20/05/2026
This might sound a bit unkind ... but really, it puts the power back in your hands.
**Your novel will never matter to anyone else more than it matters to you.**
Let's face it, if you don't seem to care that much about your novel ... then why would the people around you bother to help you make time for it?
If you ditch your writing plans because the dishes need doing, or a re-run of Downton Abbey is on, or you're in a doomscrolling spiral ... then why would your loved ones think your writing is truly important to you?
No one else will make your novel a priority if you don't.
Start taking your writing seriously. Show that it matters to you. Then, other people can start caring about it too.