J Enowtakang

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My story is one of many failures. But those failures carried my future. They were not the end—they were my beginning. Ev...
08/08/2025

My story is one of many failures. But those failures carried my future. They were not the end—they were my beginning. Every setback I faced taught me a lesson. Every disappointment made me stronger.

I’ve failed in movies, in music and in marriage. But I refused to give up. I kept learning. I kept evolving. And today, I can speak from a place of healing and truth. My pain gave me purpose. My story has become my strength.

— Ninalowo Bolanle

Growing up with my siblings was beautiful. We created dramas, laughed a lot, and spent quality time with mom and extende...
08/08/2025

Growing up with my siblings was beautiful. We created dramas, laughed a lot, and spent quality time with mom and extended family. Those memories mean everything to me now.

Looking back, those joyful moments helped shape me. Family taught me the true meaning of happiness and love. Every laugh, every drama made me the strong and loving person I am today.

— Uche Montana

You are directing a movie, Deborah (played by Stella Damascus) is a respected marriage counsellor. Her clients adore her...
04/08/2025

You are directing a movie, Deborah (played by Stella Damascus) is a respected marriage counsellor. Her clients adore her. Her books sell well. But behind closed doors, she lives in fear. Her husband (played by Richard Mofe-Damijo) controls her every move, monitoring her texts and choosing her clothes. Her only escape is an old flame (played by Yul Edochie) who suddenly returns as her client — with his new wife. When Deborah advises them to separate, the wife disappears a week later. Police suspect Deborah, but she denies it. Then someone sends her a video: her husband, and the missing woman, kissing in a hotel. What would you call this movie? Who plays the role of the new wife? Starring: Stella Damascus, Richard Mofe-Damijo, Yul Edochie

I am John Dumelo, and I was born on 3rd February 1984 in Accra, Ghana, but my roots are from Hohoe in the Volta Region. ...
04/08/2025

I am John Dumelo, and I was born on 3rd February 1984 in Accra, Ghana, but my roots are from Hohoe in the Volta Region. I am proud to be Ewe by ethnicity, raised in a loving home as the only son of my parents.

From my childhood, acting found me early, and I stepped into the spotlight at just seven years old, not knowing it would grow into something so meaningful.

Over the years, I’ve starred in many Ghanaian and Nollywood films, poured my heart into every role, and received several awards for it. I am also a farmer, businessman, and more recently, a politician. I am honoured to be the Member of Parliament for Ayawaso West Wuogon and the Deputy Minister for Food and Agriculture.

In 2018, I married my best friend, Gifty Mawunya, and together we have two beautiful children, John Jr. and Mali. They are the joy of my life.

— John Dumelo.

My name is Shaffy Bello. I was born on 8 October 1970 in Lagos State, Nigeria, and I’m a proud Yoruba woman. I spent man...
04/08/2025

My name is Shaffy Bello. I was born on 8 October 1970 in Lagos State, Nigeria, and I’m a proud Yoruba woman. I spent many years in the United States, where I went to school and found my voice.

I was married to Akinrimisi, and though we went our separate ways in 2020, we are blessed with two beautiful children, who are my greatest joy and strength.

Life has taught me many hard and beautiful lessons—about love, pain, healing and growth. I am still open to love and marriage, but this time on my own terms.

— Shaffy Bello.

My name is Joke Silva. I was born on 29 September 1961 in Lagos, Nigeria, into a loving Yoruba family with deep roots an...
31/07/2025

My name is Joke Silva. I was born on 29 September 1961 in Lagos, Nigeria, into a loving Yoruba family with deep roots and strong values. I grew up surrounded by books, discipline, and care, with a mother who was a doctor and a father who was a lawyer.

My journey in acting began with passion, and I trained both in Lagos and London to become the woman I am today. Over the years, I have acted, produced, and mentored in Nollywood, and my work has earned me awards like the AMAA and the national honour of MFR.

