
24/09/2025
✨ Words of Affirmation
1. 🕊️ Teachability & Submission
Affirmation:
From now on, I (include your name), and my wife will remain teachable and submissive to godly counsel.
We will be humble, gentle, and quick to listen to one another in love.
We will never let pride shut our hearts to truth.
📖 James 1:19 – _“Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.”_
2. 💞 Respect & Mutual Honor
Affirmation:
We will never turn each other down. Even when instructions are painful, we will obey for the sake of peace and the teachings of Christ. We will present our concerns later in humility, not in arrogance.
📖 _Ephesians 5:21 “Submitting to one another in the fear of God.”_
3. 🌹 Sacrificial Love & Humility
Affirmation:
Even if it is not convenient and though I may have a thousand reasons, I will choose humility. I will listen, yield, and honor my spouse, knowing that Christ is glorified when we walk in love.
_📖 Philippians 2:3 “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.”_
4. 👑 Financial Independence & Respect
Affirmation (for wives):
No matter my level of earning or financial independence, I will never use it as a yardstick to dishonor or disrespect my husband. He remains the leader of my home and the pilot of our destiny in Christ.
_📖 Ephesians 5:33 – “Let the wife see that she respects her husband.”_
5. 🔥 Christlike Unity
Affirmation:
We declare that our marriage will be built on Christ.
We will seek His wisdom daily, remain open to correction, and embrace the discipline of love.
Our home will be a testimony of unity, humility, and grace.
_📖 Colossians 3:16 – “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another…”_
🙏 Prayer Points
1. Lord, grant me and my spouse a teachable spirit that we may always listen to each other and to godly counsel without pride or resistance (Prov. 9:9).
2. Father, uproot arrogance an