29/05/2024
✍🏿 WHAT WAYS TO BE CHARMING 🤔
For many person charm is something that we obtain when you born, no you can be an man without charm and After work on your personnality become someone that have charm.
There are Key to be charming,
📌 ACCEPTANCE
The greatest gift that you can give other people IS the attitude of "unconditional positive regard".
That IS, you accept them in their entirety, without limitation.
You never criticize or find fault.
Unfortunately in our community people likes to criticize the life of person without raison.
To express completely ACCEPTANCE it IS simple. You smile😄
When you smile With hapiness AT seeing people, their self esteem jumps automatically, they feel important and valuable.
📌 APPRECIATION
Whenever you express appreciation to others for something they have done, small or large, their self esteem increases.
To trigger this wonderful feeing in others it is simple, you say " THANKS YOU" on every occasion, for any large or small reason.
It's an habit that I'm trying to do in my live, if someone doing something for you say that you, thanks to be with me, thank for meals, your meal was delicious thank you my beautiful wife, with smile.
You say that, she's bound to be charmed.
Your outfit is pretty 💃my beautiful wife👌🏽
Soles times I appreciate me, by saying
You're handsome, aren't you! It's permit me to be happy and to agreement my journey.
📌 APPROVAL
It is said that "babies cry for it, men die for it". Throughout life, all humans have a deep subconscious need for approval of their actions and accomplishments.
Remember that when you praise others people for something they have done, their self esteem is elevated.
📌 ADMIRATION
As Abraham Lincoln said " Everybody likes a compliment".
When you give people a genuine, sincere compliment about a trait, possession, or accomplishment they automatically feel better about themselves.
We must compliment people for their quality or something you esteem good or beautiful.
📌 ATTENTION
This is perhaps the most important quality of all. It is the most powerful behaviour for building self esteem and is the key to instant charm.
When you pay close attention to other people, the more valuable and important they will feel they are, and the more they will like you.
Pay attention to the guard you see, pay attention to the people you meet, look them in the eye when they talk, listen to them without manipulating your phone, it's important.
These are the five most powerful self esteem building tools ever discovered.
As you master them through practice, you will become one of the most charming and influential people in your social and professional circle.
I said that's I'm starting studying Charm because I realised that I a power that can help me and transform my lives.