Life With The Robertsons

Life With The Robertsons Single Mum | Sleep Coach
🤍 Real motherhood. Gentle sleep support.
✨ Routines, temperament & honest moments

Hi my Name is Sam and I am the founder of Sleep Solutions with Sam. I help families by supporting them with their children's sleep challenges when they are no longer sustainable for them. When I am not supporting families with sleep I am mum to one and I enjoy spending time with friends and being creative.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt, both professionally and personally, is that sleep doesn’t happen in isolation.Ch...
11/06/2026

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt, both professionally and personally, is that sleep doesn’t happen in isolation.

Children aren’t robots. They aren’t unaffected by big feelings, family transitions, developmental leaps or changes in their world.

Could I work towards my child sleeping independently right now? Yes.

But is that what he needs at this time? For us, no.

And that’s the piece I think is often missing from the sleep conversation.

It’s not about doing it “right.”

It’s about understanding your child, considering their temperament, weighing up your family’s needs, and making informed decisions without guilt.

The support we offer our children will evolve.

The boundaries we hold may change.

The sleep strategies we use won’t necessarily look the same forever.

That’s not inconsistency.

That’s responsive parenting.

What works in one season may not work in another—and that’s okay.

✨ Sleep support should fit your family, not force your family to fit a formula.

If you’re in a season where sleep feels different, harder, or more emotionally loaded than before, you’re not alone.

The past year has changed me in ways I never expected.Some decisions were painful. Some were terrifying. But none of the...
10/06/2026

The past year has changed me in ways I never expected.

Some decisions were painful. Some were terrifying. But none of them are regrets.

Because every choice I made was rooted in protecting my peace, creating joy for my child, and building a life we deserve.

I’d choose us, every single time. ❤️

One year ago, I couldn’t see beyond the pain.I was grieving the life I thought I’d have, trying to hold everything toget...
09/06/2026

One year ago, I couldn’t see beyond the pain.

I was grieving the life I thought I’d have, trying to hold everything together whilst quietly falling apart behind closed doors.

If I’m honest, there were moments I didn’t recognise myself anymore.

But healing doesn’t happen all at once.

It happens in the small moments:
✨ The first time you laugh without guilt.
✨ The first decision you make just for you.
✨ The day you realise you’re no longer surviving every single minute.
✨ The moment you understand that someone else’s choices do not define your worth.

This letter is for the version of me who didn’t know she’d make it through.

And it’s for anyone reading this who is in the thick of it right now.

You don’t have to have all the answers.
You don’t have to rush your healing.
You just have to keep going.

One day, you’ll look back and realise just how brave you were.

What would you say to the version of you from one year ago? ❤️

Nobody really talks about the identity shift that happens when your entire life changes.Not just practically.Emotionally...
05/06/2026

Nobody really talks about the identity shift that happens when your entire life changes.

Not just practically.
Emotionally too.

You can love your children deeply and still grieve.
You can be relieved and heartbroken.
You can be healing and exhausted at the same time.

A lot of women are quietly rebuilding themselves while still showing up for everyone else every single day.

This is for them.

When we talk about children’s sleep, we often focus on independence.But what if, sometimes, what they need most is conne...
04/06/2026

When we talk about children’s sleep, we often focus on independence.

But what if, sometimes, what they need most is connection?

Since separating from my husband, my child has slept with me.

Not because he can’t sleep independently.
Not because I’ve forgotten everything I know about sleep.
Not because I’m worried he’ll never leave.

But because his world changed.

As adults, we understand what separation means. We can rationalise it, process it, seek support and make sense of what’s happening.

Children don’t always have those same tools.

Instead, they communicate through behaviour, emotions, and often… through sleep.

Some children may seem unaffected by big life events. Others may become more anxious, more clingy, or need extra reassurance, especially at bedtime and overnight.

That’s where temperament matters.

Children experience and respond to change differently. There is no one-size-fits-all approach.

For my child, right now, closeness at night is helping him feel secure while he adjusts to a new chapter.

And that’s okay.

Because responding to a need isn’t the same as creating a dependency.

Children don’t stay in these phases forever.

One day he won’t want to share my bed.
One day he’ll seek more independence again.

But for now, I’m choosing connection over pressure and understanding over expectations.

Sleep isn’t just about routines and sleep associations.

It’s about relationships, emotions, safety and meeting children where they are.

Have you noticed your child’s sleep change after a significant life event? ❤️

One of the biggest shifts I see in families is when they stop asking:“What’s wrong with my child?”and start asking:“What...
02/06/2026

One of the biggest shifts I see in families is when they stop asking:

“What’s wrong with my child?”

and start asking:

“What is my child telling me through their behaviour?”

Sleep isn’t just about routines, wake windows or bedtime charts.

It’s about understanding the individual child in front of you.

A child who is highly sensitive may experience sleep very differently from a child who is highly adaptable.

A child who is persistent may need a completely different approach from a child who is naturally easy-going.

When parents understand their child’s temperament, sleep challenges often begin to make much more sense.

That’s why my support isn’t based on a one-size-fits-all method.

I help families understand their child’s unique temperament and use that knowledge to develop practical, realistic sleep strategies that work for their family.

Because when we work with a child’s natural traits, rather than against them, everything becomes easier.

What temperament trait best describes your child? Tell me below ⬇️

I’m still here.Still standing.Still learning.Still rebuilding.Still showing up for my son.Still choosing peace.And for t...
01/06/2026

I’m still here.

Still standing.

Still learning.

Still rebuilding.

Still showing up for my son.

Still choosing peace.

And for the first time in a long time, I’m excited about what’s ahead.

Some snaps from our half term week
31/05/2026

Some snaps from our half term week

27/05/2026

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