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09/08/2025

MAKE YOUR PARTNER YOUR BEST FRIEND.

In every strong, lasting relationship, there’s more than romance, there’s friendship. Love may light the fire, but friendship keeps it burning even when the storms come. When your partner becomes your best friend, the connection goes deeper than physical attraction; it’s rooted in trust, understanding, and shared joy.

Here’s why making your partner your best friend changes everything:

1. You can be your true self.
With your best friend, you don’t have to wear masks. You can be silly, vulnerable, ambitious, or broken, and still be accepted. That’s how your relationship becomes a safe space.

2. Laughter comes naturally.
Best friends laugh together about inside jokes, awkward moments, and even challenges. That laughter becomes a healing balm for the relationship.

3. Communication flows easily.
You talk not only about serious matters but also about little random things. From “How was your day?” to “Look at this funny video,” every conversation keeps the bond alive.

4. You become a team in everything.
Best friends have each other’s back. You stop competing with each other and start fighting together for the relationship.

5. Conflicts don’t break you.
Friends don’t throw each other away over misunderstandings. They work it out, learn from it, and grow stronger.

How to make your partner your best friend:

Spend intentional time together, even in simple ways.

Celebrate each other’s wins, no matter how small.

Share your dreams, fears, and random thoughts.

Choose kindness, even in disagreement.

Never stop having fun together.

Remember: A marriage or relationship built only on romance may fade, but one built on friendship will stand the test of time. When your partner is your best friend, love is not just a feeling it’s a lifelong partnership filled with laughter, trust, and loyalty.
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07/08/2025

💌 DON'T SETTLED UNTIL YOU FIND THIS KIND OF LOVE:

In a world where love is often rushed, shallow, or transactional, I dare you to wait for the real thing. Wait for the kind of love that doesn’t just make promises, but fulfills them. A love that’s intentional, consistent, and deeply rooted in truth.

So don’t settle until you find someone who:

🌹 Owns their mistakes and learns from them, Someone who doesn't let their pride destroy your peace. They apologize, not just to end the argument, but because your heart matters more than being right.

🌹 Understands that quality time is sacred ,Someone who believes in weekly date nights, not as a routine, but as a way to continually pursue you, cherish you, and keep the spark alive.

🌹 Refuses to punish you for the pain others caused. They see you for who you are, not who broke them. They don’t compare, assume, or project. They love you with a clean slate and a healed heart.

🌹 Matches your energy and chemistry , A love that feels natural, effortless, electric. Conversations flow, laughter is endless, and silence is never awkward. Your souls dance, even in the quiet moments.

🌹 Wants to build a forever with you , They don’t just want the good times, they want the growth, the storms, and the glory that comes after weathering them together. They're not afraid to work for love that lasts.

🌹 Will navigate life’s ship beside you, When the winds get strong and the waters rise, they don’t jump ship. They anchor down, hold your hand, and face the storm with you, together, always.

🌹 Lives with humility and compassion, Someone who knows that no one stands tall enough to look down on another. They treat every person with kindness, and love you with reverence.

🌹 Never leads you on with no intention to stay ,They don’t just make you fall they show up to catch you, hold you, and prove that love doesn’t disappear when it gets real.

🌹 Chooses peace over party ,Someone who would rather spend a peaceful Sunday morning wrapped in a blanket of quiet love than chase noise on a Saturday night. Their heart finds joy in your presence alone.

🌹 Puts ego aside for the sake of connection, They know how to listen, how to pause, how to grow with you. Their love matures daily, not just emotionally, but spiritually and mentally too.

🌹 Continues to chase you , even after they have you They still compliment you, still hold your hand, still surprise you with small things that matter. They never let the fire die.

🌹 Never lets you fall asleep questioning your worth, No silent treatments. No emotional neglect. Just a constant reassurance that you matter, you're loved, and you are enough.

🌹 Does the little things with big love, Whether it’s reserving your favorite restaurant without telling you or bringing home your favorite snack after a long day, they know the art of thoughtful love.

🌹 Comes with pure intentions from the beginning , No games. No confusion. Just someone who meant every word they said, who loved you with clarity, and who was ready from day one.

