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Just an AuDHD teacher using somatic activities to provide AFFIRMING and AFFORDABLE care to neurodivergent adults / teens and to help them develop their personal skills
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09/24/2025

Alright folks, unhinged theory time!!

(Yes, this means I Bee am proposing a 100% untested theory, a conclusion to absolutely be disproved that has no scientific data behind it because I not have a degree, resources, or a team behind me to prove it. Regardless, the information is being put out into the world for your consideration because 1) critical thinking exercises are important and 2) someone reading this may have those requirements and decide this is a worthy angle to pursue).

The theory: "Neurotypical is a misnomer, and in fact that there are far less neurotypicals out there than we realize; furthermore, it is incredibly likely they are in the minority, not the majority."

The Data: Neurodivergences that have been labeled at this time as per the DSM-5.

15% Dyslexia
12% Dysgraphia
5% Dyscalculia
1% Auditory Processing Disorder
3% Visual Processing Disorder
10% Sensory Processing Disorder
7% Dyspraxia
1% Tourette Syndrome
1% Autistic
6% ADHD
10% Oppositional Defiant Disorder
2% Synesthesia
0.01% Down Syndrome
3% OCD
2% Bipolar
2% BPD
3% CPTSD
1% Schizophrenia
1% Dissociative Identity Disorder
3% Antisocial Personality Disorder
5% Narcissistic Personality Disorder

These numbers have been taken from global averages and the median score selected for the ones given as a percentage range - the reality is that the actual numbers are generally higher than this and depending on the region of the world may be as much as doubled. While this neurodivergent list is extensive it is not exhaustive and therefore some numbers may be missed!

Some further things to keep in mind with this data:

1) This is based on officially diagnosed and reported numbers; for a wide variety of factors each of these neurodivergent types will have significantly more unreported people.

2) While the numbers may be different due to misdiagnosing, in reality almost none of these neurodivergents will be misdiagnosed as neurodivergent instead of neurotypical, thereby skewing the individual numbers but not the argument of neurodivergent versus neurotypical numbers.

3) There absolutely will be some overlap between multiple neurotypes which will affect the argument of neurodivergent versus neurotypical and make it harder to prove my theory.

4) Neurodivergent numbers are continuously increasing due to acquired neurodivergence such as brain trauma - and something else to bear in mind is that all of the numbers listed above is EXCLUDING neurodivergent trauma responses which actually ALL neurotypes experience in one way or another (example: depression and anxiety).

So all this to say....

You're gonna tell me that 96% of neurodivergent behaviors have such a degree of overlap that they only make the suspected 25% of all neurodivergent folk? Nobody else finds this incredibly sus?

The "neurotypical" neurotype should not be called "neurotypical" because there are more of them than neurodivergents.

This is flawed logic implemented by researchers from the last hundred years that is increasingly disproven with each day that passes.

Neurotypical could perhaps be called that because when you look at all the different spectrums of neurodiversity out there, neurotypical is the only one that can fall on a singular spectrum; the others can all fall on at least two neurodivergent spectrums.

To say it is a misnomer is beyond an understatement.

Except as it turns out, there are most likely NOT as many neurotypicals as we think there are.

15% Dyslexia
12% Dysgraphia
5% Dyscalculia
1% Auditory Processing Disorder
3% Visual Processing Disorder
10% Sensory Processing Disorder
7% Dyspraxia
1% Tourette Syndrome
1% Autistic
6% ADHD
10% Oppositional Defiant Disorder
2% Synesthesia
0.01% Down Syndrome
3% OCD
2% Bipolar
2% BPD
3% CPTSD
1% Schizophrenia
1% Dissociative Identity Disorder
3% Antisocial Personality Disorder
5% Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Don't forget to include ALL neurodivergent folks! (These numbers have been averaged on a global scale and taken as a lower median - the reality is that the actual numbers are generally higher than this and depending on the region of the world may be as much as doubled. Many neurodivergent types may not be listed in this data, further emphasizing how limited even this list is.)

And some things to keep in mind with this data:

1) This is based on officially diagnosed and reported numbers; for a wide variety of factors each of these neurodivergent types will have significantly more unreported people.

2) While the numbers may be different due to misdiagnosing, in reality none of these neurodivergents will be misdiagnosed as neurodivergent instead of neurotypical.

3) There absolutely will be some overlap between multiple neurotypes.

4) Neurodivergent numbers are continuously increasing due to acquired neurodivergence such as brain trauma - and something else to bear in mind is that all of the numbers listed above is EXCLUDING neurodivergent trauma responses which actually ALL neurotypes experience in one way or another (example: depression and anxiety).

