on the people you love. You can also make more money by making yourself invaluable and asking for what you deserve—being invaluable means doing extraordinary work. Constantly seek opportunities to learn and improve your work. Keep making progress, and don’t settle for average work. When you raise your work standards, you get a better outcome.

✨Relationships

Meeting new people is great. But, if you’re not careful about the people who you surround yourself with most of the time, you may get stuck in mediocre or stereotypical thinking patterns. Don’t lower your standards to fit in with other people. Find people who raise the bar and help you improve.

Watch out for the people who show jealousy, selfishness, passive aggression, dishonesty, or narcissism. Such people are energy vampires. Surround yourself with people who accept you, respect you and inspire you to become better.

These people will not be perfect, but they should inspire you in one way or another. Every person is different and has flaws. Learn to accept them if both of you help each other grow and are compatible. Raising your relationship standards also means connecting by giving your full attention, love, and effort. It involves making sacrifices, caring for others’ needs, making others feel loved, and not taking others for granted.

✨Self-discipline

You raise your standards every time you —ignore the lizard brain, say no to distractions, delay gratification or choose voluntary discomfort. Daily small choices set the foundation for your standards. Stop reacting to temptations. The urge to open social media, check notifications, eat unhealthy foods, skip workouts, buy unnecessary stuff, dwell on the past, or waste time will always be there. It is your duty to recognise them and kill them before they kill you. When you’re faced with urges, acknowledge them and do the right thing anyway. You will feel proud, and your self-confidence will become unshakable.

You don’t have to give up all the pleasures in life. You can enjoy pleasurable experiences in moderation. Find a healthy balance for yourself but don’t indulge beyond your allowance.

✨Mindset

Your thoughts determine your actions. If you want to put quality thoughts in your mind, you must craft your environment in a way that most thoughts in your mind are useful or helpful. Destructive thought patterns lead to depression, worry or anxiety. Your internal self-talk is the way to speak with your subconscious. Make sure you talk to yourself from a higher perspective. Become your own life coach. Use the power of self-affirmation to feel powerful and inspired to become great. Most people never recognise what they are capable of because they think 'too small' and lack self-efficacy.

If you raise the standard of your mindset, you will not be shattered by the failures or setbacks. You will see obstacles as an opportunity to learn and grow. You will get inspired instead of getting jealous. You will participate in healthy competition instead of comparing yourself with others.

Run your own race and continually create, learn, reflect and improve. Eliminate all the excuses. Take full responsibility for your life.

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