🌹 Treats you like you are irreplaceable , Because you are. And they know it. They love you not out of convenience or fear of being alone, but because you’re their choice every single day.

So please , don’t settle for sparks when God wants to give you a wildfire.
Don’t settle for attention when you were made for affection.
Don’t settle for chemistry if there’s no commitment.
And don’t settle for almost-love when real love still exists.

Wait for the one who sees you, values you, chooses you and never stops proving it.
Because you deserve more than temporary. You deserve extraordinary.

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06/08/2025

20 CLASSIC QUESTIONS TO ASK THAT WOMAN BEFORE YOU MARRY HER

Dear Men,
Marriage is not just about love and attraction , it’s about alignment, understanding, and long-term compatibility. Before you give your heart, name, and future to any woman, it’s important to ask the right questions. These are vital questions every man should ask a woman before marriage, not to judge, but to understand. A wise man seeks clarity before commitment.

1. Are you married?
(You’ll be surprised how important it is to ask this plainly.)

2. Are you currently dating someone?

3. Is there someone who believes they are dating you, even if you’re not claiming them?

4. How did your last relationship end?

5. Why did it end? Have you fully healed from it?

6. What is your genotype?
(Knowing this early can prevent future heartbreaks and health risks.)

7. Are there any terminal or hereditary health conditions in your family?

8. What does commitment mean to you?

9. What are your spiritual or religious beliefs?
(Do your values align?)

10. Do you have a child anywhere, whether acknowledged or not?

11. What’s your view on s*x before marriage?

12. Do you want children, and how many?

13. How do you handle conflict, anger, or misunderstandings in a relationship?

14. What are your non-negotiables in a relationship?
(Things she won’t compromise on. pay attention.)

15. What kind of lifestyle do you desire? modest, luxurious, or simple?

16. How do you spend and manage money?
(Financial mindset is key to a peaceful homes.)

17. What does loyalty mean to you?

18. Who are your closest friends and influences?
(Your partner’s circle will shape your home too.)

19. What is your relationship like with your family?
(How she treats or talks about them reveals a lot.

20. Do you have any addiction or pass habits you have overcome?

Dear Men, don't just fall in love fall in wisdom. Ask questions. Observe. Pray. And don't ignore red flags just because of physical beauty or emotions. A peaceful home begins with the right choice.

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03/08/2025

10 SERIOUS AND DEEP QUESTIONS EVERY LADY SHOULD ASK A MAN BEFORE MARRIAGE

Dear Ladies ,These questions help you both understand each other’s values, expectations and readiness in marriage.

1. What does marriage mean to you personally?

This reveals his understanding of the commitment and his expectations.

2. What are your long-term goals and how do you see me fitting into them?

To make sure your dreams align and you’re building in the same direction.

3. How do you handle anger or disagreements in a relationship?

Because conflict is inevitable; how he handles it will affect the peace of your home.

4. What role does faith or spirituality play in your life and decisions?

Spiritual alignment is key if you both value a godly foundation.

5. What are your expectations regarding s*x, intimacy, and affection in marriage?

To avoid future disappointment or misunderstandings.

6. What are your thoughts on money, saving, giving, and financial planning?

Money is one of the top causes of marital conflict. Discussing it early is wise.

7. What do you believe are a husband’s responsibilities and a wife’s responsibilities?

To understand how he views roles in the home.

8. How do you plan to support me emotionally, spiritually, and mentally?

Love is not just words ,it should also come with support.

9. What is your relationship with your family like, and how involved will they be in our marriage?

Family boundaries can protect or damage a marriage.

10. If we face difficult seasons like sickness, job loss, infertility , how do you think we should handle them together?

This shows maturity, loyalty, and emotional strength.

May God give you wisdom to ask that questions wisely 🙏

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02/08/2025

10 TOP REASONS YOU MUST NOT HAVE S*X THIS 2025 AND BEYOND!

I'm talking to singles.

1. You need to succeed, desperately! You need good self esteem and self confidence to excel in life. Premarital s*x will destroy that self esteem and confidence. That is one of the reasons a lot of singles are failing at school, at work, in life and most of all, spiritually!