So you're gonna tell me that 93% of neurodivergent behaviors have such a degree of overlap that they only make the suspected 25% of all neurodivergent folk?

Please.

Neurotypical is not called - read SHOULD not be called - "neurotypical" because there are more of them. This is flawed logic that is increasingly disproven every day that passes.

Replacement Theory:

Neurotypical could perhaps be called so because when you look at all the different spectrums of neurodiversity out there, "neurotypical" is the only one that can fall on a singular spectrum; the others can arguably fall on at least two different neurodivergent spectrums.

Now here's the important question:

WHY DOES THIS MATTER???

Because for too long we've lived in an ableist society that demands neurodivergents fit in, that accommodations and supports are provided for the purpose of survival and financial contribution more than they are provided to care for the quality of human life.

Changing the understanding of society to "most of us have needs that require being met" will allow for healthier supports to be put into place as society shifts towards the understanding that our quality of life should be a higher priority than our ability to produce.

09/24/2025

This is a far better written explanation than I can provide at this time as to why

A) CFD is not common and needs to be tested for before treating,

B) CFD may only apply to some autistics and in fact applies to non-autistics as well and needs to be studied better as to whether increasing folate is better for human beings in general versus autistic people specifically,

C) Genetic testing is inconclusive and should certainly not be experimented on nor implement a "treatment" without medical supervision, and that

D) NONE of this will change the fact a person is autistic.

We will still operate in the same way.

You will simply notice us less as we may develop a better tolerance for outside stimuli and therefore may be able to engage in emotion regulation techniques more easily.

It's not going to magically make us more verbal - removing stress is what will give us the opportunity to explore more communication.

It's not going to magically make us change our beliefs - we are still going to be outspoken about the patterns we recognize.

It's not going to make us more social or amicable - we are still going to need to recharge away from overstimulating people, we are still going to see things the way we currently do, we are still going to have different communication patterns than you, we are still going to take things literally; it is the removal of stress and the presence of emotional safety that is going to allow us to relax and naturally be ourselves, which ironically means you may actually see us "be more autistic" than normal.

None of this research is going to change who we are.

And that's the way it should be.

09/24/2025

What's really Exciting:

People wanting to know MORE about Autism.
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What's really Upsetting:

People in positions of power, making an announcement with NO SCIENTIFIC DATA TO BACK IT UP,

that once again blames Women/AFAB folks for what society deems "unfortunate."

(In this case, blaming mothers for Autism)

"If only those mothers had suffered fevers without taking medication their doctor told them to take, the children would be first class citizens!!" 🙄 (sarcasm)
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What I Am SO OVER:

Men contacting me to say, "But it's not just Tylenol. Acetaminophen is in SO MANY PRODUCTS so this needs more investigation!"
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Why I'm Over It:

Because Acetaminophen has already been extensively studied.

MANY scientific organizations like the National Institute of Health, the Yale School of Medicine, the American College of Gynecologists and Obstetricians, and the Cleveland Clinic have already released research,

to indicate that any link between Acetaminophen and Autism is a correlation and NOT a CAUSATION.

AND
Because we have men legislating women's bodies and they have no idea how those bodies work!

AND
Because researchers leave women OUT of medical studies.

AND
Even when researchers DO include women, they try to AVOID including pregnant people.

AND
Because men are allowed to grow up without understanding things like menstruation, pregnancy, birth, and breastfeeding.

Knowledge of the female body isn't considered IMPORTANT enough for schools to prioritize it!

So that means women have to spend a huge chunk of their lives educating others, and being written off as hormonal, weird, gross, and inhuman, by men.

AND
if ANY OF THESE MEN WITH PRIVILEGE would just talk to a woman/AFAB person who has been pregnant,--

they would realize that we are usually STRONGLY DISCOURAGED from taking OTHER products that contain Acetaminophen, during pregnancy.

Why??

Because those things ALSO contain ingredients

which either HAVEN'T BEEN STUDIED ON PREGNANT WOMEN,

or are KNOWN to be problematic for fetal development.
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Seriously??!

Ya'll think pregnant women are given pain relief, functional decongestants, and sleep aides during pregnancy??

Ha!

Name me one OB/GYN that says it's okay to (WHILE PREGNANT) take things like

Nyquil (contains Acetaminophen AND Alcoh*l)

Oxycodone or Percoset or Vicodin (contains Acetaminophen and Opiat*s)

Midol (contains Acetaminophen AND Caffeine)

Many forms of Robitussen and Triaminic (contains Acet. AND Pseudoephedrine)

Many forms of Theraflu and Mucinex (contains Acet. AND Phenylephrine) ??
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I am not a doctor.

