The SelShow, Poole (2025)

28/10/2025

Sel, so for the last 1 year, I have been dating this guy I love so much, and we have plans of getting married soon. However, I am sure things would not work between us again because, I am sick and tired of everything his mother has done to me. My issue is that, my mother in law to be, comes to visit us in my boyfriend's house, anytime I visited. And as a girl brought up from a good home, I have always held my heart, showed her respect and humility even in the face of these physical, emotional and psychological tortures but she wouldn't stop. Anything I do, doesn't please her and will complain about everything about me, even though I don't do anything bad.

Sel, it's as though I have become a slave just because I am in love with a guy. About weeks ago while my boyfriend went to meet someone, she started her things as usual. To be honest, I felt like an orphan because, she even insulted my family that, we are gold diggers. To be honest, lost my cool and replied her, even though it was a difficult thing to do.I have tolerated this for far too long because she has abused me for all these while. To solve the problem, I have left my boyfriend's place and has decided not to go back. Currently, I am been blamed for been disrespectful, arrogant and not a marriage material. Are my actions not justified and will it be right for me to go into this marriage, as my boyfriend has been begging me. What should be my best decision?

Anonymous Lady

28/10/2025

Sel, sometimes the people who are suppose to be there for you, are rather the ones who even seek your death. The fact is that, about two years ago, I met and fell in love with guy and has given him, all my love ever since. A year after, he proposed marriage and we are 3 months away, from our wedding. However, my man has done something that has broken my heart.

Sel, I have not been feeling well so we have been in and out of the hospital, trying to know what the issue is . Unfortunately, two months ago, I was diagnosed of Cancer and currently on admission. When Steve came and was told my diagnosis, that was the last time I set my eyes on him. I have done everything to contact him but he has refused, to pick my calls.

Sel, I am trusting in God to heal and restore me to glory because, the disappointment is too much for me to bear. I pray that nobody would experience this kind of treatment in life because it is painful. I also aske for your prayers to let him return to me because this is the time I need him most and the love he promised me.

Anonymous Lady

27/10/2025

Sel, as a nurse, I work very hard to take care of my patients. Despite working hard to make sure our patients are okay, we also do have our personal needs, challenges and problems. This however we manage, in order not to interfere with our work. However, things got out of hand for me the last time, leading to me taking certain decision.

Sel, months ago, I was on the ward taking care of one of our patients when my phone, kept ringing. Due to work ethics, I did not pick the call but when I did later, it was my son calling, as usual for some money. To be honest, I was very broke at that time and as a single parent, there was nothing I could do but to wait until I was paid.

Sel, luckily when I came back to my patient I was taking care of, he asked if I attended to my call. I told him as usual, it was my son calling for money but he asked how much he wanted. When I mentioned the amount, he quickly transferred double amount of that to my mobile money.. Apparently, my incharge observed from afar and has queried me.

Sel, even though I explained to her woman to woman, she still wants to create problems for me. I have done everything but she still wants to go ahead with disciplinary actions against me, which could lead to my dismissal. Have I done anything wrong by accepting the offer of money, which was voluntarily given to me? Is she not been wicked to me and how do I solve this issue because, I don't want to lose my job!!

Anonymous Nurse

27/10/2025

We cannot pray to God and end up in shame, this week and beyond shall be our testimony!!!

26/10/2025

Sel, I have been going through this s*xual harassment from my step father for more than 2 years, but could not talk about. However, I read a similar story on this platform that inspired me, so I have decided to also share mine. We are two children to our parents but unfortunately, my dad is late. While my brother is married and lives abroad, I still live with my mum and 23 years old. In fact, even though we love our dad and missed him, I must say my mum did not enjoy her marriage with dad. This is due to many things that went on between them but because they had kids together, she had to endure it

Sel, my dad was womanizing left, right and centre before he died. In view of this, it's always our prayer for mum to enjoy her marriage, should she decide to do so again. Luckily, she did after years of my dad's death. So I live with my mum and step father but months after their marriage, my step dad has been disturbing me s*xually. Sometimes, he sends his manhood pictures to my phone which I normally delete immediately. I cannot even tell my mum about this.

Sel, one day while cooking in the kitchen, this man came from behind and started playing with my b***s forcefully. I was angry and ended up hitting his head with an object and he bled. However, he told mum he fell down. I did not want to be the reason for their break up so I kept quiet on it. Unfortunately for him, his next plan caused me to also do something tough. About 3 months ago, while raining at night heavily, this man put sleeping tablets into mum's drink and made her go into deep sleep, in order to carry out his evil plan. I was in my room, when he came naked, with his manhood in the air into my room.

Sel, I shouted calling my mum out but she could not respond. It was at this point he told me, mum took sleeping tablets to sleep well. I quickly went to their room, to check on my mum but no amount of shaking could wake her up. It was then he warned that, should anyone get to know of this I would be a dead person. Knowing how strong this man was, I surrendered and asked him to wait for me in my bed, while I use the toilet, freshen up and come. While he was in the bed naked, I locked the door with the key and called the police immediately. Upon their arrival, they arrested him and quickly rushed my mum to the hospital. Medical examinations confirmed she took too much dose of the sleeping tablets.

Sel, when she woke up a day after and regained consciousness, she denied taking the tablets. She just remembered her husband serving her a drink. My step dad has been remanded in prison custody by the court, with attempted r**e and other charges. His family is however saying I am a wicked lady and that we should withdraw the case against him. Does this man not deserve to be jailed or I am over stepping my bounds?

Anonymous Lady

26/10/2025

Sunday special!!!

Condom use is on the decline, according to Ghana Aids Commission. Why are people not willing to use condom during s*x anymore? Let's discuss.

