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06/11/2026

06/11/2026

06/08/2026

I get so many parents asking me about masking in children, so here is a post about it.

Masking is often misunderstood, as many children who mask appear to be coping well on the surface. They may seem quiet, compliant, well-behaved, sociable, or highly adaptable. Yet beneath the surface, they may be working incredibly hard to hide parts of themselves in order to fit in, avoid judgement, reduce attention, or feel accepted.

Masking is often a survival strategy and a way of navigating environments that feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or unsafe.

Many children learn to study others, copy social behaviours, suppress emotions, hide differences, and constantly monitor how they are being perceived. Over time, this can become exhausting.

What often goes unseen is the emotional cost.

-The child who appears fine at school may come home completely drained.
-The child who seems confident may be constantly worrying about getting things wrong.
-The child who appears compliant may be carrying significant anxiety beneath the surface.

Masking can make it harder for children to understand who they truly are because so much energy is spent adapting to what they believe others expect of them.

As parents, carers, educators, and professionals, our role is not to encourage children to fit in at all costs.

It is to create environments where they feel safe enough to be themselves.

Because every child deserves to feel accepted not for who they pretend to be, but for who they truly are.

Keep shining,
Dr. Lalitaa ✨

06/07/2026

This might be one of the most important things we are not talking about enough as a society.

We pour billions into the criminal justice system, into addiction treatment, into mental health crisis intervention… and yet we still don’t prioritize teaching children how to understand and regulate their emotions. We treat the consequences but not the root.

Here’s what the research tells us:
❤️ Children who develop emotional regulation skills are less likely to turn to substances to cope with pain they don’t know how to process.
❤️ They are less likely to respond to conflict with aggression.
❤️ They are more likely to build healthy relationships, make thoughtful decisions under pressure, and navigate the inevitable hard moments of life without falling apart or hurting others.

Because when a child learns to sit with discomfort, to name what they’re feeling, to calm their nervous system instead of acting from it, they are building the most important life skill there is.

✨ Emotional regulation isn’t a soft skill; it’s a survival skill.

And it starts at home, in the small everyday moments. When you help your child name their feelings instead of dismissing them, when you stay calm during their storm instead of escalating and when you model what it looks like to take a breath, feel something hard, and choose your response instead of just reacting.

✨ You are not just raising a child; you are shaping the kind of human they will be in every room they walk into for the rest of their life. ✨

And that is not a small thing; that is everything! 💜

06/06/2026

Representation matters ❤️

Netflix have pulled together 6 movies and shows that celebrate the autism community — and it’s the watch list to bookmark.

🎬 Love on the Spectrum — Young adults on the spectrum navigate dating, from first-date nerves to real heartbreak, featuring people with both low and high support needs.

🎬 Atypical — Sam, an 18-year-old who loves art and penguins, wants more independence — while his whole family faces the question, “What even is normal?”

🎬 Extraordinary Attorney Woo — A heartwarming K-drama about a brilliant autistic attorney navigating a top firm and the courtroom in her own unique way.

🎬 Fern Brady: Autistic Bikini Queen — The Scottish comedian’s sharp, funny stand-up special on getting diagnosed as an adult and the oddities of neurotypical people.

🎬 Makayla’s Voice: A Letter to the World — A moving documentary short about a nonverbal teen who unlocks a whole world of self-expression through a letter board.

🎬 You Can’t Ask That — An award-winning docuseries where eight autistic people answer candid questions about everything from discrimination to eye contact.
As Michael from Love on the Spectrum put it: autistic people just learn things a different way.

Which one’s your favourite? 👇

Source: Netflix

05/31/2026

💚 May is Mental Health Awareness Month. 💚

Mental health, autism, sensory differences, and invisible disabilities are not always visible to the outside world.

Every person is fighting battles, facing challenges, or carrying experiences we may never fully understand.

Before judging, choose kindness.
Before assuming, choose understanding.

💙 Don’t judge what you don’t understand. 💙

A little compassion can change someone’s day—and sometimes even their life.

05/29/2026

Autistic kids are often missed (or misdiagnosed), and if I had to pick a number one reason, it would be that autism was dismissed because a person is socially motivated and friendly.

But Autistic people CAN be socially motivated and friendly. It’s not social = not autistic and asocial= autistic. When considering Autism, it’s HOW people are social. Which gets tricky, especially when people don’t know what they are looking for.

Other reasons many kids go undiagnosed:
• They internalize struggles and are quiet or “well behaved at school,” or like me, was viewed as the star student and teachers pet
• Smart kids and gifted kids can be (and are often) Autistic
• Kids who have inconsistent support needs- this can vary from day to day or setting to setting. Often Autistic kids do best in comfortable, familiar, and predictable environments
• Kids who already have a diagnosis which results in adults not looking deeper (ie ADHD, ID, Down syndrome, genetic disorders, anxiety, OCD, SPD, delayed communication, learning disorders, dyslexia, etc)
• Kids with high connection needs- seeking constant adult attention in an excessive or intense manner is actually a common autism trait, but people “rule out” autism because it’s socially based
• Kids who are hyper-verbal, spoke early, or talk a lot
• Kids who are highly in tune with emotions and have deep empathy - can still be autistic, and if it’s especially intense, is actually common in Autism

What would you add? ⤵️