The Reflective SPACE

26/03/2026

Do you want Freedom?
Shelley Poliner attained it in one consultation. She describes it here!
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17/03/2026

This photo is from Halima Krausen all credit is to her for this image and it inspired my latest note on Substack!
https://substack.com//note/c-228892624?r=50ca7c

09/03/2026

Do you ever wake up on a Monday and think:”Is this it?”You don’t say it out loud.You barely even let yourself think it.But it’s there.Especially on Mondays.The day you secretly resent.Sunday already feels infected by Monday, doesn’t it?You can’t fully relax on Sundays the way you can on Saturdays.There’s a low-level tension in your body.A background hum of anxiety.And slowing down…well that’s something you’ve struggled with your entire life.Because you’re a high performer Successful.Driven. Responsible.You get things done.Yet every Sunday evening, and every Monday morning, there’s that familiar feeling creeping in.That thought:“If I didn’t have to do this… I’d be doing that instead.”Your mind drifts….just for a second…to the dream you’ve had for years.Then you catch yourself.No.Too much to do.As always.Meetings.Appointments.An endless to-do list that grows faster than you can shrink it.You rewrite it.Make it more “realistic”.Shorter.But the real list isn’t the one on your laptop.It’s the one in your head.And buried somewhere on that list is:the holiday you keep postponingthe weekend away you never bookthe life you’ll “get to later”Because you’ve always been the responsible one, haven’t you?Not the spontaneous one.Not the one who responds to her deepest desires.You remember that woman you worked with years ago.The one who always booked weekends away with her husband.What was her name again?Your attention drifts back to the cup of tea in your hand.Your handwritten list for Monday.You notice the 11am meeting you scheduled on purpose.Not 9am.You were kind to yourself.One of the small ways you manage your anxiety.You take a breath.Deep in.Slow out.Then you switch on your computer.That fantasy of getting away….for the weekend, with your husband….or maybe even on your own ….You push it aside.Again.But for a few seconds, you let yourself FEEL it.The lightness.The space.The freedom.You smile.You sigh.And somehow, that tiny moment of escape helps you get through the rest of your day.Until next Sunday.

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Slow down SaturdayMar 7, 2026Slow Down Saturday…..and yes, I see the contradiction.I’m writing this onlineto invite you to step away being onlinemI know how ironic that sounds.But let me tell you why I still say it.Long before Facebook.Before Instagram.Before smartphones lived in our hands.Back....

08/03/2026

I don’t help people make more money.
There are plenty of coaches and consultants on social media who do that.
That’s not my work.
This is what I do:
I help you slow down so you can find
FULFILMENT
FREEDOM
CLARITY
FLOW
The people who hire me are not struggling.
They are high-achieving professionals, entrepreneurs, creatives, artists, leaders.
People earning:
five or six figures in salary
five, six, seven, even eight figures in business
From the outside, their lives look sorted.
Beautiful websites.
Impressive careers.
Strong reputations.
And yet…
They feel unfulfilled.
Caged by success.
Restless.
Bored.
Disconnected from meaning.
You would never know this from their social media.
Because most of us project an exaggerated version of our success online.
Even the famous.
Even the powerful.
Even the accomplished.
And many of the people who hire me don’t have a trusted circle where they can say:
“Something isn’t right… and I don’t know how to name it.”
So they come quietly.
Privately.
Confidentially.
I’ve worked with:
business owners
doctors
editors
actors, singers, dancers
creatives and leaders in the public and private sector
People who look like they “have it all”
while privately navigating:
bereavement
chronic illness
narcissistic abuse
divorce or separation
deep loneliness
loss of meaning
They don’t hire me because I promise them more.
They hire me because I help them tell the truth.
Yes, I am “just a social worker”.
A social worker who has spent over 30 years in the helping profession,
trained therapeutically,
working deeply, ethically, and confidentially.
And that’s exactly why they trust me.
Because I don’t perform.
I don’t inflate.
I don’t hustle.
I help you name what you’ve been avoiding.
Here’s what I know to be true:
👉 Success does not guarantee fulfilment
👉 Money does not dissolve restlessness
👉 Achievement does not answer the question “Is this it?”
Most of my clients never imagined that becoming successful would feel like this.
There’s a saying:
Success is a series of failures.
I would say:
Fulfilment is a series of honest successes.
And honesty begins with naming the real problem.
That is what the Reflective Space Consultation is for.
In 90 minutes, I help you:
identify the actual problem (not the presenting one)
uncover lifelong patterns
understand why nothing you’ve tried has worked
save years of confusion, money, and unnecessary self-blame
I don’t do DMs.
I don’t do surface-level conversations.
This consultation is for people who are ready to face what they already sense.
When you know the real problem,
the solutions become obvious.
And from there, we decide—together—what comes next.
If you’re reading this on a Sunday and feeling that familiar restlessness…
that’s not a coincidence.
You slow down on Sundays.
And the truth gets louder.
If this resonates, book the consultation.
The link is in the comments below.
It would be an honour to help you name what has been hard to name.

