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The NeuroDadverse My name is Stephen Burke. I’m a military veteran. I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD for years.

I’ve been struggling with ADHD in my relationships regulating emotions, rejection sensitivity, burnouts too

“ I am different , not less.”
Temple Grandin

04/30/2026

With school ending soon. Your kids need to let structure go and have fun. Let them be kids! Let them explore, have a life outside 4 walls. Of course they don’t listen for homework. They need to learn outside.

04/30/2026
04/28/2026

My executive functioning is not mine. Or at least it’s not accessible. It’s like the bank. It’s open when you need nothing, closed when you are desperate for flow with no atm around unless you use credit. It works. Just takes more effort. It’s ok.

04/28/2026

~The Day I Realized My Restless Legs Might Be ADHD Too~
I met a guy in a waiting room who couldn’t keep his foot still. Same rhythm my legs do at night, the one that turns my sheets into sandpaper. We joked, and he said, “Mine’s ADHD. Thought it was just nerves.” He only mentioned the leg thing, but it stuck with me all day. Here are four body signs I started noticing in myself afterward.
Your Stomach is Always a Mess
Constant nausea, IBS symptoms, random stomach pain that doctors can't explain. Turns out your stomach and brain are way more connected than anyone tells you. When your ADHD nervous system never gets a break, your digestion goes haywire. I spent years eliminating foods thinking I was allergic to everything.
Restless Legs That Won't Quit
That uncontrollable urge to move your legs, especially when you're trying to wind down or fall asleep. Your body craves stimulation 24/7, even when you're exhausted. The fidgeting doesn't stop just because you want to rest.
Jaw Clenching and Tension Headaches
Waking up with a sore jaw, constant headaches, maybe even TMJ pain. All that mental effort to focus, mask your symptoms, or manage anxiety shows up as physical tension. Your jaw becomes a stress ball you can't put down.
Skin That Overreacts to Everything
Light scratches turn into angry red welts. Clothing tags feel like sandpaper. Your skin freaks out over the smallest touch. It's called dermatographia and it's linked to your nervous system being hypersensitive to literally everything.
The worst part was feeling like a hypochondriac. Every doctor visit felt like I was making things up because the tests were always fine. Learning these were ADHD symptoms, not separate medical mysteries, was honestly life changing.
I'm starting to think our bodies keep the score in ways we never realized.

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