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Lifewithtee, London (2025)

10/08/2025

You can literally be pressed for hours and your body would hold the urine but the minute you're approaching a toilet, all h£ll will break loose. Why is that?

10/08/2025

Two months after marriage, I traveled to Germany for greener pastures. I left my wife with two months pregnancy with the promise of bringing her to Germany with my baby, I tried to fulfill my promise, we tried like four times but none worked out. After 7 years, I met a lady here and we started a relationship few months down the line, she got pregnant for me, I told my family about it, but didn't tell my wife.

I don't know how to tell her, but was still finding a way to tell her about it, somehow she found out from my family and never asked me, but was still acting as if everything was okay, I was still sending her upkeep and was still doing phone calls with her.

One day I was at work when my family friend called and asked me when did I come to Nigeria without seeing them?
I answered I haven't visited in seven years, she now said how did my wife now get pregnant? I said pregnant? She said yes, they are attending the same hospital for antenatal..

Haaaaaa! I was shocked and called my wife, she confirmed it and said did I not do the same? She said she is aware of my girlfriend who is pregnant for me in Germany. I was really disappointed in her, I didn't believe that she can do that to me. I fear who no fear women..

10/08/2025

Life is lighter when you learn to share it with people — both in their highs and their lows.

When people are happy, be happy with them.

Celebrate their wins, clap for them, and let your joy multiply theirs.

When they're sad, be present. Share their burden, listen, and remind them they're not alone.

Empathy is more than just a kind gesture — it's a bridge that makes life easier for everyone, including you.

Because when you stand with others in their seasons, you'll find they stand with you in yours.

Joy shared is doubled.
Pain shared is halved.
And that's how we make this life a little easier for each other.

Lifewithtee

10/08/2025

On the night of our wedding, I woke up around 3am to get water. I passed by the living room and saw my husband sitting there in the dark, video calling someone, I thought it was a girl. I peeked quietly and saw it was his best man.

I wanted to talk to him until I saw He was crying. Both of them were crying actually. I didn't interrupt. I just stood there quietly. They've always been close, but something about that call made me feel weird. Why is he cling to another man on his wedding night, whatever it is, why can't he tell me.

I thought maybe he was overwhelmed, maybe it was happy tears, but it didn't feel like that. The way they talked, the way they looked at each other it was deep.

Later, I looked through our wedding pictures. There are so many of him and his best man holding hands, embracing, whispering to each other. They were more £motional with each other than he was with me. I didn't want to overthink anything but the thought entered my mind what if my husband is g@y….

I haven't asked him. I don't even know how to start that conversation with him . But since that night, there's been a small fear inside me. What if I'm just a cover up.. What if he married me because it was expected, not because he truly wanted to..

Please advice.

09/08/2025

My husband and I separated a few years ago. We just couldn't make it work anymore. We have a child together, and we agreed to share custody. At first, we tried to stay friendly, especially for the sake of our child. But every time he hears I'm seeing someone new, he finds a way to show up in my life again and try to scatter everything.

He acts like he wants me back or like he's trying to protect our child, but it always gets m£ssy. I even allowed him have sezz with me once maybe he will change, things got worse. He does things that make it hard for me to move on. When I start dating someone, he somehow finds out who it is, and then he contacts them.

He's sent messages, even pictures, my nvdes to these men. Sometimes he tells them things about my past that I didn't share yet, or just makes things up. He once told someone I had HIV, and that man never called me again. That one really húřț. I was starting to think he might be someone real, someone kind. He even thre@tens them.

The worst part is that he uses our child against me. There was a time, a while back, when I had a bit too much to drink and I drove with our child in the car. I know it was a mistake a terrible one. But nothing happened, thank God. He found out and made the police settle it, just kept the evidence I don't know how he got my police report even though we live abroad.

Now, whenever he hears I'm dating, he brings it up and thre@tens to go to court to take our child away
permanently. Because of him, l've lost some genuinely good men. They get sc@red off. Some think I have too much drama, some believe the lies he tells, and some just don't want to deal with the constant h@rrassment.

I feel stuck. Every time I think I'm ready to build something new, he finds a way to d£stroy it. He knows exactly how to use our child to make me stop.
Sometimes I wonder if I should just leave my child with him and go live my life somewhere else. Maybe then he'd stop. But that thought breaks my heart.

I love my child. But I'm tired. I want peace, and I want love. I don't know if I can have both with him still holding this much power over my life. The only thing he can control me with is our child. I have been thinking, I want to leave our child With him and come to Nigeria.

Should I leave my child?

09/08/2025

You go your boyfriend house see another girl dey cook stew you vex comot, instead of you to boil rice.

09/08/2025

Sometimes, the people you've known for years can't help you... or won't.

Not out of h@te. Not always out of jealousy.

Sometimes they simply can't see you beyond the version of you they've always known.

And then one day, you meet a stranger.

Someone who has no history with you, no limits on you, and no reason to doubt what you can do.

They believe in you.
They open doors.
They connect you to opportunities you never imagined.

That's why it pays to be kind to everyone you meet.

You never know who's an angel in disguise, or a destiny helper sent to push you into your next chapter.

The world is full of people who don't know your past... but can shape your future.

09/08/2025

I want to decide but can't. So my fiance and I have been together now for like 4yrs now but it's just 2yrs of dating and he proposed.

Have also been seeing his father too and we run things, most girls do that so it's not new.

