03/04/2026
Dear Single,💐❤️
Please 🙏🏼 Read this powerful message 🔥🔥🔥
Dear Single, 💐❤️
*******DON’T LISTEN*******
You see this photo right here, I was about 7months pregnant with Sam.
I will tell something that was commonly said about me this time.
I was in Ontario (I live in Regina but travelled to Ontario to have my daughter) and there I stayed with my big mummy. Whenever her friends visited, they would say “this small girl, already pregnant? Na wa oh”
My big mummy would then tell them “no, she is married oh, over a year now sef”
Then they would be like “wow! She’s so young.”
My big mummy would then say “she’s already thirty-something “ 😂🤣🤣 just to say I am not a small girl nor too young 😂
She would give a very big number lol 🤣
Now, let me take you back ;
When I was single in Nigeria, many people would ask me “Sister Esther, when are we coming to eat wedding rice ooh?” OR “Sister Esther, when is the day? We are ready with our shoes and clothes ooh” etc., and these questions kept coming BUT I never listened.
Why?
Because I don’t OWN my time, God does. I have never owned my time, God has always had it.
He is God, remember?!
I don’t even know what I’m doing sometimes, but he knows exactly how to figure it out and make it work.
From this story, learn something important; When I was single, to some people, I was getting old.
When I got married and became heavily pregnant, to some people, I was suddenly too young and looked like a child, who is already pregnant.
So which one is it?
The point is not my age. The point is not my height. The point is not how I looked.
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The point is this: PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS TALK!
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If you are single, they will talk.
If you get married “late,” they will talk.
If you get married “early,” they will talk.
If you have children quickly, they will talk.
If you delay having children, they will talk.
So you must decide whose voice matters.
Don’t listen to JUST any report or any voice.
Look for the voice of God and his report concerning you. In the scriptures, we have been asked :
“Whose report will ye believe? We shall believe the report of the Lord.” [Isaiah 53:1]
Dear Single, CHOOSE to believe God’s timing over people’s opinions!
I did not defend myself.
I did not argue.
I did not panic.
I smiled and allowed God to handle my story.
I prayed and watched God work behind the scene.
I trusted him and let him handle the rest.
And He showed up!
He brought my husband at the right time.
Not too early, not too late.
At the right time.
The Bible affirms that:
“He hath made every thing beautiful in his time.” [Ecclesiastes 3:11]
Not in their time.
Not in family pressure time.
Not in society’s timeline.
In His time. 👌🏻
When you let God do the work instead of complaining, instead of comparing, instead of forcing, He will show up in ways that silence voices without you saying a word.🤗
“The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.” Exodus 14:14 🙏🏼
Instead of listening to people, listen to Him.
Instead of absorbing their pressure, absorb His promises.
Instead of adjusting your life to satisfy commentary, align your life to satisfy calling.
Because when God writes your story, it will confuse critics and glorify Him at the same time. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I pray for you today, that you will not rush because of external pressure, but trust God so deeply that when He finally shows up in your story, you will know it was worth every ignored voice.
You will not miss it in Jesus name, amen. 🙏🏽
God bless you ❤️❤️❤️
Written by
Esther Airebanmen
