Guidance and Counseling with Momma of KMs

05/07/2025

We shouldn't always judge people without giving them a try. Yesterday I went to the saloon to accompany my sister, we met two young children who were apprentices.

Their boss was doing someone nails when we came, so we have to wait for her to finish. She started working on the mesh, then another customer came in. She too wanted to do her nails. They apprentices attended to her, but she was hesitant and felt like the apprentices didn't have the right to touch her. The apprentices felt frustrated and I really didn't want the little girls to feel discourage.

So I asked them to do my nails, while their boss did for the other customer. They children were so excited 😊, they took like two hours on my nails, and keep thanking me for being patient and giving them a chance. I asked them to wash my hair as well and do me bakala. By the time I left the salon the kids were begging me to come next time.

It was a nice experience putting a smile on someone face when they least expected, their morals was boasted and that gave me joy.

Put a smile on someone's face today.

03/07/2025

This is my humble cry
Thank you counselor

“The only third party that should be involved in your marriage is a counselor… one who is ethical and professional.” —Courage Sorbe

03/07/2025

At the beginning of this year, my boo ROFESTA's Faith Media and I promised ourselves that we were also going to grow our social media presence and create impact. We discussed a little about our goals for this year and outlined where we needed to improve our input.

Then, Mr. Che Housia stormed the net that he needed at least 1000 people behind him so that he could win the heart of Enow Margaret , being the good sisters that we are, we decided that we were go to join the 988 others so that our brother we could finally experience true love.

That is how I found myself into Inkpact 2025, thinking I was helping my brother to fine true love. I finally forgot about my primary reason, and started enjoying every bit of Inkpact just in our first class. I love storytelling, my dad was a story teller and my love to his stories was second to none. So just my first class into Inkpact change my entire life as a content creator.

Through impact, I've learned that my daily struggles can be turned into content so far as it is relatable. I have learned to recognize and appreciate the persons that help me grow on a daily, I now know that I can use IA intelligently to create content and stay consistent on a daily. What about a comic relief? Learning can be more enjoyable if we relax, no tied face like mortuary attendant wey di quarrel with stubborn co**se.

Moreover, I've learned to package my content just like Xcape by Edith Delight products which are irresistible at first sight. Thank you Inkpact 2025, I have a new sister Gantar Nkuh and a brother Boris B. Bongda who I have fallen in love with their consistency and many others .

Lest I forget, during Inkpact I gained more than 40 followers and I want to say a big thank you to all who participated, it was an amazing experience and trust me I enjoyed all of your write ups.

Good luck to the winner of I LOVE YOU ALL DEARLY.

What was your most enjoyable class ?

01/07/2025

Happy new month, oh it's already the second half of the year, may your goals be accomplished in Jesus name, this new month you shall Soar like an eagle 🦅, this month shall be fruitful in all your endeavors. Let the celebration begin.

30/06/2025

Who is feeling the heat if this products? Only packaging n'a to kill.
Congratulations Edith

27/06/2025

I left for work this morning with 100% happiness cus it's weekend plus month end. So the atmosphere was filled with excitement.

I arrived like one hour before the usual time ( you see what excitement can do right?) I was enjoying my quiet moment when my sis called me to help her collect her parcel at a nearby location.

I rush to acacia to pick it up and return before my break period was over. I bumped into terrible traffic at melen, I spent almost 30 minutes there. I started feeling nervous took a bike and there they road was block before Carrefour acacia.

Na me that di rush pass all kind short cut for reach for market. Lol and behold, I came out through the area where they sell chicken.

N'a some pikin that just hold fowl anyhow they tin s**t very well for ma skin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I almost slap yi ohh ,then I remembered I was already late. So I just continue my road like no man's business.

With all that huriness I took another taxi to return to my office and it still took Melen road, I almost cry for taxi today. I just don't want weekends any more, it's so frustrating.

Have you ever experienced terrible traffic in Yaounde?? How did you get over it?.

26/06/2025

I left Church that day like I had a serious emergency to handle. My excitement was mixed with anxiety and a little nervousness.

