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Guidance and Counseling with Momma of KMs

we guide, counsel and help people build strong relationships and marriages. As a parent, I also teach parenting tips, motivate and elevate parenting skills.

18/09/2025

This week was one of the most productive weeks for me. Being a wife, a mother, a leader and a worker at the same time is overwhelming. Thus to be more productive, I decided to improve on my skills on time management. I was privileged to be mentored by Perfector Light WainPontiff, the best coach anyone could ask of, thank you so much for your wonderful expertise.

Highlights from the masterclass on Time Management and productivity.

The masterclass held on the 16th and 17th September 2025, on Google meet. Due to network problems, we were opportune to have a recorded version of the class, which we can listen to and learn at our convenience. That was not all, a well summaries article was sent to us as well. By the end of the masterclass, my brain was already ticking because I had learned more than what I paid for.

I have mastered the art of planning. In order to achieve my yearly goals, I must break them down to monthly, weekly and daily goals. What I have put in place in order to achieve all of these is a to-do list, where all my activities are well listed and scheduled carefully.

Further more, to appropriately manage my time, I must stay focus and avoid distractions. Today our highest form of distraction is social media, so I have started by setting my social media goals while putting a timer on all my handles.

What really stood out for me is how to overcome procrastination and pressure. Most often, I will really plan my day and get carried away the moment I get connected on social media. that alone would make me not to be able to meet up with my schedule and then frustration cames in later. But through this master class, I have learned to identify the root cause of my problem, which is my phone. And I've learned to use the focus technique ( pomodoro method) to breakdown my task into achievable intervals, while taking a short rest.

Moreover, in order to achieve my goals and be more productive, I must put deadlines, stay focus, build resilient and learn flexibility, for urgent and important issues.

Thank you Coach light for this great opportunity.

16/09/2025

This morning, while I was going to work, I met a group of boys just wandering around the quarter. Their ages ranges from 15_20 years.

I over heard them discussing and one of them was making a mockery of his parents. According to him, his parents know he is in school while he is roaming around the quarter doing nothing.

Apparently, he stopped going to school from the day his parents entrusted his school fees into his hands ( 2024/2025 academic year). He squandered the money with his friends without any remorse and to think he was strategizing with his friends how to squeeze some more money from his parents really break my heart.

Their discussion got me thinking, why should a parent be that careless not to follow up their own children? How come the parents have not even noticed that their son is a dropout since last year.

Dear parents, I understand that it's not easy, we need to work very hard to make these kids comfortable but at the detriment of what?? No matter how busy you are as a parent, you first responsibility is to bring up your child in a Godly way. Educate them at home, informal education is what will make them strive in school.

This a a gentle reminder to all busy parents who really careless about what goes on in their children lives. Please it's not yet late, you can redress your child if you pay more attention on the things that really matter.

Be intentional and purposeful as a parent.

15/09/2025

Dearest dear, are you presently in a situationship or a relationship or better still a deceptiondship?

14/09/2025

As a young innocent girl, I love rides so much that each time I was in a car, I didn't want to came out again. So I grow up knowing that driving was one of the most enjoyable jobs to do.

Driving for me was nothing but enjoyment and relaxation. I even envied every driver thinking how the pass their day without any stress. That thought alone made me to want to become a driver.

Guess what, these thoughts all changed in 2022 when I finally went for driving classes, the stress almost make me loss my life🤣🤣🤣.

Just like me, that's how many young people see marriage. They see only the fairytale part of it and therefore get into it without any thoughts of obstacles or difficulties. I guess you would learn from my mistakes, arm yourself before taking the journey of no return.

Marriage is a life time commitment so we must make a conscious choice to stay faithful and work through challenges together, even when feelings fluctuate or difficulties arise.

In marriage Love and respect is not optional. Love is the emotional bond, but respect ensures you value each other as equals, honor boundaries, and treat each other with dignity.

Most often we assume that our partners are supposed to know our needs without clearly communicating with them. Open, patient, and compassionate communication helps partners understand each other’s needs, resolve conflicts, and share joy.

Marriage is not a bed of roses, it's a place of give and take. Marriage works best when both partners share responsibilities, make decisions together, and support each other’s dreams.

You must emotional intelligence to engage. Emotional closeness and physical affection maintain connection, reduce stress, and reinforce your bond.

Marriage is a bed of offences, if you can't forgive then you have no business being there. Mistakes will happen. A healthy marriage depends on the ability to forgive, grow, and move forward without holding grudges.

11/09/2025

When I was single I thought the only thing I needed to get married was love. For me love should be the only reason why someone should accept to get married. I did not know that love was just 5% of what is needed. Today I know better and wouldn't want anyone around me to be ignorant.

“Love is never enough” means that while emotional affection is powerful, it alone can’t sustain a healthy relationship. What are some other things that really matter??

Marriage has it's own realities which are different from what we see in novelas. Life brings financial pressures, work stress, and family responsibilities. Even deep love can feel strained if partners can’t manage these realities together.

As a couple learn how to communicate effectively. Love doesn’t automatically teach you how to resolve conflicts, listen well, or express your needs. Without good communication, misunderstandings can erode affection.

As a couple, you must understand each other's purpose and what it takes for them to fulfill their purpose. Two people can love each other but have very different visions and unmatched purpose for life. Their beliefs, family planning, or career ambitions may not be compatible. Misaligned values can create friction love alone can’t smooth over.

In our pursuit for knowledge, we should carry each other along. People change over time. If one partner grows emotionally or spiritually and the other resists, love may feel insufficient to bridge that gap.

No matter how much you love someone, there must be boundaries to it, while respect is non negotiable. Love without respect, trust, and healthy boundaries can become controlling, toxic, or even harmful.

For any relationship to be successful, you must put in some effort. Relationships thrive on consistent effort—acts of service, forgiveness, compromise, and showing up even when emotions fluctuate. Love is the foundation, but intentional action keeps the structure standing.

Love is indeed beautiful ❤️ 😍 but it's takes solid materials to make the foundation unshakable.

10/09/2025

This is what I was doing while I was away. I really wished my energy for farming is as strong as my passion for it. Farmers truly deserve recognition.

I tried ohhh, Farming with Ann I respect your hustle ohhhhh .

09/09/2025

Family who miss me? I am back.

04/09/2025

I just pass through the market today and it was filled with parents and students. Some were buying while others were selling. Something caught my attention.

A mother went with her son to buy his school needs, but only the frown on her face could cause rain to fall. She was just bullying her little son for no reason.

Parents before taking your kids to the market, let them know your budget and what you will be buying for them. When they know these things, they will be focus on getting them.

Imagine taking a child to the market without any discussion, obviously the child will want to get anything he loves.

We shouldn't frustrate our kids, they are not adults and are obviously living their age. It is our sole responsibility to teach them the difference between wants and need.

It's back to school period and the streets of Yaounde are so unfriendly. What is your experience, share with us at the comment section.

02/09/2025

My Yaounde people please support a mother and a friend

02/09/2025

Fear and anger has buried lots of dreams. Today take that bold step and declare " I am no longer a Slave to fear,Jesus is my anchor and strength.

01/09/2025

Happy new month family. May this month not be short of something but be successful in all dimensions.

28/08/2025

Cheating is one of the highest things that break marriages, here is why 👇.

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