I am married to Olu Jacobs, my partner in life and in art. Our love has stood strong for decades, and together we have two wonderful sons. Life has brought both joy and pain, but through it all, I’ve held onto grace, purpose, and love. I am thankful for every role, every stage, and every soul I’ve touched. Thank you for all the love and support throughout this journey.

—Joke Silva

You can never really be fully ready to have kids. You just learn as you go. But at the same time, I believe you must be ...
31/07/2025

You can never really be fully ready to have kids. You just learn as you go. But at the same time, I believe you must be prepared in some important ways. You need to be ready in your heart, in your mind, and even in your pocket. Children change everything. They bring joy, but also stretch you in ways you didn’t expect.

As a man... I see how raising our kids affects my wife deeply. She’s a strong woman. Watching her go through it all makes me admire her more. It’s not easy for me either. Right now, I feel like I’m at the bottom of the family ladder. The kids come first, then my wife, then me - and I'm okay with that.

— Daniel Etim-Effiong

Growing up wasn’t easy. People called me names. Hurtful names. Sometimes I cried and cried. Not just once. Many times. I...
31/07/2025

Growing up wasn’t easy. People called me names. Hurtful names. Sometimes I cried and cried. Not just once. Many times. It was like the world decided I wasn’t enough. Even my own siblings, when we argued, they would use those same names.

The pain didn’t just stay on the outside. It got into my heart. There were days I felt like disappearing. Like the world didn’t need me. It’s not something I talk about often, but it’s the truth. I felt like ending it all.

But every time those thoughts came, I would hear my mother’s voice again. “Read your books,” she said. “That’s your way forward.” I told myself, let me try school first. Let me see where this book will take me. If it fails, then I will decide what to do.

Those thoughts were my secret. No one knew. Not even my parents.

— Chinedu Ikedieze

I was married to filmmaker Tchidi Chikere. We built a home, shared dreams, and had a beautiful daughter. But over time, ...
30/07/2025

I was married to filmmaker Tchidi Chikere. We built a home, shared dreams, and had a beautiful daughter. But over time, we drifted apart. The peace I needed as a woman and mother was gone.

I held on, prayed, and smiled through the pain — but inside, I was shrinking. In 2021, after years of trying and hoping, I made the hardest decision of my life: I quietly walked away to find peace.

I stayed single for a long time, focusing on my daughter, my work, and my healing. I had to rebuild myself — not as an actress or a wife, but as a woman.

Then in 2023, love came again — this time with peace and maturity. I remarried. Yes, life can give you a second chance.

To every woman reading this: never be afraid to leave what’s breaking you. And never feel guilty for choosing joy when it returns.

— Nuella Njubigbo

I’m 55, not married, and I don’t have children—and that’s not a sad story. I loved someone deeply, and I was ready for m...
30/07/2025

I’m 55, not married, and I don’t have children—and that’s not a sad story. I loved someone deeply, and I was ready for marriage, but he passed away. He’s gone, but I’m still here, still living, still happy. I don’t owe anyone an explanation for how my life turned out.

People judge women like me as if not being married or not having kids is a failure. But that’s not kindness, that’s cruelty. Life doesn’t always go as planned, and that’s okay. I refuse to carry the weight of other people’s opinions. I’ve loved, I’ve lost, and I’ve grown. I’m proud of the woman I’ve become.

— Bimbo Akintola

My name is Sunshine Rosman. I was born on July 25, 1996, in Nigeria. I’m from Imo State and proudly Igbo, with a Nigeria...
30/07/2025

My name is Sunshine Rosman. I was born on July 25, 1996, in Nigeria. I’m from Imo State and proudly Igbo, with a Nigerian mother and a Canadian father. Acting has always been in my heart, and I feel so grateful that many know me as Michelle from My Siblings and I. That role gave me so much love and opened doors I never imagined.

I’m not married, and I don’t have children yet. My family means the world to me, and their support keeps me grounded. I’m still growing, still learning, and I carry so much love in my heart for everyone who supports my journey. Thank you for standing by me, and keep streaming To Ki-ll A Monkey on Netflix.

– Sunshine Rosman

29/07/2025

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