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Inbox story of the Day:My name is Ada, I am 28 years old and I have been dating my fiancé for almost four years. We met ...
28/10/2025

Inbox story of the Day:

My name is Ada, I am 28 years old and I have been dating my fiancé for almost four years. We met in university and things have always been smooth. He is 30, hardworking, and everyone says he is perfect for me. We were supposed to get married next year and everything was already in motion…my family has met him, and I have even started thinking about the wedding plans.

Two weeks ago, I received a message on Instagram from a stranger. She said she needed to tell me something because she didn’t want me to find out the hard way. At first, I ignored it, thinking it was spam or someone trying to disturb my peace. But she kept messaging me and eventually sent me a photo of a little boy with a face that looked exactly like my fiancé. She said this was his son and that he had been hiding him from me for years.

I was in shock. I couldn’t breathe. My hands were shaking as I stared at my phone. I immediately called him, and he sounded nervous. When I asked him directly, he hesitated and then confessed. He said the child is two years old and that he had been supporting him quietly but never told me because he was afraid I would leave him. He said he did not plan for me to find out this way and apologized repeatedly, but I don’t know if I can forgive him.

I feel betrayed. It’s not about the child existing, it’s about him lying to me for almost three years. How do I trust someone who could keep such a huge secret from me? I love him, but I feel hurt and disappointed. I have been crying almost every night, thinking about what this means for our future. My friends say I should walk away, but my heart tells me to try to forgive. My parents are divided; my mom says I shouldn’t marry someone who lied, but my dad says everyone has a past.

I am confused and I don’t know what to do. I love him, but I don’t know if I can marry someone whose trust I feel I have lost completely. Please, I need honest advice.
Should I forgive him and go ahead with the marriage, or walk away before it’s too late?
I just want to feel peace again, not confusion and heartbreak.

Inbox Story of the Day: Please keep me anonymous. I am a 27-year-old lady and honestly, I don’t even know how to start t...
27/10/2025

Inbox Story of the Day:

Please keep me anonymous. I am a 27-year-old lady and honestly, I don’t even know how to start this because my heart still hurts whenever I think about it. My best friend and I have known each other since secondary school. We were like sisters. We did everything together…from sharing food in school to sleeping in each other’s houses. Even after university, we remained close.

When I started dating my ex, she was the first person I told. She helped me pick my outfits for our dates, she even helped me plan his birthday. He was my first serious boyfriend, and I thought we were heading towards marriage. We dated for three years until everything collapsed. He started acting distant and later I found out he was seeing someone else. I cried my eyes out and my best friend was there for me through everything. She was the one who told me “men are trash” and encouraged me to move on.

Two years later, out of nowhere, she called me one evening saying she needed to tell me something before I heard it from someone else. I was worried, thinking maybe she was sick or in trouble. Then she said, “I’m getting married.” I was so happy for her until she said the man’s name. It was my ex. My heart literally stopped for a second. I had to ask her again just to be sure I heard right. She said yes, that it’s the same person I used to date.

She tried to explain that they reconnected at a friend’s wedding and that things just “happened.” She said she prayed about it and believed it was God’s will. I couldn’t believe my ears. This same person that saw how much that man hurt me? She said God led her to him? I didn’t even know what to say. I just hung up and cried till morning.

I couldn’t attend the wedding. Everyone kept saying I was being childish, that love can happen anywhere, but they don’t understand how deep our friendship was. I would have given her anything. I would have fought anyone for her. And now she’s the one who hurt me the most.

It’s been almost a year since their wedding. She’s tried reaching out to me many times, sending messages, even using mutual friends to talk to me. She says she misses me and wants us to be like before, but how can things ever be the same? Every time I see her pictures with him, I feel a sharp pain in my chest.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m overreacting, if maybe I should forgive her and let it go, but other times I feel like she never valued our friendship in the first place. I’m scared that if I forgive her, she might think it’s okay to betray me again. But deep down, I miss the friendship we had.

What would you do if you were in my shoes? Would you forgive her and move on, or close that chapter completely? Because honestly, I don’t know what the right thing to do is anymore.

If this happened to you, would you forgive and move on? đź’”

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