24/08/2026
The ADHD Trap: Everyone Else First, You Last....
A lot of people with ADHD end up being the one who gives everything. You put your family, your partner, your children and your home first, and you leave yourself last. You become a people pleaser, always making the effort, always changing yourself, always trying harder to be enough, hoping someone will do the same for you. But it rarely comes back. And slowly you burn out. You feel exhausted, resentful, invisible and like youβve lost who you are, because youβve spent so long taking care of everyone else that youβve neglected the one person who needed you most β you. Itβs not selfish to rest, to have needs, or to set boundaries. Your needs matter too...