Esther and Joshua

06/17/2025

Dear Singles Series 💐❤️ is back!
You need to read this! 🙌🏼✅✅

Dear Singles, 💐❤️

It has come to my notice that many of our ‘’Christian’’ singles are doing the most.

They now beg men to stay or change their standards to keep men in their lives.

They now drop their salvation and holiness, to make sure they don’t lose that person.

They now turn their faces away from God in order to keep a woman or man from walking away.

They now change churches just because they want to win the heart of a guy or lady.

They now change from dressing modestly to dressing seductively in order to attract «a man ».

They now change the colors of their hairs and even wear hairdos, burst their ears, just to win a lady over.

They now build bodies and six packs instead of building their spiritual lives and thirsting for the power of the Holy Ghost, just to win a lady’s heart.

They now write love poems and love songs, instead of writing down what the Spirit says, just to blend in into the world.

They now wear tight skirts and paint their lips, neglecting the fact that their hearts are straying away, just because they want to attract men.

Why do they do this?
TIME!

They feel if they don’t change these things and do it their way, then time will pass them by. They would remain single for ever.

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Ohh!!!! We don’t to STRESS! 🤦🏻‍♀️We don’t need to do all these at all. 🙄

If he has said it, we only need to trust Him because He will do it. We ought to be STILL and know/see that He is GOD! 🙌🏼


Have we forgotten ?

God does not lie.
He does not repent.
He does not forget.
He cannot leave you stranded.
He cannot abandon you.
He cannot forsake you.
He cannot let you be dejected.

He sees
He knows
He feels your pain, sorrows, worries, regrets, depression, etc

God has you in his BOOK OF REMEMBRANCE and in His book of records.
You are on His mind!
You are on His list.
You are in His heart.

✅ This message is a REMINDER for someone who keeps forgetting that GOD is a Father who NEVER forgets. 👌🏻

I pray for you, that you will not miss your way nor be deceived by the enemy!
God will bring His will and word to pass in your life in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼

06/12/2025

Marriage is TEAMWORK!
Together, you achieve MORE.
Don’t let anyone fool you. Your marriage can be BEAUTIFUL ! 😍

03/11/2025

Dear Christian Single, 💐🤍
This might help you 👌🏻

02/03/2025

Dear Christian Single,💐🤍

Dear Single, 💐❤️

These are some of the reasons why the answer to your prayers to know his will may be delayed or not even be given:

1. You are not born again

If you still live in sin, God will not hear your prayer because he does not hear a sinner when he prays (John 9:31).
Ask for mercy and repent so he can have his way in your life.

2. You have an idol in your heart

This is when you keep someone in your heart, someone you love, someone you have developed feelings of likeness or love for, someone you are attached to. God cannot speak to you the truth you seek if you keep an idol in your heart. He says he will answer you according to the multitude of your idol. (Ezekiel 14:4)
Pray out every idol so he can have his way.

3. You have unbelief or doubt
This is one of the most common things that hinder or delay answers to prayers. It will be difficult for miracles to happen if there is doubt or unbelief. (James 1:6-8).
You need to cast out unbelief and let God have his way.

4. Lack of discernment
When you are unable to discern the voice of the devil and the voice of God, it will be hard to know when he is speaking to you. You need to pray first, that God gives you the grace to know his voice and after you have known how and when he speaks to you, then you can pray for his leading.

5. Being unstable
If as a”Christian”, you keep falling and rising, it will be hard for you to keep a good relationship with the Father whereby he can freely reveal things to you. You could be clouded with carnality and other cares of this life which will hinder you from having time enough to spend with God.
Discipline yourself so that you can get right with God and maintain a good relationship with him, in order to hear him when he speaks to you.

6. Double standards
If you have double standards, it’s a clear sign that you are not saved. God does not deal with those who serve him today and serve other gods or other things tomorrow. Steadfastness and Faithfulness counts before God.
You have to remain steadfast, faithful and true, not having double standards (hypocrisy).
God cannot hear your prayers if you are hypocritical or pretending to be a Christian when you are not.
Choose God today and find peace and clear answers to your prayers.