26/10/2025

Sel, I am a guy who is 28 years old and needs an urgent advice. About 7 months ago, I met a lady who is 40 years old and became friends. After talking and meeting up for 3 months, she has expressed interest in me saying, she is in love with me. I like her though but I don't know why I could not give her an answer. Four months now she has been trying to convince me, so we can have a relationship. I have however asked her to give me some time to consider it but she says she doesn't want to lose me.

Sel, what we see guys do to a ladies, is what she is doing to me. She has even offered to buy me a car and take good care of me, if I agree to date and marry her because she is just, in love with me. To be honest, I like her but is this real love or there is something to it?

Anonymous Guy

26/10/2025

Sel, I have been married for the past 15 years with no child, even though my husband was there for me I could see his frustrations over time. Sundenly along the line, my in laws who were very nice to me, also became cold towards me. I cried always but my parents kept encouraging me to trust in God.

Sel, what even broke me down somewhere along the line was my dear husband. The fact is while a lady faces this challenge of childbirth and praying and doing everything to become fruitful, one most important thing to do, is to keep having constant s*x with her partner. Unfortunately, I was hurt one morning when I approached my dear husband for s*x. I did everything possible and when he got the idea I wanted it, he just told me no because, he did not want to waste his s***m again.

Sel, I was so hurt and just became could within my soul, for a husband to tell his wife this in a trying moment like this. Later in the day, I just went home to my parents and cried out my heart. Here is a man I love, through no fault of mine, could not have children. I have never had an abortion in my life and infact, he married me a virgin. The worst of it all is that, he has even refused we do the artificial insemination. But as Bible says, weeping may endure for a night, but Joy comest in the morning, I finally got pregnant and gave birth to a set of beautiful twins.

Sel, I thought that will end the problem and joy prevail but no. They however pretended to be happy but I knew, it was all fake. Because I could not conceive for 15 years and suddenly I did, they all believed I went somewhere or brought another man's pregnancy home. But my suspicion was however confirmed when the twins turned 2 years. One morning, we just woke up when my husband told me, he would like a DNA conducted on the kids. I had nothing to hide so I said okay and finally, when the results came it was good because, the kids belongs to him.

Sel, there is total happiness in the house, he bought me a new car, and so many gifts but my heart is not happy. Part of me has left the marriage because of the treatment I experienced. Today, my in-laws treat me like a queen but is that how life must be? So I ask myself, if someone treat their daughter like this, how will they feel? Even though I am grateful to God, I feel I am only recognised only when the going is good. Does this marriage has any good future for me because marriage they say, is for better for worse but this one only knows for better. Will it be a wrong decision to quit this marriage?

Anonymous Wife

25/10/2025

Sel, as a concerned father who also loves his dear wife, there is a serious dilemma to deal with and therefore, will need imput from your readers. My wife and I have a 17 year old daughter and we love her so much. In fact, the bond between the two is very admirable and even me the husband, I get jealous of them sometimes. Despite all these beautiful things, I discovered something that almost gave me a stroke.

Sel, few weeks ago I saw a contraceptive in his school bag and after questioning her, it came out that her mum bought it for her. According to my daughter, her mother has introduced his current boyfriend to her and they have been dating, for sometime now. I cannot believe this is happening to my daughter because, at age 17 she is already s*xually active and already on contraceptives. How do I deal with this delicate issue because according to her, this is the second guy her mum introduced to her!!!

Anonymous Guy

25/10/2025

Sel, I have a simple but delicate issue, I want to seek answers to. I met this lady I like and we have been talking, for sometime now for a possible relationship however, upon meeting her family, I realized I am rather more attracted to her sister. It would rather be good if I go for what my soul wants, is this bad and how do I go about it, without anyone feeling bad.

Anonymous Guy

24/10/2025

Sel, even when I was 18 years old, many guys worried me for a relationship. However, I rejected all of them because the issues surrounding relationships lately especially with the younger ones is scary. In view of that, I have decided to rather date a more matured, grown and an older man. When I turned 20 years, I started dating this man I fell in love with and he is 70 years but look very healthy, full of energy and above all, very loving.man.

Sel, he doesn't give me trouble as the younger ones will do, does not demand too much s*x, but do alot of things for me and very caring. The challenge now is that, I attempted to introduce him to my mum and it looks as if, they might not like the idea. However, leaving him now will be difficult because in order not to lose him, we have done blood covenant and currently entangled in love.

Anonymous Lady

24/10/2025

Sel, after my teacher training college education, I was posted to a town near the capital city, of my country. There, I joined a charismatic church and was part of the prayer warriors. This group helped me alot because, I became very prayerful and many positive things happened in my life. I made time for our meetings and never missed any, of our meetings. While I did all these, I never knew I was preparing myself for greater battles ahead in life.

Sel, after teaching in this town for some years, I was transferred to a typical village, to teach. Infact, I was reluctant to go but after some considerations, I eventually decided to go. A month or two later in the village, one guy approached me for a favour. According to him, they have this football team in the village and since I am a teacher and can write, they would like me to be their secretary. I accepted it and started work.

Sel, through hard work we managed to get some jerseys, footballs and other kits, for the team. Unfortunately, while all these positive developments were going on, some of the members were busily trying to kill me. About 8 months later, one of the guys noted for spiritual things, came to talk to me. According to him, he has commanded my soul to appear in the calabash water, so he can stab me to death. According to him however, he could not see anything appeared.

Sel, to this end he told me I should continue to believe in what I serve. I then told him about the one I serve, Jesus the saviour. You might think you pray and nothing happens, your challenges and problems in life are becoming huge but without any solutions. Hold on fast to prayers because that is what will save you one day, just as it saves me. God bless us all!!! 🙏🙏🙏

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