01/07/2023
I'll say it again and again.This is for you woman.
Find yourself.
Be with people that make you show your most authentic self.
Romantic relationships are great, but there's a space for romance, and there's a space for true friendship. They are not mutually exclusive. Both are important.
There's a space your girls can fill, that a romantic relationship cannot take its place.
Be yourself.Be with friends where you don't have to pretend to be what you're not for you to be accepted.
Be with friends that you share a mutually beneficial relationship.
Love loudly, give as much as you can of yourself - because to get, you must give. I am not talking about money.
If you ever find yourself in a friendship where it is beginning to look like you're not wanted, don't wait too long before you see yourself out. I'm not talking about flimsy excuses...because there are some friendships that you cannot drink water and drop cup. Friends that stifle you and make you have to explain all your words and actions.
Be enough for yourself, by yourself and with yourself. Only then, can you truly give of yourself.
The quality of your friendships and relationships determine the quality of your life. Be with friends that inspire, uplift and encourage you. Friends that you can laugh together and share your pain and vulnerabilities with them. Be with friends that even when things go awry, they will respect the sanctity of the relationship you once shared. Not the ones that will be spilling your deepest conversations all over social media. Inyama type of friends.
Dear woman....don't forget to live.
