The Reflective SPACE

12/08/2026

I just realised that I haven't introduced myself for a while. You probably have seen me around and wondering who I am
My name is Taniya and you can follow me here but it's best to follow me on Taniya Hussain on Facebook that's where I mainly post and I live in London UK. Here are two photos that help you understand what I do and who I am.
Yes I am the First Paceologist! The Founder of Paceology.
Paceology is extremely useful for business owners and corporate leaders and those in the creative industry who have been doing what they are doing for over 10 years.

It is an extremely counter intuitive approach because everyone else is propagating, going fast, using AI, this hustle culture and that this will facilitate sustainable success, will facilitate freedom, flow and FULFILLMENT.

Many high achievers and high performers find that this approach that most are propagating actually leads to burnout instead which I have found is not recognised by the individual, the organisation and society, and if it is, it's too late.

Burnout rates since the pandemic have risen in almost every single industry.
It's sad and horrifying to read how much.

Stats prove this but more than this there is the ripple effect across organisations, families and communities and societies in general.

Many of us are FEELING this right now as we are being targeted with so much information often we start to believe that is transformation.

Many of us wake up and realise that actually, our minds have tricked us and what we are experiencing is cognitive dissonance.

As technology envelopes us in its embrace, the disconnect we feel from ourselves, other human beings, God/Source/Universe, the fire, air, earth and water around us and within us, and the plants and animals within us and around us, becomes even more pronounced.

Our brains are being rewired to think we need to live this fast paced life.

And whilst that may work for some, for many that is not the case.

You will find me explaining more about Paceology on Medium, Substack and Linkedin.

I do mention it briefly in my first book Dancing with Darkness available on Amazon published last year.

I use a fictional character called Tamara Alvi to illustrate how being intentional regarding the pace of your life can help you heal from complex trauma, overcome burnout plus prevent burnout and that there is hope you can find flow, freedom and FULFILLMENT.

The book also gives you an introduction to shadow alchemy, my unique take on the modality developed by Carl Jung and then further developed by Myss and Swan and others and also developed by me.

25/05/2026

Lately I have been writing on Substack!
Wondering how many of you know that and when it comes to Facebook how many of you follow me here on Facebook Taniya Hussain where you will see me share my Substack notes and articles!
In the words you will find The Reflective SPACE you have been seeking!

26/03/2026

Do you want Freedom?
Shelley Poliner attained it in one consultation. She describes it here!
If you want to book a consultation it's so easy just click on the link in this bio Taniya Hussain

17/03/2026

This photo is from Halima Krausen all credit is to her for this image and it inspired my latest note on Substack!
https://substack.com//note/c-228892624?r=50ca7c

09/03/2026

Do you ever wake up on a Monday and think:”Is this it?”You don’t say it out loud.You barely even let yourself think it.But it’s there.Especially on Mondays.The day you secretly resent.Sunday already feels infected by Monday, doesn’t it?You can’t fully relax on Sundays the way you can on Saturdays.There’s a low-level tension in your body.A background hum of anxiety.And slowing down…well that’s something you’ve struggled with your entire life.Because you’re a high performer Successful.Driven. Responsible.You get things done.Yet every Sunday evening, and every Monday morning, there’s that familiar feeling creeping in.That thought:“If I didn’t have to do this… I’d be doing that instead.”Your mind drifts….just for a second…to the dream you’ve had for years.Then you catch yourself.No.Too much to do.As always.Meetings.Appointments.An endless to-do list that grows faster than you can shrink it.You rewrite it.Make it more “realistic”.Shorter.But the real list isn’t the one on your laptop.It’s the one in your head.And buried somewhere on that list is:the holiday you keep postponingthe weekend away you never bookthe life you’ll “get to later”Because you’ve always been the responsible one, haven’t you?Not the spontaneous one.Not the one who responds to her deepest desires.You remember that woman you worked with years ago.The one who always booked weekends away with her husband.What was her name again?Your attention drifts back to the cup of tea in your hand.Your handwritten list for Monday.You notice the 11am meeting you scheduled on purpose.Not 9am.You were kind to yourself.One of the small ways you manage your anxiety.You take a breath.Deep in.Slow out.Then you switch on your computer.That fantasy of getting away….for the weekend, with your husband….or maybe even on your own ….You push it aside.Again.But for a few seconds, you let yourself FEEL it.The lightness.The space.The freedom.You smile.You sigh.And somehow, that tiny moment of escape helps you get through the rest of your day.Until next Sunday.

