20/09/2025
Good morning all!! What a glorious day after all this crap weather and anger going on in the world. I have a thought for the day 😉🤣 please feel free to scroll past but I’ve had a few ‘deep’ chats and hugs with clients and friends this week and it got me thinking.
We all have different upbringings, educations and experiences but people come in and out of your life for a reason. The same as traumas. They have to mean something, no matter how difficult it may feel at the time, for it to have been worth your pain or struggles.
I love to invest my time, empathy and experience to help others that are struggling or just need a little support or understanding and I don’t expect anything in return. I just think it’s lucky that they have connected with me at a time when they needed support. If they take everything I give and then walk away without looking back even if I may be struggling (which could be uncomfortable for them) then that is their choice and know my job is done as they have the confidence to go forward without looking back.
I will never say bad things about anyone, even if they have been spiteful, I feel that is their problem not mine. I am just proud that they are moving forward to their new chapter.
My main point is never mistake my kindness for weakness, always remain proud of who you are. If people exploit that and use you for what they need then turn on you it’s their problem and not yours. If lies are told to you, don’t tolerate it no matter what. You have nurtured, cared for and encouraged them to be honest so lying to you is the ultimate insult as you have given them no need to. There are too many fake people in this world living a lie because they are more worried about being seen to be ‘living the life’ but why do they feel they need to? And are they truly happy or compromising themselves to do so.
Every person has a story, a past and a future, no judgement should ever be made because they are where they are for a reason. Don’t be jealous and spiteful of their success or happiness, they probably fought hard and have suffered to actually get there. Also, don’t judge those who are on a low, they are also there for a reason and coping in their own way. If you truly care reach out, they may feel isolated so it’s better to just be there and say nothing than to avoid them as they make you uncomfortable, it’s not about you, it’s about another human who may feel lost, hurt and alone.
We all come into the world the same, don’t let the hate, ridicule and competitiveness of today’s world change you. Life is too short, be true to yourselves and those you love.
And if all else fails then just grab this mug, double your caffeine intake and tell them all to F**ck Off!!!
