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23/05/2025

Do everything possible to ensure alignment with God.

Nothing is worth compromising your relationship with Him. If necessary, reach out to that person and seek forgiveness.

Offer a sincere apology, regardless of their potential response. Let them express their thoughts, even if it means facing ridicule or mockery.

Ultimately, no one and nothing is worth jeopardizing your connection with God. Ensure that you remain aligned with Him please.

God is worth more!

23/05/2025

He said he pays ajo (daily contribution), so when it was his turn to collect the contribution he collected it, and his friend pleaded with him to loan him some money to sort out somethings so he borrowed the friend the money he got from the contribution, again it was his turn to collect the ajo, he collected it, same friend asked for it as a loan, he gave him, he said to me, "Whenever I collect my ajo my friend is always aware and since I wasn't having need of the money at that time and my friend needs it I do borrow him, pending when I'll have need of it".

It continued till the money got to about 200k, now he needs the money to do a business as planned, the friend has been promising to repay, today, tomorrow.

Now, this has caused an f1ght between him and the friend, so the friendship ended. Money gone, friendship gone.

Matthew 22:39 "You shall love your neighbour as yourself" it didn't say "than yourself".

Kindness and foolishness are two different things, the Bible tells us to be kind/love, not to be foolish.

Please if you MUST go the extra mile for anyone, do it with understanding and discernment.

God help us.

19/05/2025

Why are you upset because your partner is mad at you for doing something wrong?

This is common with the male gender, your partner is mad at you for something you did wrong and you are upset with them for being mad, why.

Part of being mature is being and being ready to own up to your actions by taking for them.

Take responsibility and apologize, don't do through corners by trying to emotionally blackmail them into feeling they their feelings are invalid or they are 'overreacting' (as many put it), some go through the corner of getting gifts or making 'dry' jokes instead of addressing them issue and apologizing.

Some even act like they don't know their partner is upset with them, they'll say, 'she'll come around'. That's not you being responsible.

Also, don't just apologize, because apologizing for a repeated act makes the act seems intentional, when you apologize back it up with the act of changing by 'doing better', that way your partner would feel valued and recognized.

16/05/2025

It takes humility to admit something you said in ignorance and making the necessary adjustment!

13/05/2025

Emotional distractions from multiple intimate relationships may cause CONFUSION. Cutting off sexual relationships can help you achieve CLARITY.

13/05/2025

For every gbas there's a corresponding gbos!
Be careful what you dish out to people because they may likely serve you back in full dose.

12/05/2025

The reason your child behaves anyhow could be a result of your spoken words over that child, use that same tongue to correct that child's life!

12/05/2025

have the capacity of changing the course of a person's life either for good or for the worse.

The words you speak are like a map that leads your life in the path it should go.

So, have a tradition of speaking good things to yourself and to every situation.

The words you speak have life in them, remember the world was formed by the spoken words of God, 'words are spirit and are life'.

The more of the good words you speak over your life, the better your life will be and the more of the negative words you speak, the worse your life will be. There is so much power in your tongue, use it well.

If you must speak, speak positively, otherwise do not speak at all!

10/05/2025

As much as you work/hustle, rest o
Because if you don't prioritize rest you may end up spending your income on medications.

09/05/2025

If someone gives you money to get something done for them, do it and give account for it, write it and explain it if you must. People are looking for those whom they can trust and will give anything to have such people in their corner.

Accountability gives room for bigger opportunities.

Don't loose a fortune while playing smart with peanuts!

08/05/2025

It WAS in 2018 I was in my hostel, in the midnight, at about 12:30am I heard a bang on my neighbour's door, almost at the same time I heard a loud bang on my door, the bang came twice and immediately in the dark I saw a tall figure stand by the door, I was in alone, sleeping in my night dress with the light off.

At first I thought I was dreaming but as soon as I came to realize it was in reality, I opened my mouth and made a loud cry JESUS! and immediately the figure fled my room with a fast speed and I also heard other footsteps around the hostel fleeing in loud steps.

I left my room and spent the rest of the night in my neighbour's room.

When I woke up in the morning with other hostel mates, they confirmed to have heard the bang, the cry of my voice shouting Jesus and the footsteps fleeing.

All you need is just one call of the name of Jesus and every kneel shall bow.

The name of Jesus saved me and my hostel mates from robbery that night, the same name can save you from anything that is contending with you.

"That at the name of Jesus, every kneel should bow. EVERY, NOT SOME!

Use that name.
ONE JESUS IS ENOUGH!

04/05/2025

When I got married in 2022, my neighbor who was an Igbo man said, "as we don marry you now, your oga don buy you so you don become him property". I smiled and didn't say anything because I knew telling him I wasn't 'bought' won't change anything as I'm aware that many people from this tribe have the belief that when they get married to a woman they automatically 'bought' the woman, so I left and didn't reply him.

Fast forward to 2025, last Saturday, he went to his hometown to give out in marriage, when he returned I went to congratulate him, so I asked him, "now they have paid your daughter's dowry, does it mean that you have sold off your daughter and that the husband has 'bought' as his property?"
He replied, 'noo, I no sell my pikin o, the reason the man pay bride price na so that he go always dey remember the money wey he spend so he no go fit maltreat my daughter, nobi say I sell my pikin'.

His response to his own daughter being 'sold' made me remember one adage my husband always say "Who get sore go say 'na where dey pain me' but if na another person own he go say 'na sore:.

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