https://taniyahussain.com/2026/03/09/do-you-ever-wake-up-on-a-monday-and-thinkis-this-ityou-dont-say-it-out-loud-you-barely-even-let-yourself-think-it-but-its-there-especially-on-mondays-the-day-you-secretl

Slow down SaturdayMar 7, 2026Slow Down Saturday…..and yes, I see the contradiction.I’m writing this onlineto invite you to step away being onlinemI know how ironic that sounds.But let me tell you why I still say it.Long before Facebook.Before Instagram.Before smartphones lived in our hands.Back....

08/03/2026

I don’t help people make more money.
There are plenty of coaches and consultants on social media who do that.
That’s not my work.
This is what I do:
I help you slow down so you can find
FULFILMENT
FREEDOM
CLARITY
FLOW
The people who hire me are not struggling.
They are high-achieving professionals, entrepreneurs, creatives, artists, leaders.
People earning:
five or six figures in salary
five, six, seven, even eight figures in business
From the outside, their lives look sorted.
Beautiful websites.
Impressive careers.
Strong reputations.
And yet…
They feel unfulfilled.
Caged by success.
Restless.
Bored.
Disconnected from meaning.
You would never know this from their social media.
Because most of us project an exaggerated version of our success online.
Even the famous.
Even the powerful.
Even the accomplished.
And many of the people who hire me don’t have a trusted circle where they can say:
“Something isn’t right… and I don’t know how to name it.”
So they come quietly.
Privately.
Confidentially.
I’ve worked with:
business owners
doctors
editors
actors, singers, dancers
creatives and leaders in the public and private sector
People who look like they “have it all”
while privately navigating:
bereavement
chronic illness
narcissistic abuse
divorce or separation
deep loneliness
loss of meaning
They don’t hire me because I promise them more.
They hire me because I help them tell the truth.
Yes, I am “just a social worker”.
A social worker who has spent over 30 years in the helping profession,
trained therapeutically,
working deeply, ethically, and confidentially.
And that’s exactly why they trust me.
Because I don’t perform.
I don’t inflate.
I don’t hustle.
I help you name what you’ve been avoiding.
Here’s what I know to be true:
👉 Success does not guarantee fulfilment
👉 Money does not dissolve restlessness
👉 Achievement does not answer the question “Is this it?”
Most of my clients never imagined that becoming successful would feel like this.
There’s a saying:
Success is a series of failures.
I would say:
Fulfilment is a series of honest successes.
And honesty begins with naming the real problem.
That is what the Reflective Space Consultation is for.
In 90 minutes, I help you:
identify the actual problem (not the presenting one)
uncover lifelong patterns
understand why nothing you’ve tried has worked
save years of confusion, money, and unnecessary self-blame
I don’t do DMs.
I don’t do surface-level conversations.
This consultation is for people who are ready to face what they already sense.
When you know the real problem,
the solutions become obvious.
And from there, we decide—together—what comes next.
If you’re reading this on a Sunday and feeling that familiar restlessness…
that’s not a coincidence.
You slow down on Sundays.
And the truth gets louder.
If this resonates, book the consultation.
The link is in the comments below.
It would be an honour to help you name what has been hard to name.

08/03/2026

Thank you to Mushrat Sadiq for this review!
I am so glad that I was able to guide you to what was blocking you!

Would you like to book a 90 minute consultation?

Just use the link in the comments