18/11/2025
TRUST YOUR JOURNEY, BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF, AND BELIEVE IN THE PROCESS.
When I stepped into the virtual assistant world, everything felt new and uncertain.
Did I have the skills? The experience? The drive and discipline?
Yes, I came from a business-owning family, I had run teams, I had managed companies.
But this was different. I knew very little about the industry.
My first UKVA conference in 2023 was terrifying.
I didn’t know anyone. I didn’t have clients. I didn’t even know if this industry was real or just a side project for others.
I walked in feeling like an outsider, overwhelmed, insecure and constantly judged, mostly by myself.
But I reminded myself why I was there:
To find out.
To see if I could make this work.
And when I came home, I did everything I could to make it happen.
By the next year, 2024, things were different.
I had clients. I had stories to share. I was nominated for Best Newcomer in Business, which pushed me to step up and show up.
I still didn’t feel like I fully belonged, but I was more comfortable, more grounded, and I made genuine connections with amazing people, including one friend I’m still close with today.
Then came 2025.
A hard year in many ways, but something clicked.
I walked into that conference knowing I deserved to be there.
No hiding in my room. No avoiding small talk.
In fact, I was frustrated that coffee breaks weren’t long enough to talk to everyone.
I felt confident. Aligned. At home.
So here’s my message to anyone standing where I once stood:
Give yourself time. Stay focused on your journey.
Don’t let comparison or fear steal your spark.
You’ll grow, evolve, and one day you’ll walk into that same room, not as the overwhelmed version of yourself, but as the unstoppable one.
17 October 2025 – I walked in bold, confident and unshakeable.
And no one could take that away from me.
A massive thank you to Amanda Johnson for creating a space that brings so many industry professionals together for such valuable face-to-face connection.
I’m also grateful to all the amazing people I met along the way..you inspired me and filled my day with so much joy and happiness. Thank you!