She Comes First

She Comes First I create spaces for real, unfiltered conversations about midlife and perimenopause- and everything that comes with that. Curious, empathetic, zero judgement.

The messy, the shame, the guilt, the realizations. The shifts most people don’t talk about.

Any. Time. You. Want.This midlife, perimenopause f**kery is actually kind of empowering. You can be strong, capable, and...
09/08/2026

Any. Time. You. Want.

This midlife, perimenopause f**kery is actually kind of empowering. You can be strong, capable, and grateful for your life- but also crave the longest break ever.

Perimenopause, midlife, motherhood, relationships, work… sometimes it’s just… a lot. A LOT, a lot.

You don’t have to turn every hard day into a lesson. Sometimes you just need to say, “F**k this s**t,” and go to bed. Byeeeeeeee.

This sound like you, too?

Oh I fully realize that September started days ago… I started this post before today,  if that counts😅My brain really su...
09/06/2026

Oh I fully realize that September started days ago… I started this post before today, if that counts😅

My brain really sucks some days… but I know I’m not alone in that. So happy you’re here, in it beside me.

I am hearing from friends that they are kind of getting overwhelmed with perimenopause information… almost annoyed… but thank gawd. We needed this knowledge!

Market intelligence singles out perimenopause as the fastest-growing demographic cohort, expanding at an 8.32% compound annual growth rate (whatever that means- but shows it’s on the rise).
HRT drug claims among women in their peak working years (ages 45 to 54) jumped by 228% over a five-year period!
This is good!

Women are doing perimenopause differently now. We’re doing the research. We’re learning about our bodies. We’re walking into appointments with questions, options and screenshots (I’m the worst for this) and saying, “Okay, here’s what I’ve been reading. Let’s talk about it.”

We don’t need someone to tell us exactly what to do. We need healthcare providers who will work WITH us while we figure out what’s right for our own bodies. We’re not interested in suffering just because the generations before us had to. They white-knuckled it because they had fewer options, less information and a whole lot less conversation.

We don’t get a medal for suffering- remember that s**t. Pride is not more important than feeling good in your own body.

If HRT is right for you, take the HRT.
If it isn’t, don’t. Maybe you wanna try it but the expense is insane and you don’t have coverage, you may be able to find things that take some edge off without having to pay out your ass.

Wanna try supplements, mindfulness, eating right? See if it helps? TRY IT! What works for one person doesn’t always work for someone else.

I’ve got loads of information from many sides. We’ll chat about it.

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You know when you need to talk about something, but you don’t necessarily want to talk to someone you know???That!!!You ...
09/05/2026

You know when you need to talk about something, but you don’t necessarily want to talk to someone you know???

That!!!

You can now book a 1:1 conversation with me through She Comes First. Come have coffee, tell me the whole story, and we’ll talk it out.

You’ll get a full hour to say what you ACTUALLY mean, sort through what’s been circling in your head, vent the tricky stuff and look at the situation from a different lens... I listen, ask random questions to make sure I’m following, help you untangle the mess, and give you my honest take! IF you even want it.

No judgment, no awkwardness.
No worrying about what I’m going to think of you.
I see you!

No program. No homework. No weird coaching s**t (unless you want that. I actually AM qualified😎).

Just a real, reflective conversation with someone outside your actual life!

In person or virtual

DM She Comes First and book your hour.

At this age, we really need to protect our peace and prioritize our mental health…
08/30/2026

At this age, we really need to protect our peace and prioritize our mental health…

08/29/2026

If you’ve ever thought, “Can we PLEASE talk about this?”
Hiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!

The weird s**t. The hard s**t. The s*x s**t. The relationship s**t. The hormone s**t. The “is anyone else feeling this?” s**t.

That’s pretty much what we do here.

Come sit with us. ❤️

You can be completely done with how things are and still be terrified of what happens next.Because even when “here” isn’...
08/28/2026

You can be completely done with how things are and still be terrified of what happens next.

Because even when “here” isn’t where you want to be anymore, you at least know what here looks like. The unknown? That’s a whole different thing.

You can want the change.
Fear the change.
And choose it anyway.

You’re not too old!!!Not for the big stuff.Not for the weird stuff.Not for the raw stuff.Not for the real stuff.Not for ...
08/26/2026

You’re not too old!!!

Not for the big stuff.
Not for the weird stuff.
Not for the raw stuff.
Not for the real stuff.
Not for the s*xy stuff.
Not for all the s**t you’ve secretly wanted to do for years!

Sooooo… what haven’t you done yet that you just might do??

Tell me. I want specifics!

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Midland, ON

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