I am NOT offering medical advice.

If you have medical questions you should ask YOUR doctor.
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I AM a person who has been pregnant,

who has had to read the labels on dozens of medications

and has had to call my OB about EVERYTHING I wanted to put into my body.

And yeah... wanna know what my OTC Pre-natal vitamin bottle said?

The vitamins my OB's office told me to IMMEDIATELY go purchase and start taking,
even though they didn't want to see me until 12 weeks of pregnancy (because OB's DONT generally see you, right when you discover you are pregnant!)??

The label said "May be harmful to pregnant women. Please consult a physician."

That's how LITTLE women are thought of and included.

Even our PREGNANCY VITAMINS have little warnings to tell us that NOBODY wants to accept liability for our children--
That WE must be the experts and advocates so that if something goes wrong, WE CAN TAKE THE FALL.
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Well..... I'm done taking the fall for everything.

I'm DONE shouldering the burden of preparing and cleaning up after the holiday feast,
when I'm not even given time to take a seat at the table and ENJOY the fruits of my labors.

In this case, Congress and the Executive Branch are the table...and I see too few women, taking their places.
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So let's get this straight...

Autism is genetic.

Women aren't the sole cause of Autism.

It takes TWO sets of DNA to create a human.
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And you know what??

Autism isn't even a bad thing, by itself.

It's just a different way of the brain processing information,

and relaying signals to help someone engage with their environment.

Every day, Autistics around the world...

sing
laugh
garden
program computers,
write poetry
invent things
curate artifacts
analyze specimens
teach
build Lego sculptures
care for the ecosystem
perform public health outreach
act in fun costumes
cook delicious food
draw comic book art
pay taxes
play Dungeons and Dragons
rescue animals
and care for children.

And Women, Autistic or Not??

We do all that stuff, too!!

So STOP ACTING LIKE BEING AUTISTIC IS THE WORST POSSIBLE OUTCOME FOR A CHILD.

And start SUPPORTING the Autistic and FEMALE people already on the planet,

who help make the world a more interesting, amazing, and inspiring place.
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**Note: See the WILD story about me, in the comments.

Everyone says they're accepting and fine with others "being weird"... Until they find a "weird" that they don't actually...
09/23/2025

Everyone says they're accepting and fine with others "being weird"...

Until they find a "weird" that they don't actually jive with, a "weird" that breaks their norms where they feel rubbed the wrong way, even if they can't quite put their finger on it.

But you want to know a secret?

There's a few reasons people may experience that disconnect:

1) they want to embrace weirdness for themselves but don't feel that they can so there is an envious sense of rejection

2) They actually have some social needs and sensory needs themselves, but they're not used to confronting that reality and so they label it as "well everyone should conform to this ideology" rather than recognizing that their own perspective is quite singular and not necessarily the perspective of even the mass necessarily the perspective of even the mass of neurotypicals.... (This also can even be a signal that the other person might be autistic themselves but very much in denial.)

3) They have their own understanding of rejection they don't want to experience for themselves, to the point that they may not even want to associate with the "weird" person.

So what does this mean for you if you're reading this as a self-identified allistic person?

You can accept that autistic people exist in exactly the way they need to and still also accept that we just might not be people for you to hang around.

That's valid.

And likewise don't be surprised when autistic people in your life choose not to hang around with you;

People who have a healthy understanding of what it means to actually accept people for who they are is the ultimate goal. That doesn't mean you have to like everyone in your circle, and it also doesn't mean you have to force yourself to have people you don't jive with in there either.

The Hard Truth About Autism Acceptance 👇👇👇

09/23/2025

.... Nor is it the Tylenol.

I can't believe I have to repost this just 2 days later with an amendment like this 🤦🙄🤦

Talk about the ultimate gaslighting technique to keep women in unnecessary pain 😮‍💨😡

09/22/2025

It's Missed Skills Monday!!!!!

(Should I be calling it "missed post Monday" at this point? 🤣🤣)

Guess what we're talking about? Vehicles!! Maintenance, do's and don'ts...

Come share yours!! 💜🐝♾️

Once you start going down one rabbit hole of neurodivergence, it's easy to inquire about the others and wonder: How do p...
09/21/2025

Once you start going down one rabbit hole of neurodivergence, it's easy to inquire about the others and wonder:

How do people in those communities communicate?

How do they see their own disability in or out of the disabled community?

Where are the overlaps with other neurodivergences, and how do you know for sure that you experience one and not the other?