2. This 2025 is tough! You need to go beyond the natural to stay safe! You need to employ the supernatural and that involves God (Psalm 91). Premarital s*x will cut you off from God and you are left helpless!

3. You carry the load of guilt on your head which paralyzes creativity and productivity.

4. You always nurse the fear of pregnancy. Fear is a negative, paralysing emotion you don't need in your life in the first place.

5. You are exposed to all manners of s*xually transmitted diseases that can destroy your fertility and cut your life short.

6. You waste your financial resources on women who have no value for your, your sweat and your future.

7. You are exposed to spiritual contamination and bo***ge.

8. With more desperate young men going into Yahoo plus, you may and up being used for ritual.

9. If you get pregnant and do abortion, your womb may get damaged for life. I have heard women who had that past and honey, the hell they are going through in their marriages is not fun!

10. Your future wife and children may suffer from the consequences of your careless life in the past. She may not bear children if you have killed many children through abortion. Other men may take advantage of your daughters as you did to others.

Thank God for the blood of Jesus that washes us clean when we ask for forgiveness and move on. But to hide under grace to have s*x around and use ladies like tissue paper is to set yourself up for pain in future!!

Get help if you are facing so much s*xual pressure and you don't know how to handle it.

Get help if you are ma********ng and it is destroying your mental, spiritual and physical health!

Get help if you have been addicted to s*x and needs to stop and have a brand new beginning.

Get help if you are about to loose your virginity!

Get help if you have been romancing, being fingered, being kissed and being messed with!

Get help if you are dying slowly from guilt, shame and condemnation.

You shall not fall into s*xual sin in Jesus name!
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01/08/2025

My beloved sisters, I will marry you is not marriage, give me your mummy's number is not marriage. I just spoke with everyone in your family even your ancestor is not marriage. I sent some stuff to your parents is still not marriage. Haven't you seen my people?

Is not still marriage. My mum is fond of you, is not marriage, i love the way you cook, you will make a good wife, is still not marriage.

My parent and siblings can't stop talking about you, my dear that is still not marriage. I have engaged you, so you have nothing to worry about, that is not marriage.

Untill he come and pay your bride price, perfect the wedding plans and take you home, that is when you are assured to be his wife.

Till then, leave your heart open, be wise in all you do and remember not to be engrossed in wifey s**t for who is not worth it.Don't place your mind on anybody who is not yet married to you and stop bragging that he's is yours.

Sister you are the daughter of a respected man and a future wife to another. Don't let young boys fool you into their temporary lust. You know your worth.
MAY GOD BLESS EVERY ONE OF US BOTH MARRIED AND UNMARRIED.
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31/07/2025

I once heard a man said , his friend looked at him one day during a conversation and told him , Mike your wife looks so beautiful , she is the kind of woman I want to married, and she is the kind of woman every man dreamed to married. Then Mike looked at him with shock written all over his face .

Dear Men, please listen, let me tell you something you don't know.

No woman was made as a package, and delivered from heaven as a finish product.
If you see any married woman become the best version of herself, please don't envy her, if you can't treat her the same way her husband does , because if any woman gets married and becomes the best version of herself, then it's simply because of how she is being loved by her husband.

Most men don't often even realise that , they are part of the real problem and the reason why their wife don't feel loved, and respected.
Most men want peace, but , the bring war.
They want their woman to submit to them , but they lead with confusion.
They want a woman who respects them , but they don't even respect their self nor respect their wife.

Let me be clear with you ,
There is no lucky man in marriage,
What you see in a woman is often a reflection of the kind of man beside her.
Your wife will only be peaceful, if you don't give her reasons to be anxious,
She will submit if you don't abuse your authority,
She Will respect you, if you respect her and earned respect .
She will pray for you, if you lead her with love .

You want your woman to be a good wife right?
Then be that kind of man that inspires goodness.

Many men are praying for the Proverbs 31 woman but yet they are behaving like Pharoah.🙄

They want their woman to:
Wash, cook, work, carry the baby and still smile.

But they have never asked thierselves when lady did I tell my wife :
"Thank you "?
They think being a man is about shouting and paying bills.🙄

Ask yourself this question;

When she is tired do I notice it ?
When the baby cries at night can I carry him or her instead of pretending to be asleep?
Can I stay the with the kids so she can go out and relax?
Can I honour her enough to listen to her without shouting?

