02/09/2026
L…sa, Edmonton. Been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I’ve never had an or**sm with him. Not once.
I fake it every time. Make the sounds. Do the movements. He has no idea.
I’ve tried telling him what I like. Guiding him. Nothing works.
He’s just… not good in bed. But he thinks he’s amazing because I fake it so well.
Now I’m trapped in the lie. How do I tell him after 6 years that I’ve been faking?
He’d be devastated. Humiliated. Probably leave me.
So I keep faking. And I’m increasingly resentful.
I ma******te after he falls asleep. That’s my actual s*x life.
We’re talking about marriage. But how do I marry someone I’m s*xually incompatible with?
Do I tell him? Do I leave? Do I just accept a lifetime of bad s*x? Keep me anon.