15/07/2026
Meet Cheryl, the malevolent squatter living rent free in my head.
On the long road that is this weight loss, pregnancy, weight loss, maintenance weight loss, pregnancy and weight loss, I have learned to hear this voice, but not listen to it. The concept of our thoughts are not us is difficult for me to grasp at times, but personifying and externalising her helps to notice it and to also not pay as much heed to her whims nor suggestions.
Cheryl can also be my teacher, she’s my challenger. When she pipes up I can ask myself, what’s going on here, what do I need? And sometimes it’s just to tell her to p*ss off!
Have you named your malevolent brain squatter?
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