If the answer is "NO" , then forget about praying and looking for the Proverbs 31 woman 🙄
Because you are not looking for a partner, you are looking for a servant.

There are too many good women around you , you just can't see them because your idea is tied up to beauty and body .
Character Is right in front of you, but you are busily chasing curves.

Be the husband first.
Be the safe space and place first .
Be the kind of man that a woman prays to grow old with.

Then watch how one woman, just one , will mirror back the love you give.

May God give every man the Grace to be the kind of husband every woman prays to have 🙏🙏
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30/07/2025

SIGNS YOU ARE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP.

Being ready for a relationship isn’t about age, appearance, or feelings, it’s about maturity, healing, and alignment with God’s will. Many people want love, but not everyone is truly prepared to build and sustain it in God’s way.

You know you’re ready for a relationship when your heart is no longer desperate, but content in Christ. You’re not looking for someone to complete you, because you’re already whole in God. Your focus is not just on romance, but on purpose. you desire a relationship that glorifies God, not one that distracts you from Him.

You have let go of past pain, and you’re no longer carrying bitterness, insecurity, or fear into your future. You’ve learned how to communicate with honesty and patience. You can pray for your future partner without idolizing the idea of being in love.

You’re ready when you understand that love is more than feelings, it’s sacrifice, commitment, and partnership. You’re willing to grow with someone, not just date them. You’re willing to wait for God’s timing and obey His voice, even if it means saying “no” to someone who looks right but feels wrong.

You are also emotionally stable, no longer making decisions out of loneliness, pressure, or fear of being left behind. You’re no longer moved by temporary attention, but drawn to meaningful connection. You understand that real love requires real work and real wisdom.

You’ve embraced singleness as a season of growth, not punishment. You’ve used that time to build your relationship with God, to discover your purpose, and to become the best version of yourself. Now, you’re no longer chasing people, you’re attracting the right one by becoming the right one.

And most importantly, you are prayerful. You no longer lean on your own understanding but fully trust God’s guidance. Your spirit is open, your heart is patient, and your eyes are focused, not just on who you want, but on what God wants for you.

Being ready doesn’t mean being perfect. It means being spiritually grounded, emotionally healed, mentally stable, and willing to walk in love with wisdom.

If that’s where you are, then yes, you're ready. May God lead you to a relationship that will honor Him, bless your life, and fulfill His purpose. 💛

Lord, prepare us not just for love, but for the kind that brings You glory. Amen. 🙏

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29/07/2025

BUILDING A GOD-CENTERED MARRIAGE IN A BROKEN WORLD

Marriage today is under attack. The world is shouting its own version of love ,quick, selfish, and temporary. But God's design for marriage is far greater. He created it to be a covenant, not a contract. A divine union, not a worldly arrangement.

Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it. Psalm 127:1

When God is not the foundation, marriage becomes a battlefield instead of a blessing. But when Christ is at the center, love is patient, forgiveness flows freely, and purpose is restored. The couple prays together, plans together, and stands strong when storms come.

Dear married couples and future husbands and wives, don't just desire a beautiful wedding, desire a blessed marriage. One that honors God in words, actions, intimacy, finances, and forgiveness.

A marriage where:

The Word of God is final authority

Prayer is a daily connection, not an occasional emergency call

Love is more than emotion, it's commitment.

Forgiveness is not earned, it’s freely given.

Faithfulness is not optional, it’s sacred.

Ask yourself Is God truly at the center of your marriage or future marriage? Are you building on His Word or on feelings and trends?

Your spouse is not your enemy. The devil is. So don’t fight each other, fight together on your knees in prayer.

📌 If you’re single, prepare now. Don’t just pray for the right partner, become the right partner.

So while you're waiting, don't just wait. PREPARE. Your future spouse will thank you.

Marriage is not a destination. it's a journey. And your preparation begins now, not on your wedding day.

May your marriage or future marriage reflect heaven on earth. Let it be filled with peace, purpose, and the presence of God..