I had to check the time every minute to make sure I was on track. I checked my megabits more than a thousand times that day. The fear of missing Inkpact day one was the beginning of menopause.

So I started the class not knowing what to expect, then came our tutor with his small but audacious voice, which sounded like that of one who just found a new lover.

The most unpredictable thing happened that got my heart pounding like a boiling pot of fufu, our tutor started by asking us questions. He will just call anyone to answer so far as you were in class.

Chiaa fear griped my teeth, what would I do if I was asked a question that I couldn't answered. At that moment I rejected my robotic self and started reasoning as a human.

As the class went on, I conquered my fears, and was more than ready to learn and also contribute in the learning process. It's been four sessions of Inkpact and I get the feeling that we just got started, as days passes by, I keep falling in love with each session and wish it could be prolonged.

If you missed then you just missed your life partner as a content creator.

25/06/2025

If today you discover that you have powers that you can command anything and it happens just the way you want, will you still worship God?

23/06/2025

You see those with inferiority complex? They are the worst .

In every relationship, there's always this:

The immature partner will always point fingers.
It's your fault.
You made me act this way.
You’re the problem.

They’ll never accept responsibility.

They’ll make you feel like you're always wrong, even when you’re just trying to help.

But the mature one?
They’ll sit down. Reflect. And say,
“Maybe I could have handled that better.”
“Let me fix what I broke.”
“Even if it’s not all my fault, I’ll take accountability for my part.”

Maturity isn’t about who is older.
It’s about who is willing to take responsibility and work toward peace, not always war.

© Counselor TB

I am Tata Britta, a Certified Relationship Counselor.

I help young people heal from heartbreak and discover their God-given purpose so they can live boldly and intentionally.

# Purpose-Driven Relationships

broken hearts

23/06/2025

Are you still in the committee of God when??, add value to yourself and find purpose. Your waiting period is not your wasting period. Leave your comfort zone and move to your destined zone.

No road to success is easy, we often see the sweet results and feel jealous and broken just because we were not given an opportunity to see the process, no one ever showed the process because it's naughty and discouraging.

Dear singles, you are just enough, no one is better than you, but what they do is better than what you do. Step up your game and be in your place of purpose.

This is a new week, you cannot remain in the same position to get a different results, wake up from slumber and take your life into your hands .

Do have a blessed week.

22/06/2025

This weekend I had to make it up to the kids, because I was pretty busy within the week. So the deal was no Facebook for two days , but I guess the moment I thought of my special blessing on this space, I had to reverse that decision for a few minutes.

It's difficult for someone to care for you sincerely without knowing you , but I found someone who is not only wise but is a hustler, a gold getter and an impacter.

I want to graciously thank you bro for being a true friend and a confident for many, thank you most especially for giving me your boo ROFESTA's Faith Media as my personal boo, I cherish our beginning and choose to stand with you through out the struggle.

Happy birthday my humble colleague Counselor Mr. Sorbe for being a selfless teacher, I celebrate you today and always, have a blast and more wisdom this new age.

20/06/2025

Growing in the cold and hilly globe of Akum, was one of my sweetest experience.

Summer holidays are our best period, fruits are abundantly available and likewise food. The only days that were less busy were Sundays and country Sundays ( that's the only day you wouldn't go to the farm). We had a good sleep only on those special days.

On other days , the normal routine was to wake up at 5 am and prepare for the farm, we carried heavy loads to and fro the farm. Guess the loads that we carried to the farm: bags of mangoes, guavas, sugar cane and oranges. Sometimes before we reach the farm, our bags would be emptied. While eating some of the fruits on our way, we usually shared as well.

Tomorrow I am planning to go to the farm, but can it be exciting like what we experienced in the village? Never, there is no trekking, it's either we take a taxi 🚕 or a bike, ruining the exciting moments. Besides there are no free fruits to carry along.

If not so, farming is not only exciting but fulfilling.

What do you plan to do this weekend??

Do have a great weekend.