12/03/2026
I used to think the goal of an argument was to prove I was right, marriage quickly taught me otherwise.😔
What started as a simple conversation between my husband and I slowly turned into an argument.
The more we talked, the more we tried to prove our point.
I defended myself.
He defended himself.
And somewhere in the middle of all that explaining, something became clear.
We were no longer trying to understand each other… we were trying to win.
That’s when it hit me.
In marriage, arguments are not meant to produce a winner.
They are meant to bring understanding.
Because when one person wins the argument, the relationship quietly loses..
Don't argue to win but argue to understand.
Do you learn lesson from my lesson or you are group I must win😂🤷