02/10/2025
WHY SOME MEN ABANDON THEIR CHILDREN WITH BABY MAMAs. By Njume Franklin’s
I see some inexperienced people trying to handle a delicate topic on Facebook. Stop the confusion! Where you had a bitter experience is exactly where someone had a success story! Things may resemble without looking alike.
Below are some reasons why my gender runs away from their baby mothers:
1.) There are ladies who capable of using witchcraft to cut a child off his father. Many of you have not heard that version!
2.) Some misuse the money you send to them to take care of your child. They use it on their other children.
3.) Others use your child as their source of income to fuel new relationships. Unbelievable, but we've seen such things!
4.) Some are so ungrateful and insolent to the point that they discourage you from ever having anything to do with them!
5.) Some impose heavy Christmas and discouraging back to school bills on their baby father!
6.) Others pin a child on you because you are well to do, whereas they flirted with other men before getting pregnant!
7.) Some want you to keep spending on the child but aren't ready to let you spend even a short vacation with your child!
8. Some refuse that you make a birth certificate for the child, you must first see their parents, as if it's marriage.
9.) Others don't even give you the opportunity of deciding which school your child should attend, they just choose whatever and hammer you the bill.
10.) Some do kolo ya mo in the same room that they are raising your child but won't let you have custody of the child.
11.) Others completely block the father of the child from helping the child. They cut all links with the man and even tell the child that, "your father is dead!"
12.) There is another category that even if you give her the means to look after the child you both had, she will never be satisfied because you refused to marry her.
13.) The worst set of baby mamas are those who create enmity between the child and his father. They indoctrinate the child to hate and disrespect their father. When you even assist such baby mamas, they don't tell the child that, "this uniform or bag was bought by your father." They rather make the child to understand that they are the ones doing everything. May thunder locate such women!
The above and more are some of the reasons that bring a man to withdraw and conclude that, "the child will look for his father when he is grown up!" Wuna no judge case 1 side.
It's unfortunate, but we all just need to pray for children born out of wedlock. I am one of them!
*Frankline Njume*