08/03/2026

Thank you to Mushrat Sadiq for this review!
I am so glad that I was able to guide you to what was blocking you!

Would you like to book a 90 minute consultation?

Just use the link in the comments

07/03/2026

Slow down Saturday

Slow Down Saturday…..and yes, I see the contradiction. I’m writing this onlineto invite you to step away being onlinem I know how ironic that sounds. But let me tell you why I still say it.Long before Facebook.Before Instagram.Before smartphones lived in our hands.Back in 2003, I made a quiet decision to regularly step away from digital devices....

07/03/2026

Did your soul stop singing?

You will resonate with this blog then?

Mine did for two decades. I didn't notice this for so long I was too busy.Pretending that I was ok.Carrying on being strong.And I am strong.I am a tough cookie What would have floored others, that same experience has made me get up from being on the floor metaphorically speaking…

06/03/2026

Did your soul stop singing?

Mine did for two decades. I didn't notice this for so long I was too busy.Pretending that I was ok.Carrying on being strong.And I am strong.I am a tough cookie What would have floored others, that same experience has made me get up from being on the floor metaphorically speaking and spiritually speaking and physically speaking and determined to do better for myself and to teach that lesson that I learned (how I got kicked onto the floor) to others....

Mine did for two decades. I didn't notice this for so long I was too busy.Pretending that I was ok.Carrying on being strong.And I am strong.I am a tough cookie What would have floored others, that same experience has made me get up from being on the floor metaphorically speaking…

08/01/2026

Holistic approaches to healing!

I’m seeing a trend in the online space and offline space in social work, therapy circles amongst coaches etc. And I am VERY observant of trends of reading between the lines, spotting patterns in the transformation of Having studied Jungian Psychology and Islamic Psychology since the early 1990s and not just studied it but also having applied it to myself and my life and my challenges and used it to overcome my personal and professional challenges and also used both with my social work and coaching clients regularly, I find the trends interesting....

I’m seeing a trend in the online space and offline space in social work, therapy circles amongst coaches etc. And I am VERY observant of trends of reading between the lines, spotting patterns in the transformation of Having studied Jungian Psychology and Islamic Psychology since the...

01/01/2026

Trauma is the Training Ground for Leadership

Heroes quote themselves according to Manny Wolfe the author of The Tao of The Unbreakable Man. So here is me quoting myself "Trauma is the Training Ground for Leadership" This is something I have said to myself, to my clients, to my friends and seen in my 50 plus years of life My own heroes are testament to this whether it is RAYE or Madonna or George Orwell or Sinéad O'Connor or Maya Angelou or Malcolm X…...

Heroes quote themselves according to Manny Wolfe the author of The Tao of The Unbreakable Man.So here is me quoting myself "Trauma is the Training Ground for Leadership"This is something I have said to myself, to my clients, to my friends and seen in my 50 plus years of life…

27/12/2025

Eight years ago around this time I took a step that changed my life!

Eight ago exactly I was debating on Boxing Day 2018 whether to pay a $500 deposit which was going to be non refundable to an online coach. I hardly had any savings and I was going to sign up to a 12 month contract with this coach that called herself a Success coach. She quoted me her fees which I was really shocked by....

Eight ago exactly I was debating on Boxing Day 2018 whether to pay a $500 deposit which was going to be non refundable to an online coach. I hardly had any savings and I was going to sign up to a 12 month contract with this coach that called herself…

24/12/2025

This is what someone said who has seen my work very closely. She was present in The Born to FLOW! Classes that were shared in this Facebook group
She said although The Reflective SPACE is very much about me being a mirror for you pointing out all your blind spots, I am not "just the mirror alone."

Like she said a mirror can still stay very intellectual."

And I know many who gravitate towards me are " in their heads" and are very intellectual.

Those who hire me and have invested financially thousands of dollars or pounds and also have invested in time whether that was in minutes, hours or weeks or months or years in the that I offer have experienced RAPID and MULTIPLE Transformations

You are either therapists, coaches, entrepreneurs, creatives, professionals

Some of you have been business coaches

MOST of you enjoy success financially in your business, career or creative projects.

You are usually far more successful than me financially.

However most of my clients who have invested in me have a tendency to live in your head.

You definitely enjoy receiving the ahas and the insights that you experience in the reflective spaces I offer

You experience HUGE relief that you can NAME what you were dancing in darkness with for months or years or decades

The difference though between me and other coaches, consultants and therapists that you have financially invested in is that I help you integrate those ahas and insights into real life.

My genius is to move you from knowing something intellectually into embodying it.

That is WHY my extensive experience as a social worker for three decades is SUCH an advantage for you.

You then integrate all the knowledge you gain during The Reflective Space Consultation or The Reflective Space Adventure or The Reflective Sessions

There are very few Consultants like me because I offer you TRANSFORMATIoNAL coaching

Your wealth is transformed

Your health is transformed

Your relationships are transformed

You are transformed

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