Am Imonth pregnant but haven't told him, l told his dad and he said I should keep it that he want the baby.
His father doesn't know I'm sleeping with his son o but he knows I have a committed boyfriend you get. I'm confused now on who to give the pregnancy to.

My fiance loves me d!£ but I love his dad more but I don't want to f!ght because I know his mommy will f1ght. I don't have strength. Now I don't know if I should just give it to my boyfriend or his dad.

His dad takes good care of me and will do more once | give him a child, like he has even made moves of securing my future but I'm still scared. I don't want to choose wrongly.

09/08/2025

It's 2025, and I think it's time to shift gears.

The goal isn't just to scroll anymore — it's to start learning how to actually make mon£y on social media.

The internet has changed the rules.

People are turning their creativity, skills, and stories into income every single day. From content creation to digital products, from coaching to brand partnerships — the opportunities are endless if we're willing to learn and show up consistently.

Social media isn't just an app on our phones anymore. It's a marketplace, a stage, a networking event, and a business platform all in one.

The question is: are we going to keep being spectators... or start playing the game?

It's 2025, and you’ve to decide something big...

Stop watching other people win on social media and start learning how to make mon£y from it.

Everywhere you look, people are turning their phones into income machines — building brands, and getting paid for what they know or love.

And here's the truth:
Social media isn't just for selfies and funny videos anymore. It’s a business tool sitting in our pockets 24/7.

Here's to learning, experimenting, and building something real this year.

09/08/2025

You don't know everything. And you're not always right.

The moment you believe you've "arrived" is the moment you stop growing.

Life has a way of humbling us - and the people who keep winning are the ones who stay curious, stay humble, and stay open to learning.

Every conversation, every challenge, every failure, and every success carries a lesson. But you can only receive it if you're willing to listen.

The fastest way to stop growing is to think you've got it all figured out.

The most d@ngerous phrase in personal growth?
"I already know that."

Pride closes doors.
Humility opens them.
And teachability? That's the key that keeps you moving forward.

Stay teachable. Stay winning.

09/08/2025

One day, you're going to win... and it's going to be right in front of the people who doubted you.

They'll remember the times they said you couldn't do it, that you were dreaming too big, or that you weren't "the type" to make it happen.

But you'll remember something different — the grind they didn't see, the late nights, the risks, the sacrifices, and the faith it took to keep going when no one believed.

Victory hits different when you've had to f!ght for it in silence.

So keep building. Keep showing up. Keep proving yourself to yourself.

Because the sweetest part of success isn't proving them wrong... it's proving you were right all along.

08/08/2025

I ordered a ride.

Driver pulls up and tells me to sit in front with him. Says he can't carry a woman at the back.
I said, "Then he shouldn't be a driver because as long as I'm paying, l choose where I sit and on this ride, back is where I belong."

He said I should cancel.
I said no, you should.

Oga off engine. Said he'll wait till I cancel. No wahala. I brought out my second phone & ordered another ride with another app.

7 minutes later, new car pulls up in front of us. I catwalk to the car, enter like a diva & shut the door slowly to pepper him.
Few seconds after we moved, I checked my app. The clown had cancelled the trip.

You for wait na. Who blink first? Múmú.

He sent me a message and said my character is why no man will marry me
I reply and say if it's your type of man that is left, l'd rather d!£ single. Then I rep0rted and blocked him.
Feeling very upset I instruct the new driver to turn on his AC.

He said, "For this rainy season?"

I said, "I don't care. I want Ac.'"

He asked me if I have AC in my house?

I looked at his finger, saw his cheap wedding ring and said, "Some of us don't wait for dry season to enjoy basic things. Not everybody is married to poverty like your wife."

He got angry, match brake, off engine & asked me to cm down from his car.

I come down like a queen and say,
"So, if they ask people with car to come out, you too will come out?" Then I laugh Patience Ozokwor laugh
That's when he snapped.

"Madam I go sl@p you! I go be@t you for here now now & nothing go happen, asewo!"

He started advancing towards me in a thre@tening manner in broad daylight.
In front of people. I knew then he would sl@p me and maybe do more.

I scream, "Help o, ole ole, kidn@pper, ritu@list, help me o!"

Next thing crowd have gathered.
Before he'll run and enter his car, boys have started sl@pping and be@ting him black and blue from every corner.

He's screaming & pleading with me to help him but the crowd has gotten very aggr£ss!ve. Apparently, there have been multiple cases of kidn@ppings & r0bb£ries lately in that area.

I froze.

I wanted to tell them the truth that he's not a kidn@pper or ritu@list but how do you admit you lied, when a m0b is already in k!11 mode?

I was too scared to tell them I lied for fear of being lynched myself
So, I ran! I ran like a thi£f and didn't look back till I got home.

Two days later, I see a trending video online— A driver, búrñt to de@th. Car torched,
Several blogs reads: "N0t0rious Kidn@pper Finally Nabbed & unal!v£d by angry m0b in Lagos."

I zoomed in.
It was him. the diver
I screamed!

It's been six months now.
I see him every night in my dreams— screaming, búrñing, b££ding, calling my name.

What should I do?
Should I confess to his family?
Should I go to the police?

I'm confused.
I didn't mean for it to go that far.
But this is Nigeria, going to the police is like signing my own de@th warrant.
So, I did what everyone including you reading this would do. I stayed quiet.

Please sir, wherever you are, I'm sorry, please forgive me even though you caused it.

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