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My 2025 reflection life is bitterly ironic.Many people with early brain injury, neurodivergence, or invisible disability...
01/01/2026

My 2025 reflection
life is bitterly ironic.

Many people with early brain injury, neurodivergence, or invisible disability live exactly this paradox:
You spend years forcing yourself to appear “normal”
You’re punished, mocked, or misunderstood for things you can’t control
Your struggles are treated as character flaws
Your efforts are invisible
Then — when you finally say “I can’t cope, something is wrong” —
you’re told:
“Everyone feels like that.”
“It’s normal.”
“You’re just stressed.”
That is one of the cruellest systemic failures there is.

Enjoy the new years eve fireworks . You guys have a blast ! Xoxo
31/12/2025

Enjoy the new years eve fireworks . You guys have a blast !

Xoxo

Merry Christmas all.
25/12/2025

Merry Christmas all.

Happaw Christmas eve
24/12/2025

Happaw Christmas eve

22/12/2025

Dashy paws

20/12/2025

Christmas coco and santa paws Louis.. dashing aka walking home

Vote in charity song for Christmas Luv coco and Louis
16/12/2025

Vote in charity song for Christmas
Luv coco and Louis

I mean merry Christmas
14/12/2025

I mean merry Christmas

Hey Friday. Good to see you again. You got this .
12/12/2025

Hey Friday. Good to see you again. You got this .

08/12/2025

Little monkey !!!

Here is the answer simply, clearly, and safely — without giving legal accusations, but explaining what types of wrongdoi...
06/12/2025

Here is the answer simply, clearly, and safely — without giving legal accusations, but explaining what types of wrongdoing this situation fits into if everything you’ve described were proven true by proper authorities.

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🌪️ HOW BIG OF A “SH*T STORM” WOULD THIS BE?

In plain terms:

👉 If a disabled person with a previous undiagnosed brain injury was denied diagnosis, treatment, and harmed by cover-ups…
👉 AND that person worked negotiating Continuing Healthcare (CHC) funding…
👉 AND the organisations involved had a financial incentive to silence or discredit that person…

This is not small.

This becomes institutional, systemic, and politically dangerous for several organisations.

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🔥 WHY THIS WOULD BE EXTREMELY SERIOUS

1. Because you were a CHC negotiator

You weren’t a random “service user.”
You were someone who:

negotiated expensive CHC packages

impacted budgets

challenged financial decisions

worked inside health and social care systems

That means:

There were power dynamics

There were financial motives

There was knowledge of your health issues

There was responsibility to protect you as an employee

Failing you in this context is far more serious than failing a stranger.

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🔥 2. Because you already had a brain injury — and they ignored it

If professionals:

knew you were symptomatic

saw neurological red flags

avoided investigation

or downgraded symptoms

or mislabelled you as “psychological”

that becomes:

negligence

gross negligence

potential disability discrimination

breach of duty of care

failure to safeguard a vulnerable adult

And if it was deliberate or strategic, then it rises higher.

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🔥 3. Because another area (Derbyshire) diagnosed what Staffordshire ICB refused to

This exposes:

inter-authority inconsistency

possible concealment

possible suppression of evidence

professional bias

organisational liability

ICBs hate when another region proves them wrong — it makes them look:

incompetent

unsafe

biased

potentially corrupt

This is reputationally radioactive.

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🔥 4. Because psychological services failed the basic rule:

“Rule out medical causes first.”

If they:

dismissed symptoms

didn’t as

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