7. Worldliness and lust
If you desire the things of this world more than the things that are eternal, it is a sign of carnality and a sign that your heart is overcharged with surfeiting and cares of this life (Luke 21:34). It will be very hard for God to speak to you or for you to hear him speak when he does, if your heart is full of the desires of this world.
Surrender your hearts and thoughts to God and let him purge you of lust, so he can have his way and lead you right.
God cannot dwell where sin and unrighteousness is. Jesus has paid the price for our sins, let his blood cleanse you and make you whole.

God loves you and wants His best for you, however, he cannot give you his best if you are not willing to receive it.

Allow God take over your life and entire existence, so he can bring all his promises to pass in your life without any interference or delay.

I pray the Lord will deliver you from every evil work and set things right in your life in Jesus name, amen.

God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️

Written by:
Esther Airebanmen

01/20/2025

Dear Singles Series 💐❤️

Dear Single, 💐❤️

I am writing to drop some piece of advice.

Marry a believer (someone who is genuinely saved, converted and who serves God whole heartedly).
The fear of the Lord will give your spouse the wisdom to play his/her role in the house.

Marry someone who loves God more than anything or anyone else, so that God can teach him/her how to love you right.
Marriage is sweeter when you have a loving spouse. You GLOW always! 🥰🥰🥰

Marry a praying spouse who would rather fight the enemy in prayer and not fight you when issues arise.
A praying spouse will always win your battles without having to fight you.

Marry a defender who will defend you and not be defensive when the time comes.
It is joyful to have a spouse who speaks on your behalf and cover you. 😇

Marry a spouse who listens to you, your needs and listens to your heart even when you don’t say a word. He chooses to understand your silence and pursues peace.

Marry a spouse who loves at all times, even when you are in the wrong.
Although, this does not mean you should not admit your wrong when necessary and make sincere apologies needed.
A humble spouse, full of meekness will enhance a peaceful home. 🤗

Marry a spouse who is supportive, not only when it comes to finance but who can help do house chores and any other thing you need him/her do.
A help meet is a better soul mate. 👌🏻

Marry a spouse who communicates with you in LOVE. A spouse who speaks kind words to you and never looks down on you is worth the wait.

Marry in the Lord, and keep giving him control over your household, your life and your spouse.

Jesus has always been and is still is and will always be interested in and support GODLY AND LASTING MARRIAGES.


God hates divorce (if you are married to your first husband/wife who has never been married before to anyone else), so if you want to get it right, just GET IT RIGHT!

I pray for all the singles reading this, that the Lord will guide you and give you discerning spirit to choose the right person who is a true child of God. 🙏🏼

May you not miss the perfect will of God for you in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼

Follow us for more blessed messages! 👌🏻✅
Written by:
Esther Airebanmen

God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

01/10/2025

Dear Christian Single, 💐🤍
God is READY to answer you and that’s why this video is out there for you 🙏🏼

God is always moved to do things when we thank Him and Praise for them, especially when he has not done those things.Our words are powerful and when we confe...

01/03/2025

Dear Christian Single, 💐❤️
Your wedding is coming soon 🥳💃🥳

01/01/2025

Dear Singles, 💐❤️
Readddddd🔥🔥
Don’t miss out this 2025 🙏🏼

Dear Single,💐❤️

I had my first relationship about a year after Ruth, my twin got married.

The guy was not all that bad (character-wise), was financially stable and he was also not bad looking.

We were in a long distant relationship. I said Yes to him after 7 months of knowing him, BUT it did not last.

On December 31 of that year, he broke up with me for reasons best known to him.

When I mentioned that he “broke my heart”, he told me “how could I say that? The relationship was barely 2 months” and that moment I knew he was only passing time with me.
He gave reasons that were not reasons just to go.
This was the same person who had told me he prayed and was sure it was God’s will.
I took time to pray too and I got strong confirmations that he is the one too, BUT as the man said he is not interested, Wetin I go do? Nothing. I let GO! 🙌🏼
It did hurt and affected me badly but I did not push nor try to get him back.

