21/05/2026
Women who have a difficult time finding a loving partner and relationship usually have one thing in common:
A long time ago, love came with something that was absolutely not loving, and so the two became wired together as a package deal in their psyches.
And now they want love, but at the same time, it doesn't feel safe.
It keeps repeating itself because that energy is active within them, being generated from the subconscious belief, and so they keep recreating the pattern, attracting the same situation over and over.
The problem is, until that gets rewired, they'll keep repeating the same painful patterns in their relationships.
Even though it's what they fear and want to avoid the most.
Because what they learned was that love comes with something that hurts, and that's just the way it is.
It's what the subconscious recognizes as love - but that's not true - it's actually a distorted concept of love - so the subconscious misguides them, because the internal programming is all tangled up about love from early experiences.
They may have learned that love comes with control.
Or that love comes with criticism.
Or that love comes with unpredictability or volatility.
Or that love comes with anger.
Or that love comes with neglect.
Or that love comes with a combination of those things.
What they learned was that to be loved, they had to tolerate something hurtful or painful, so now the belief is that that's just the way love is, the way people are, the way relationships are.
But that's not true.
It's just the mental framework downloaded so long ago being projected out into the world.
Which means to deactivate the old pattern and experience real love - the kind that comes without suffering - we simply need to challenge the old programming and untangle our ideas about love.
That's what I walk you through doing in 90 days in LoveCraft, my 1:1 intensive.
I have one spot opening up end of May - DM me "LOVE" if you're interested.