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23/06/2025

A wealthy man walked into a bar in Miami.

As soon as he walked in, he noticed an African (Black) woman sitting in the corner, went to the bar, grabbed his wallet, and yelled, "Bartender! I buy drinks for everyone in this bar except for that Black woman over there!"

The bartender collected the money and began serving free drinks to everyone at the bar except the African woman.

Instead of getting upset, the black woman just looked at the guy and yelled, "Thank you."

This angered the rich man. So again, he took out his wallet and shouted, "Boy!

This time I'm buying extra bottles of wine and food for everyone in this bar except for that African woman sitting in the corner!"

The waiter collected the man's money and began serving free food and wine to everyone at the bar except the African woman.

When the waiter came to serve the food and drinks, the African woman simply smiled at the man and said, "Thank you!" Which infuriated him.

So he leaned over the counter and asked the bartender, "What's wrong with this black woman... I've bought food and alcohol for everyone in this bar except for her, and instead of being mad, she sits there, smiles at me, and yells, "Thank you!"

Is she crazy?" The bartender smiled at the rich man and said, "No, she's not crazy. She owns this place."

By wanting to harm our neighbor, we often end up doing them good, without knowing it. May your enemies work in your favor without realizing it... Amen!

30/05/2025

No, man is an island. If you lack connection to the right people, you can't get a collection of the right money. And as long as you make yourself an island, you will also make your life a dry land. Reach out to people, and you will get rich. Work on your network, and your work will improve your net worth. Go to school, but don't just know your books; also know your people. Because it is who you know that will make you blow more than what you know.

26/05/2025

THE UNBELIEVABLE STORY OF MY ROOMMATE'S SUCCESS

I'll never forget the days when my roommate's constant laptop use had me convinced he was up to no good. Little did I know, he was secretly building a lucrative career that would leave me in awe..

I thought I was the smart one.
I was the go-to person in our circle - the one they affectionately called 'Guru'. I could ace exams without stress, calculate with ease, and even help my friends out with their assignments. It was a title I wore with pride.

But my roommate?
Was a mystery. He'd spend hours typing away on his laptop, looking like he was solving world hunger. I'd joke that he was an undercover agent, working on some top-secret mission.

What I didn’t know? He wasn’t into be.ting nor yah.oo like I assumed.

He was learning Tech.
Web dev, Video editing, Freelancing, Upwork, LinkedIn, UI/UX

While I was busy being popular,
He was busy preparing for life after graduation

I graduated with a smile while he graduated with offers.
I carried certificate, he carried currency and sabificate.

Now, I’m the one screenshotting motivational quotes.
I’m the one rewriting my CV for the 20th time . I am the one asking, How do I start tech?

He?
He’s somewhere in BONANJO earning in dollars, taking calls like, “Yes, the prototype is ready.”

And I’m here… borrowing 1000XAF to buy data…To apply for a job that pays less than his weekly freelance gig.

Let me burst your brain:

Life will never reward you for being brilliant in class, if you’re useless outside class.

Skills are no longer a bonus.
They’re survival.

And if you don’t wake up now, life will serve you a hot breakfast, no bread, no tea.

So if you’re laughing at someone learning tech, building a brand, or networking online?

Keep laughing.
But remember:
One day, you might need to borrow data from them… just to apply for a job they rejected.

26/05/2025

My mom used to cook beans, but before she cooks the beans, she picks the bad and useless beans and throw them at the backyard whilst she cook the good beans. But when it rains, the bad beans becomes seed and grows up and looks beautiful. The same person who threw them away start to harvest them. She realises that the beans she threw away has VALUE. Don't cry when people THROW you at the BACKYARD, don't cry when people REJECT you, don't cry while they are LOOKING DOWN on you. The RAIN is coming and the same people who are REJECTING you today will beg to HARVEST you tomorrow. This is your week of ELEVATION.

21/05/2025

🌟Very important mistakes to avoid when planning a wedding🌟

1) Hire an MC that fits your audience. Some MCs end up talking nónsénse during an event, and that can be embarrassing for your guests.

2) Most wedding attire is worn once. Don't buy to impress, buy according to your budget. Guys, you can go for black or brown shoes that you can wear beyond the wedding day. Ladies, choose dresses and shoes that fit well, don't let the seIIer's compliments cloud your judgment. Choose attire that fits perfectly.

3) Don't fix a gréédy person in charge of food.

4) Give the DJ your playlist to avoid music that doesn't resonate with you.

5) Hire two photographers. Don't depend on one camera to avoid disappointment.

6) When shopping for wedding items, avoid mentioning it's for a wedding so they don't charge you more.

7) Don't borrow money for a wedding expecting donations to cover it. People might disappoint, and you could end up in debt.

8) Don't let people rush you. Relax and enjoy the photo shoot. They are memories you will treasure forever.

9) Some people, even family members or your spouse, might try to ruin your mood on your special day. Decide to stay happy no matter what.

10) Make sure you trust the person handling the money you're given.

11) Book vendors on time. Avoid last minute pressure.

12) Be careful of people who promise free services. They might disappoint.

13) Don't assign a job to anyone who doesn't like you. They might sabotage it.