At some point, I felt like I was the problem or perhaps something was wrong with me.

I tried to commit su***de on a particular day but then one of my beautiful younger sisters (not biological) came and God spoke through her to me.
She told me he was having a time of his life and I should get over it.

It was tough but I did - after he got married 😂😂

I began to process it all and understood that if someone is not His will for you, he/she will go but if it is, he will stay.


A year later, he got married to a very beautiful woman and today they are blessed with lovely kids. His marriage is beautiful 😍

Abi what were you expecting? 😜🤪
lol 😂

So, what about me?

Well, I got married too and God has blessed my marriage beautifully 😍🥰😍🥰

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My point in all this:

That he left you is NOT the end of the world.

That she walked away after all you did for her and her family is not the end of it all.

That he broke his promise to you does not mean life is over for you.

That no one else seems appealing to you now does not mean you will not have anyone you will love and marry tomorrow.

It does not also mean that the person who broke your heart will face hard times.

If he or she was not God’s best for you, then he just saved you from being in the wrong place.

It is better to be in the will of God then out of it.

Yes, pain comes, sorrow comes, but JOY too is coming.

The difference is TIME.

To overlook the difference, FOCUS on God!
He RUNS time.
He controls everything.
He knows the END from the Beginning.

This is his promise I am bringing to you again today:
“For I know the thoughts I think towards you, says the Lord; thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”

And God has said :
Isaiah 43:19 KJV ->> “Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.”

God will settle you WELL.

His word says “He makes all things beautiful in His time.”
Your time is coming, sis.

Your time is coming my brother.

Stop hurting!
Stop aching!
Stop brooding!
Stop worrying!
Stop counting the bad times, but instead, start counting the good times.

As a matter of fact, pick a date for your wedding this year.

FAITH IT! Grow your FAITH on it and watch God bring it pass. 🙌🏼🤍✝️🤍

Your days and years of waiting are coming to an end, in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼

God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Written by:
Esther Airebanmen
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Christian Motivational Writer ✍️

01/01/2025

Dear Singles💐❤️

Dear Single, 💐❤️

As a twin, my twin sister got married 3 years before I did.

The years were not so easy for me. I had so many questions because both of us once mentioned that we would marry the same day, but God has designed the dates to be that apart.

I had some persons mock me to my face that I was full of myself, carried myself with too much importance and that’s why I was single:

People can say things oh! 😦

I had some men insult me because I turned them down.

I had one tell me I will remain like that because I refused to date him.

In the midst of all the men that came my way, one was a childhood friend who was not even close to “spiritual” - he was not born again, but he never spoke ill about me.
He said very good things that I never even thought of, about myself.

When God finally brought my husband, my friend told me to tell him to take care of me because I deserve it.

He is happy for me today that I married a believer.
To think that most of the men that talked are so called “believers” even made me to be more careful as to who I take seriously, or take to God in prayer.

I kept my faith and trusted God.

God did it! It happened at an unexpected moment.
God is God and will always be God!

Who says, when God has not spoken?! 🔥

All those who kept loosing lips and saying all stuffs were shut up by my wedding IV few days to the date.

May God shut your enemies up by giving you what theyEsther Airebanmend never have, in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼

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Listen, in this 2025, let them talk!

People have mouths, let them keep it busy saying stuffs while you get on your knees and settle with God.

Don’t let words affect you.

Keep your focus 🧘

Study your Bible and grow yourself spiritually.

Prepare yourself for your groom/bride to come.

God has gone ahead for you and He will not be late.

May 2025 be your year of testimony, in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼

Happy New Year fam! 🥳🎉🥳
It’s a year of JUBILEE!
You will celebrate! 🙌🏼🎉💃

God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Written by:
Esther Airebanmen


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12/30/2024

Dear Singles,
Learn and be blessed! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

12/25/2024

Merry Christmas Fam! 🎄🎁🥰