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28/05/2026

true life story part 3

I told them that if they arrest her in this condition, she will just die. My family were begging my husband and his family. People wanted to finish this girl. She sat on the floor, crying like a witch. My husband cried like a baby that day. He said after the disgrace, the trauma and everything? On my part I've not even gotten over that incident till now. I still remember running like a mad woman and my children crying, seeing their father being flogged in public.

People are saying we should forgive. Forgive? Is it that easy? My husband's family are still standing their ground that they will never forgive. They said if I forgive that girl, I will leave their son. The matter is so complicated. Now my family says if I don't forgive my sister, her life will continue to destroy. Right now, I'm just confused. I don't know how we can settle this issue, We need advise please.

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28/05/2026

He brought 100k, I borrowed 300k and his family completed the rest. His parents and siblings were very angry about the issue. I begged them to sort this out so that he won't go to jail. After the money was paid, community gave my sister the 300k. My husband even slept in community cell till the full money was paid.

The next day, he returned home. My sister say she can't live with us any longer and before we got home, she had packed her bags and left. My husband's family took him to the hospital for proper treatment. That period, I couldn't walk in community. the shame was just too much for us to bear. I said I can't take this, my family were also on my neck, threatening to come and deal with my husband.

I grew so thin because I was no longer eating and sleeping. When my husband discharged from the hospital, he told me in my face that he didn't do what my sister accused him of. I got angry and almost fought him, if not that his mother was there. Him denying the issue made everything worse. For the sake of my mental health, I picked my small bag, took my kids and left.

His family called and called but I didn't respond. My husband was sending his friends to come and beg me, because he could not enter our compound. My mother and siblings said I should not step foot in that marriage again. I was crying every night, praying for God to give me strength to pass this temptation.

I was in the market one day when he came to meet me. I tried to send him away but my neighbor said I should just let him in and we should talk. I even closed the shop so we can sit inside and talk very well. He said he didn't do what my sister accused him of. He said he was preparing to leave for work that morning when the boys showed up, and he was even surprised.

After we talked for long, I told him to go, that I will think about it. I prayed about the issue and one voice told me to accept him.

If he's lying, it's him and God that have that case. And another thing is that, ever since the incident, we have not set eyes on my sister. Some people said she was staying with one of the community boy outside of town, and I was even shocked.

So I forgave my husband. My family said they will disown me. They insulted me so much but I was determined to listen to that voice that said I should forgive my husband. I moved in back with my children and we were all living well. The matter soon died and everyone moved on. It was three years after the incident that my friend came to tell us that my sister was hawking pure water in traffick with a baby on her back.

I was surprised, because we haven't set eyes on her since then. I only heard she was living with a boy. That was when we started hearing news that the boy left her and her baby and suffer wanted to finish her. I pretended not to hear anything. My mother that have stopped calling me, called me last week and said she and my sister are coming to our house.

I told my husband and he said never!. We pleaded with him and he agreed. They came with two other of our siblings on the said date. If you see this girl, she was looking so malnourished. I barely recognized her. She cried and knelt on the floor as she saw my husband and I. That was when the truth came out that she lied. She said she wanted freedom but my husband was the one opposing her. So she and the boy planned everything. I shouted and ran into the whole community so that people should come and see and hear for themselves. People gathered in our compound and that day was like market day in our house. My husband's family also came and they said they will not treat this issue lightly.

They wanted to arrest her.

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19/05/2026

TRUE LIFE STORY

My sister is 15 years old and she has been staying with us since she was 10. Everybody knows her as the quiet type. But as she was growing, my husband said he was seeing her with one boy.

She was 14 at that time. I said it was a lie. He flogged her one day because he said he saw her with the boy in the night at one closed shop and they were doing love. I confronted my sister and she said my husband was lying. She is very quiet and I don't really believe she can do such. My husband said if I think he's lying, he'll take me to the usual spot where he had been seeing them.
I'm a business woman so I don't really have chance. I told him not to worry, that I'll catch her red handed.

That period, my sister stopped going out of the house. My husband was really dealing with her and he told her that if she gets pregnant, she will leave the house.

He's quite hot tempered but I understand that he was trying to help her, because he is the one paying her and our children's school fees. I was in the market when people came to call me that community boys went to pick my husband, and they're beating him. I left my market and ran barefoot to our home.
When I got there, they have already left and our whole compound was in a chaos.

Our neighbors said they carried him to community square. I asked what happened and they said he rap*Ed my sister. My sister had followed them too. I lose my cloth off my waist and ran like a mad woman to the community square. My children were crying and running after me.

When we got there, I saw my husband almost nak*Ed on the ground and the boys were lashing the hell out of him. His whole body was bruised and bleeding. I did not recognize him at all.

I almost fainted at the sight. My sister was sitting on the ground beside one of the boys and she was crying too. I knelt and begged the boys to free my husband but they said they will flog me too. It was my neighbors that pulled me away if not they would have flogged the both of us. I went to my sister and asked her what happened. She said my husband rap*ed her that morning as soon as I went to the market.

She said she had no option but to go and call community on him. I cried so much and said she would have told me first. She said I would not believe, that's why she took the necessary step. I then understood why my husband was angry with her all these while. She said she had been refusing his advances that is why my husband was angry with her.

My husband was shouting from the ground that he didn't do it. One of my elderly neighbor asked me if I believe that my husband could do such a thing. I didn't know what to say. He had cheated on me once in the past when we had issues. Sol believe he really did it. The woman said I should ask my children who were at home, but the children I left at home were really small and they can't answer question.

I went to call some elderly men that I know so they can intercede on my husband's behalf. The boys wanted to send him to police, but the community men interceded and said only them will handle the issue. The boys left my husband after so many beating and they used him to sit on the ground.

They said we should pay 300k for the girl to go and treat herself. 200k for cleansing money and another 200k to settle the community. Where do we have that money from? And they said if we don't pay, they'll send him to police. They did not allow us to bargain at all. I called my husband's people and everyone contributed.

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10/05/2026

do not be afraid

09/05/2026

08/05/2026

03/05/2026

I watched MONICA 2 yesterday and here’s what I have always said!

See ehhnn, you cannot please everybody!

Your family and friends will survive even if you don’t give them all you’ve worked for!

Always save some for yourself too!

Look after yourself too—buy that dress for yourself, take that course, buy that meal, etc. It’s your money, you worked for it, so spoil yourself too and everyone else will be Ok!

It’s absolutely ok to take care of your family but do not get spent doing so, cos if you kpai, they’ll be fine without you or your support!

Did you notice that MONICA refused to pay for her Dad’s funeral ceremony and left her family to Paris for over 2 years? She didn’t give them feeding money or anything for those 2 years but was her dad not bùried? Yes! Did Mama Monica and Bobo and the rest die of starvation? No! They were struggling but they managed just fine… without MONICA!.

Learn to stand up for yourself!
Kindly turn down any requests or responsibility that doesn’t cut it for you.

Everyone else will be fine, I promise you. Help when you can but do not get drained or USED.!

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03/05/2026

AMOS 5:8
"The same God who commands the stars and controls the oceans also holds your life in His hand.
You have to trust Him, He is greater than anything you face."

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