28/05/2026
Most underrated networking (and sales) move ↓
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You're almost never the top of anyone's priority. Especially when you're the one asking — for a coffee chat, for a referral, for a yes on an offer you're pitching, for feedback on your CV.
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Bankers are heads-down on live deals. Founders are running their company. Recruiters are juggling 200 candidates. Your message is one of 50 in their inbox that day, and it can genuinely just slip through.
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That's why the follow-up does so much work. It pulls your message back to the top of the queue without forcing them to dig.
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But how long should you wait? Leaving time between messages is a sign of respect. Don't chase every day — that signals desperation and gets you blocked.
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Rough rules I use:
- 1 week after a normal coffee chat ask: fine to follow up. It probably just slipped through.
- 2 weeks: definitely fine. By that point, silence is the signal.
- 2nd follow-up: double the wait. If your first nudge was after a week, give it two weeks. If it was after two, give it 3-4 weeks.
- 3rd follow-up: up to you. Try one last short message, or move on. No rule says you have to keep going.
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Even if it goes silent, the conversation is just paused.
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Come back when something genuinely changed and you have something new to bring. A year later you might have one or two IBD internships on your CV — that's the perfect moment to reach out again, show what you've executed since, and remind them you're still committed to that specific bank.
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Same person, same target — different candidate. That's a very powerful follow-up.
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Comment "NETWORK" and I'll send you my networking starter kit + elevator pitch template, plus free access to the How IB Ticks course overview.
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If you're new here: welcome to . I'm a former large cap M&A associate in Zurich. I quit last year, travelled, co-founded a cigar company, taught at two universities, and now help students break into Swiss investment banking via NeverBanked. Links in Bio.
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