14) Communicate effectively with your partner and plan according to your joint budget. Don't spend to impress. After the party, everyone goes home, leaving you with the bills.

15) Know the doctrine of the church where you're getting married to avoid unnecessary drama.

16) Arrive on time.

17) Don't let others opinions overshadow your own desire.

18) Don't give jobs to people out of familiarity or pity. Hire those who are capable.

19) Make sure you walk down the aisle with someone who truly loves you. Always realize that people have different reasons for getting married. Someone can marry because they want to get a job or money. Someone can marry because age is not by their side, they need kids, they need a housekeeper, they need a séx partner, for rituáI purpose, appointment and societal expectation. People get married for many Sélfish reasons these days. Make sure you're married to someone who truly loves you.

21/05/2025

20/05/2025

Facts about relocating to a new neighborhood/environment

1) When moving into a new environment, move in at night rather than during the day. This can help prevent unwanted attention. It will also keep intruders or unwanted observers from assessing your belongings.

2) Pay bills on time, it commands respect.

3) When you move into a new compound, you'll likely encounter people who are overly eager to become your friend. Avoid them, they can become a problem soon.

4) As a woman, avoid the hair salon close to your house, if you value your privacy. Your personal matters might be discussed there.

5) Avoid over familiarity with neighbours. The moment you start, it's hard to withdraw.

6) Avoid embarrassing your partner in public. Instead, praise them in public, but caution them in private. Public humiliation can lead others, including neighbours, to belittle your partner.

7) Avoid attending a nearby church if you don't want constant visits and extra responsibilities.

8) Have your own space for drying clothes. Avoid using your neighbour's drying line. It may lead to misunderstanding one day.

9) Be mindful of the personal items you display. Some neighbours might borrow them repeatedly, not because they can't afford them, but because they like getting things for free.

10) Avoid people who ask you to avoid others. They often have a bád character that will uncover soon.

11) When you want to play music, play it low. When you want to pray, pray quietly, don't disturb others.

12) If you have kids, caution them. Kids can cause you to have issues with your neighbours.

13) There are neighbours who see greeting as their birthright. They'll never greet you but always expect you to greet them first. When you notice such an attitude from a neighbour, sometimes don't greet, just walk past.

14) Avoid too much borrowing.

15) Don't discuss family problems or weaknesses with a neighbour unless the person is extremely mature. It can lead to see finish.

16) Avoid sexûal relationship with your neighbours. It usually doesn't end well.

17) Avoid a compound where the landlord or landlady lives on the premises unless you know their character is good. Otherwise, they might impose annoying rules and increase rent when they notice your progress.

18) If the house is managed by a caretaker, ensure your rent reaches the landlord. Communicate directly with the landlord, even if they live abroad, to avoid misappropriation of your funds.

16/05/2025

As you may know, one of the charges filed against Diddy is arson.

In 2011, during a freakoff session, Diddy looked at Cassie's phone and saw a chat between her and rapper Kid Cudi.

He picked up a cork opener and launched at her face - luckily, she avoided it.

She said she had to get out and was relieved to wrap up the f-off, which was almost impossible on other days.

Then he threatened to expose her.
He told Cudi in a mail he'd h¥rt him, that he'll be out of town when it'll happen.
He said he'll bl∆w up his car and he wanted his (Cudi's) friends to see it.

You know, mafia boss tone.

She spent time in Connecticut with her family and Cudi.

However, she broke up with him citing that she had so much going on and she didn't feel it'll be safe for neither of them, because Diddy was unstoppable.

Guess what?
She went back to Diddy's house.

He continued to kpokpo her as if he was obsessed with kpokpoing her.

One time they went to Jamaica, he blacked her eye, she said she didn't remember why.

Then, the security guard would text her saying "it's time to put some ice on your face."

Pictures of her with a golf ball sized knot on her head, black eye, bruises, shaved hair, and the gashed eyebrow that was stitched up by a plastic surgeon that Diddy arranged for - they were all shown in court.

And true to his words, he had Cudi's car blown up in his driveway. Hence, the arson charge filed against him.

DIDDY THE P∆NI*SHER

Yup, the name because no one around him was spared.

They asked Cassie if she'd seen him being vawulent with other people, she said assistants, employees, mentioned one Eli guy he p∆πched at the back of the head.

He tried to go through a female assistant's phone, she said no, he whooped her a*z and dr*a-gg-ed her out of bed.

He also caused Cassie to lose friends.
One of them, a makeup artist came over. He b # the h€,ll out of her, picked her up and held her over the balcony as if he was going to drop her.
Then threw her back to the patio furniture.

She and her best friend of 17 years parted ways because one day at the house, he came in and saw them about to do dr∆gs.
He quietly picked up a wooden hanger and h|t the friend at the b@_ck of her h€ad with it.

They asked how she was getting the opioids she was using at the time.

She said Diddy had doctors he was cool with that'll write the prescriptions.

She was never short of supply, even though she was sleepwalking and had seizures from it.

They'll get the d√ug with the name of whoever hadn't used their name before in his team.

Pay attention to his INFLUENCE.

