09/10/2026
I’ve spent years teaching my own kids to read. Letter sounds. Decodable books. Read-alouds long after they could technically read to themselves. Nights I genuinely wondered when, or if, it would ever click. 📖
And then, both of my kids sat down on their own accord and read an entire book cover to cover. Just them, quiet, turning pages until the story was done.
I watched it happen twice, at two completely different ages and stages, and both times I felt so proud I could burst. But underneath that pride was something I wasn’t expecting: a little bit of grief. Because that’s the moment you’re not needed in quite the same way anymore. The reading time we built together, page by page, starts to belong to them now.
Here’s what I keep coming back to though: that’s the whole point. Every letter sound, every decodable book, every night of reading aloud was always building toward this exact thing, a kid who doesn’t need me there to open a book and disappear into it.
Watching that chapter close is bittersweet. It’s also exactly what all of it was for.
If you’re deep in the letter sounds and decodable books stage right now, wondering when this happens for your kid: it’s coming. And when it does, it’s one of the best, and strangely hardest, moments you get as a parent.
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