04/15/2025
|•30 things I’ve learned the hard way—so you don’t have to repeat them•|
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1)Your mom always knows. Listen.
2)If you have a gift—don’t wait. Craft it NOW.
3)Sometimes your biggest haters sit closest to you.
4)Wear the damn hat. Sun damage is real.
5)Hate where you live? Move. Environment = frequency.
6)Your circle shapes your success. Would you trade places with your friends?
7)Don’t take advice from someone you wouldn’t trade lives with.
8)Job titles and degrees do not equal self-worth.
9)Being the “low maintenance girl” won’t get you what you need.
10)You won’t have it all figured out by 30—I still have no idea what I’m doing.
11)Chemistry is not love. Respect will take you much further.
12)Making money from fear = financial traps.
13)There’s no perfect time. EVER. Literally Just start.
14)Money is energy. Not a physical entity. If your alignment is off, it won’t flow.
15)Healing isn’t linear—it spirals, dips, and loops back.
16)Stop romanticizing struggle. Choose ease.
17)Growing up with brothers? Fastest way to understand boundaries and stand up for yourself.
18)Ignore your body long enough—Burnout will choose for you.
19)Your inner child isn’t a phase. It’s the truth of who you really are. Don’t neglect it.
20)“No” is a full sentence.
21)Your dream body probably weighs more than you think. Lift heavy.
22)Your 9-5 should be an asset, not the soul structure of your stability.
23)That phone in your hand can change your life. Use it well.
24)A different path from others doesn’t mean you’re behind.
25)Tap water is extremely dangerous. Get a filter or be one.
26)Call your grandma once a week.
27)Travel is your highest education. Book the trip.
28)30 min hot girl Walks are underrated therapy. Take one daily.
29)You do not need to forgive someone to move on fully. You simply just move on.
30)Attaching your identity to a diagnosis or passed trauma is a quick way to never advance in life.
30 Years young and still figuring out life.
How wild it is to truly be alive.
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