07/06/2025
TRUE STORY!💔😫
I met Samuel during my first year at the University of Bamenda.
Samuel and I were more than just friends; we were brothers. We shared everything, from our deepest secrets to our wildest dreams. We were inseparable, and our friendship was built on trust, respect, and a deep understanding of each other.
I was never really into relationships or dating. I was more focused on being myself, on my self-improvement, and on personal growth. I did not have time for romantic entanglements, and I was content with simply being me. But that did not mean I did not have female friends. I was social, outgoing, and I loved interacting with people, regardless of their gender. My female friends and I would hang out around Bambili, joke around, and have a good time, without any romantic expectations.
Samuel knew me well enough to understand that I was not interested in pursuing relationships. He would often joke about how I was too focused on being myself, and how I did not need anyone else. But when he started dating Samira, things changed.
At first, everything seemed fine. I would meet his girlfriend, and we would chat, laugh, and joke around like friends. Samuel would often join in, and we would have a great time together. But as time went on, I noticed Samuel becoming increasingly jealous. He would get annoyed when I would talk to Samira, or when we would laugh together. I did not think much of it, assuming he was just being protective.
On June 7th, 2024 (I will never forget this day)💔, Samuel confronted me, his voice shaking with anger. "You are trying to sn**ch my girl, are you not?" he accused, his eyes blazing with mistrust. I was taken aback, shocked that he could think such a thing. I tried to explain, to reason with him, but he would not listen.😫
"You are a betrayer, Prince," he spat, his words cutting deep. "You are a beast, using your charm to manipulate people." I felt like I had been punched in the gut, unable to believe what I was hearing. I tried to defend myself, to tell him that he was wrong, but he was not having it.
In the end, Samuel decided to cut me out of his life, telling his girlfriend not to contact me anymore. I was devastated, feeling like I had lost my best friend over a misunderstanding. I tried to reach out, to apologize for something I did not even do, but he blocked me on all fronts (all I wanted was a friend). 💔
The whole experience left me feeling hurt, confused, and wondering what I had done wrong. But it also made me realize the importance of surrounding myself with people who understand and support my values and goals. I refocused on my self-improvement journey, using the experience as a lesson in setting boundaries and being clear in my relationships.
What would you do if your best friend accused you of something you didn't do?
Pls follow Prince K. NFOR
