19/11/2025
🪶 Wisdom Wednesday: Feeding the Crows 🪶
Every week, I walk the same loop through the graveyard with Nia and Lily, pockets full of scraps for “my” crows. 🐦⬛
What started as tossing a few treats to one curious bird has quietly turned into something else entirely. Now, when I turn into the path, a whole murder of crows lifts from the trees and gravestones and gathers around me. Last week I counted more than twenty. It sounds like the beginning of a horror film, but honestly, it feels like being recognised.
The Stoics talked about sympatheia — the idea that everything in the universe is connected in one living, breathing whole. We’re not separate from nature; we’re threaded through it.
Walking through the graves with the dogs at my heels and the crows watching from the stones, it’s hard not to feel that. Beneath my feet are lives that have already run their course. Above me are creatures who’ve started to remember who I am. I’m somewhere in the middle: very temporary, very alive.
The crows don’t know my plans or worries. They don’t care what I’ve ticked off my to-do list. They only know that, week after week, this particular human shows up with food and does them no harm. That is Stoicism in practice more than theory: not big declarations, just consistent action that slowly shapes a relationship and a character.
I’ve made it a small goal for 2026 to see if one will take food from my hand. It’s a tiny thing, almost silly on paper, but it reminds me that trust is built exactly like that — crumb by crumb, visit by visit, day by day. With animals, with people, and with ourselves.
The graveyard, the birds, the dogs, and this one wandering human: all part of the same web. The walk is a weekly memento mori, yes — a reminder that I’ll one day be under the earth rather than walking on top of it. But it’s also a reminder of sympatheia: that while I’m here, I’m woven into something larger, and my job is to move through it with a bit of kindness, a bit of steadiness, knowing that even the crows are paying attention to who I’m becoming. 🖤