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28/07/2025

💍 LADIES, DON'T JUST MARRY A MAN — MARRY YOUR DESTINY MATE

Dear Ladies,

Marriage is not just about feelings, attraction, or appearances. You don’t marry a man just because he’s tall, dark, and handsome. You marry based on purpose. You marry based on alignment with your destiny.

It’s not enough for a man to be physically attractive — is he spiritually aligned with your purpose? Does his vision match your destination? Does he push you closer to God or pull you away?

Too many women ignore warning signs during dating and hope for change in marriage. But the truth is: Anything you ignore before marriage will multiply in marriage. Don’t casualize what should be taken seriously — or you might become a casualty of poor decisions.

You need to know who you are in Christ. You are not just someone’s “spec” — you are God’s masterpiece, beautifully and wonderfully made for a purpose. Stop adjusting yourself to fit into a man’s limited definition of worth. Focus on becoming the best version of who God created you to be.

The right man will not just notice your looks — he will recognize your worth, your calling, your potential, and your value in Christ. He will speak life into you, not confusion. He will walk with you, not compete with you. He will understand that marriage is not just about love — it’s about assignment, partnership, and purpose.

Stop chasing people’s approval and start seeking God's confirmation.
What matters most is what God is saying about you, not what people are saying.

✨ Don’t marry by sight ,marry by insight.
✨ Don’t settle for chemistry, look for compatibility in purpose.
✨ Don’t rush ,let God lead.

You deserve more than a temporary thrill .
you deserve a destiny partner.

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27/07/2025

DEAR WOMAN, YOUR WORDS CARRY POWER :

USE THEM WELL!

Speak over your husband, not against him.

Your words are seeds.

When you speak life into your husband before he steps out whether it's through prayer, encouragement, or affirmation — those words don't stay behind.
They follow him.
They inspired him .
They motivate him .
They encouraged him .
They pushes him.

Even in traffic, at work, in temptations, in depression or under pressure...

He will remember:
"My wife said I am strong."
"She said I carry wisdom."
"She prayed for my favour today."
"She believes in me."
"She said I can do it .

Your prayers become his covering.
Your voice becomes his safe place.
Your words become his strength.
And your love becomes his compass.

So, before he leaves home today, don’t just say “bye.”
Look at him and declare:

“You are loved. You are covered. You are bless, you are favored ,You are guided. Go and succeed.”

Because even when you're not there physically, your words can still go with him and that is the power God gave to you, as a woman.

Share and bless someone with this on this special Sunday 🙏

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26/07/2025

Most good Christian young ladies desire to love and build a godly home with the right man .

But what scared them most is that they don't know who they would end up marrying.

Because the truth is , you can be a really good woman and still end up with a man who will break your spirit.

You can be the Proverbs 31 woman, full of potential, and still marry someone who doesn’t see your worth or value.

That’s why as a young lady , you need to be so careful. So prayerful. So intentional. About the kind of man you are dating or want to married.

Don't get carried away by sweet words, handsomeness or church title. You need more than that , seek clarity from God first.

Because the person you marry will either bring out the best in you… or slowly kill the woman God designed you to be.

Marriage is not about finding a perfect man.
It’s about finding the one who fits perfectly with your calling, your purpose, and your heart.

Marry a man who will:
helped you ,
complements you ,
prays with you ,
pushes you ,
And gives you peace of mind .

He must not be perfect but he should be a man who brings out the best in you,

To every young lady reading this…
Please don’t let the pressure make you settle.
Don’t let your age, your friends’ weddings, or your parents’ words push you into a lifetime of pain.

Marriage is a destiny decision. One wrong move can cost your joy, your purpose, even your future To be buried .

Take your time. Grow. Heal. Learn. Prepare.

And most of all, pray. Because no matter how beautiful or kind you are, If you marry the wrong person, they can break everything God has been building in you.

If you let God write your love story, it will be worth the wait. He still gives good men to praying women.

Your husband will find you, not by luck, but by divine alignment. You won’t have to fight to be loved. You won’t have to force your place in his life. You’ll be chosen, cherished, and covered.

So don’t give up. Don’t lose hope. God is still in the business of making beautiful marriages.
It’s never too early to start praying for your future husband.

May God favor you with a Godly partner.
You'll marry once and marry right.

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