So for those who may be following and are curious, this content creator was recommended to me by a neurodivergent friend who I see has addressed their own internalized ableism and can therefore be more likely to trust their recommendations.

As always, critical thinking is important to determine if new content is worth following: does this information delivered in this way appear to presume competence or incompetence for those community members? Does it advocate for them or for the people around them? Is it neuro-affirming or is it assimilation-based? Does it source its content, and can those sources actually be trusted?

Happy diving!

Are you dyslexic? Take this 12 question self assessment for adults to learn more about dyslexia and to see if you may be dyslexic. This is not a formal evalu...

09/21/2025

Just a creator making incredibly realistic things out of chocolate 🍫🚲

I know you may not feel like getting a drink of water, taking a break from scrolling, or stretching your legs.

It's okay if you don't. And it's also okay if you change your mind.

This is just a blip on your radar to reassure you that, only when you're ready, you'll figure it out.

One breath at a time 🤗🐝💜

09/20/2025

Maybe you're new to your autistic journey; maybe you're playing with the idea that you might be ADHD AND autistic; maybe you've known you're autistic since you were a kid and you've grown up with other people telling you you're "level 2 autistic."

So here's a blip on the radar to help you address some internalized ableism:

Autistic people... Don't use functioning labels - and "level labels" are only miniscutely better.

Yes, this is a generalization, not a declaration of every autistic person. Stay on topic here.

In general, autistic people who have done the work to look inward at the internalized ableism EVERYONE has, have rejected the concept of a functioning label, for a few reasons.

One of the big ones is that too many people are high-masking and unaware of "how autistic" they actually are, so saying that some are high-functioning or low-functioning:

1) Assumes incompetence where there is competence,

2) assumes perfection where there is struggle,

3) invalidates all autistic people's categorization of need (because how in the hell are you going to say a person who struggles to feed themselves after work is functioning, or that a person who lives with hypervigilant anxiety to manage their time blindness and is slowly killing themselves to do it is functioning, or a person who is nonverbal but then "miraculously uses a communication device one day" is not capable of looking after themselves in a supported environment?),

4) perpetuates the societal view that a person only has worth for what they financially contribute to the world.

Does everyone HAVE to do this work to get to these same conclusions?

Nope.

It's kind of like saying "does everyone have to do the work to address their internalized racism?" No, no one HAS to do it...

But they should. In their own time. In their own way.

And in the meantime people who need to will set boundaries so they're not negatively affected by those who won't.

09/20/2025

Autism is genetic. No matter how many "studies" you come across in your newsfeed talking about the "causation through pesticides, food dyes, chemicals, ingestion by birth mothers"...

It's wrong. Straight up. Beyond a doubt. Trust the actually autistic people who have done the healing work to break away from neurotypical programming...

Because the more they've dug into their autism and really understood what it means to be autistic, the more they've seen neurodivergent behaviors in the people around them.

And it's not just them; anyone who does the work to address their internalized ableism is potentially able to see the patterns.

"Oh that's just grandma... Of course she takes a mid-afternoon nap to recharge, she's done that forever."

"Uncle Joe even has a limited edition train set from 1962 that still runs and can tell you what trains are being used on the track today... But no, that's just his hobby."

"Aunt Sheila has a nose for knowing who's going to win the Sunday game. You ask her anything about baseball, she knows it."

"Cousin Jenny has always been a difficult child for Aunt Susan, always running away, screaming hysterically. Poor Aunt Susan, she could never get her Jenny to just calm down."

"My dad is a man of few words, he just likes to be in the room at family functions. But get a couple beers into him and he chats away!"

Believe me, IT'S THERE. It's been hiding in your family tree for decades and centuries.

These are also helpful do's and don'ts for those of us with auditory processing disorder in the fringes of the Deaf / HO...
09/20/2025

These are also helpful do's and don'ts for those of us with auditory processing disorder in the fringes of the Deaf / HOH communities!

HELPFUL:
- Establish eye contact - or get their attention before speaking
- ask them to repeat what they did hear
- rephrase with different words; sometimes certain words / sounds are more difficult to understand
- facilitate lip reading when possible (avoid talking while chewing, turn your face towards them, keep facial hair neat)
- enunciate when speaking
- use gestures, point, or a signed language if you both know some

NOT HELPFUL:
- shouting louder is not always better!
- saying "never mind"; this may end up leaving them feeling insulted and not good enough.
- repeating yourself like a broken record
- interrupting others in a group conversation
- excluding or ignoring them being rude never helps any situation (this includes taking over tasks for them as if they are not capable)
- exaggerating facial cues or sounds; please speak at a normal volume and pace.

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