30/03/2026
"It was when I met this benin guy at the pool party i was invited. We hit it off immediately and rocked the night.
He was so charming and sweet,we exchanged numbers,and started chatting.
He was such an amazing young guy,he took me on dates,we went shopping, visited parks together .less than 2 months together this boy has spoilt me so much,he had spent millions on me.
Everything was going well,then one day he invited me to his house. His mom was around that day. Surprisingly she welcomed me with open arms,she even cooked for me,she asked me to join her in the kitchen but didn't let me touch anything since I was a guest.
We ate and laughed ,she even gifted me her favorite jewelry.
Everything was going fine between us then he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him to give me sometime to think about it. I told my bestfriend then about it,she asked me not to date him that benin boys are bad,she said all sort of things I got convinced by her lies and turned him down.
This boy begged and begged,even his mom reached out to beg me,I refused to be his girlfriend. He kept begging for almost 3 months and gave up when he found out I was seeing someone else.
Now this boy relocated to California and is living big. He's way richer than he was. And that my st*pod friend is now dating a benin guy they've been dating for a year now even did anniversary. She d£ceived me I feel so hurt.
But I can't reach out because my pride wont let me"
-A Nigerian lady who followed her friend's relationship advice has shared details of the h£artbreaking aftermath.