Bella’s Journal

Bella’s Journal Just a girl who puts into words what she feels. I write what I can’t always express aloud. A collection of thoughts and lessons I’m still learning.

Some people don't go to church to change, they go to ease their guilt.It's easier to ask for forgiveness than to face th...
10/17/2025

Some people don't go to church to change, they go to ease their guilt.

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than to face the truth they've been avoiding.

They attend church every weekend,
yet come home unchanged
For them, religion has become a routine,
not a reflection.

—Bella

Some people won’t say “I love you” or “I’m proud of you,” but they’ll check if you got home safe, notice when you’re qui...
10/16/2025

Some people won’t say “I love you” or “I’m proud of you,” but they’ll check if you got home safe, notice when you’re quiet, or remember the little things you like.

They might tease you or act like it’s nothing, but that’s their way of showing they care. Often, the people who love you most aren’t the ones shouting it, they’re the ones who notice the small things and actually care.

—Bella

Have you ever wanted to tell someone mid conversation"Aye, I don't care."🎨pinterest
10/16/2025

Have you ever wanted to tell someone mid conversation

"Aye, I don't care."

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It’s weird how someone can be so close to you at one point, then slowly become a stranger.You see them online, and it fe...
10/15/2025

It’s weird how someone can be so close to you at one point, then slowly become a stranger.

You see them online, and it feels like you still know them, but you don’t. And maybe that’s the hardest part of growing up: realizing not everyone is meant to stay, even if they were once everything.

—Bella

A fresh graduate feels miserable because they haven’t landed a job yet.The one with a stable job feels stuck because the...
10/15/2025

A fresh graduate feels miserable because
they haven’t landed a job yet.
The one with a stable job feels stuck because their friend started a business.
The business owner envies someone who can actually sleep 8 hours without stress.
And the one who sleeps peacefully every night wishes they had more money.
Everyone wants what the other has but no one stops to value what’s already theirs.

A person renting an apartment,
dreams of buying a house.
The homeowner complains about maintenance and property tax.
The one with multiple houses feels tied down and wants freedom to travel.
The traveler misses the feeling of belonging somewhere. No one’s truly satisfied until they learn gratitude.

—Bella

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10/15/2025

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10/15/2025

POV: you said "one last slide"and that's when everything went wrong.

Ever notice how some people pray for peace but stay the loudest complainers?Always blaming others, always “the victim,” ...
10/15/2025

Ever notice how some people pray for peace but stay the loudest complainers?

Always blaming others, always “the victim,” always irritated but never self-aware.

Maybe it’s not your situation that God wants to fix. Maybe it’s you. Because what’s the point of asking for blessings if your attitude can’t handle them?

Growth doesn’t start when everything around you changes, it starts when you finally admit that maybe you’re also part of the problem.

—Bella

10/14/2025

The quality of your day is determined before you wake up.

One day we’ll talk about today. —Class 2021-2023
10/14/2025

One day we’ll talk about today.

—Class 2021-2023

Ever dated a loyal guy but somehow not truly present? He doesn’t cheat, but he also doesn’t really see you. You cry, an...
10/14/2025

Ever dated a loyal guy but somehow not truly present?

He doesn’t cheat, but he also doesn’t
really see you.
You cry, and he's unsure of what to say.
You talk, and he listens, but only halfway.
He’s physically there, yet emotionally?
Cold and distant.

It hurts because you’re constantly fighting to be noticed, while he acts like everything’s fine even when it isn't.

Sometimes, all a woman wants is to be understood. Guys, loyalty alone isn’t enough. Being faithful doesn’t mean you know how to love. Empathy, listening, and emotional presence, that’s what keeps a relationship alive.

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