Along the line she started dating her current husband and personal trainer Alex Fine.

Diddy wasn't having it.

They showed another exhibit in court - a picture of her apartment with a knife etched into her door.

She said it was for Diddy because he kept coming to her house unannounced.

Now this is the part where her husband Alex was removed from the courtroom.

I'll explain.

The previous day, he mostly sat at an angle facing Diddy while she was giving her testimony.

In anger, he said he was going to fck Diddy up, and so this triggering part of the testimony was best said without him in the courtroom - for the safety of Diddy

ALEX OUT, CASSIE DROPS BOMBSHELL

While dating Alex, one day she met up with Diddy for a dinner date.
You know, reunion with an old flame. He said "we can't just let go of a 10-year relationship."

After the date, Diddy came back to her house and did the 'r-word'.
The forceful entry took place in her living room.

He c inside her and left.

He was upset that she was with Alex, already he'd been threatening her saying she should give him his money.

The money in question was due to his paying Alex to be her personal trainer and he was kn@cking her.

So he believed she owed him for that while threatening to expose her.

That explains the forceful act at her house.

It gets more interesting.

She said she was intimate with him one more time after they went to a party.
Reason being, they were together for 10 years and she still loved him. And she wanted it.

In 2023, she was having horrible flashbacks and tried to kpai herself.

She believed her kids would be better off with Alex
So she left the house and tried to j into traffic.

It was the year of the lawsuit.

Though her initial plan was to write a book.

When asked why, she started crying,
"I wanted him to read it, I really wanted him to understand what he put me through, he just wasn't listening".

Diddy was informed about her book plan. He said nobody would believe her; no one would care.

They asked her why she went through all of that.

Still crying, she said it was his personal shame, she was trying to protect him from that.
But he was taking out his inner demons on her.

She told Diddy directly,
"You fr # me out and dru§§ed me out at 22. I just want you to hear me and apologize.
Why did you do that to me? I didn't want that."

THE SETTLEMENT
Remember, most of this came out in 2023 in her lawsuit.

She told the court she wanted to be paid for her time and pain, hence the $30m lawsuit.

They asked why the amount, she said "No reason. I wanted to get his attention. You're gonna run me 30 million." 🤣🤣

Did you settle?
She said yes, 20 million (now we know the figure).

Diddy wired her the money within 24 hours as she demanded.

When asked how many f-offs took place, she said she did hundreds with Diddy.

They asked her why she was testifying since she got her money.

She answered, "I can't carry this anymore, he treated people like they were disp0sable".

BTV reporting

12/05/2025

Diddy Reportedly Forced Male E$cort to Ur+nate in Cassie’s Mouth During “Fre@k Off” Parties — Prosecutors Claims.

Federal prosecutors have accused Sean “Diddy” Combs of orchestrating dist¥rbing s+x acts during so-called “fre@k off” parties, including allegedly forcing a male esc+rt to ur+nate in singer Cassie’s mouth. In opening statements at Diddy’s s+x tr@ff+cking trial in New York, Assistant U.S.

Attorney Emily Johnson detailed several shocking allegations. She claimed Diddy forced Cassie to have s+x with male esc+rts while he watched and recorded the encounters.

Prosecutors said Diddy referred to these events as “Fre@k Offs,” “W+ld King Nights,” or “Hotel Nights,” and had staff members coordinate travel, accommodations, lighting, l¥bricants, cash payments, and dr¥gs for the sessions.

At one such party, prosecutors allege Diddy made a male s+x worker ur+nate in Cassie’s mouth, insisting the women appear to enjoy the acts. They say this pattern of ab¥se began when Cassie was just 19 and rising to fame. The prosecution also described incidents of severe physical ab¥se, including Diddy allegedly att@cking Cassie upon learning she was seeing another man—k+cking her, be@ting her, and thre@tening to leak expl+cit videos as bl@ckmail.

They referenced a now-infamous video of one such a+s@ult and alleged that in another case, Diddy st+mped on Cassie’s face inside an SUV, then f+rced her to hide in a hotel for a week. Prosecutors claim she was be@ten for taking too long in the bathroom and that she felt powerless to refuse participation in Diddy’s “fre@k offs.

10/05/2025

At the end of the day, one of the biggest educations you learn as you grow up is that most people don’t want to help you. You are responsible for you.

04/05/2025

WHAT A SMART PRESIDENT 💪💪💪💪
“After all efforts to get back Burkina Faso has proved abortive by Emmanuel and his French G.a.n.g of thìèvfs, he contacted me sounding all polite.

He said to me; “Let’s strengthen our friendship and establish military bases in Burkina Faso”

Smart guy; now Emmanuel this goes to you for the world to see:

"You’re already friends with the USA, Britain, Brazil, and Canada... do you have military bases in those countries as well?"

If you do, then Burkina Faso will give you a space!”

Burkina Faso Point one and Presido Ibrahim Traore makes Emmanuel Macron, French Presido understand that; true true mugu don wise up with his response to the demand he made.

03/05/2025

It’s when food is sour that orphans get the biggest portion.
They have no backup
If God doesn’t show up for them, they are finished!