28/12/2025
Christmas is not about possessions it’s about people. They always show their true colours eventually so this is the season to appreciate those that are loving, loyal and honest, I know I do. Last Christmas was tough, my PTSD was triggered by a violent episode which scared the life out of me - triggered by alcohol but no excuse (after 30 years of managing it) and I thought my relationship was over but actually it ‘reset’ my relationships. The most important people are those that can’t bear to see you in pain and will do anything to help. Sadly that’s not always everyone, I was so angry to be back to square one fighting my demons but with the right people beside me I can honestly say I am in a far better place than I’ve been for a long time. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t suffering in certain situations but I’ve been here before and I know where I’m going. The main thing is the love, support and understanding I have along the way. Never underestimate what you’re worth, it’s not what you have but who you have.