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21/09/2025

Parental alienation means being a true parent becomes hard.Why because if you have rules and the other parent doesn't then the chances are a child will take the easy option. It's not until you get older that you understand how important rules and structure are in life.###

Children are not your friends.

And that’s not a harsh statement—it’s truth.

Your children don’t need you to be their “bestie.” They don’t need you to be the one who cosigns everything they do, who laughs at every mistake, or who lets them slide through life without correction.

They need you to be their parent.

A parent who sets boundaries, even when it’s unpopular.
A parent who holds them accountable, even when it’s uncomfortable.
A parent who says no when the easy answer would be yes.

Because here’s the thing: friends are equals. Friends don’t carry the responsibility of shaping character, instilling values, or teaching life lessons that could determine the future. But parents? Parents carry that sacred weight.

And children—even when they roll their eyes, even when they slam their doors, even when they cry because you said “not this time”—they crave that structure. They crave someone who loves them enough to correct them. Someone who loves them enough to guide them. Someone who loves them enough to stand firm when the world tells them to be loose.

One day, when they’re grown, when they look back with clearer eyes, they’ll see it. They’ll realize that your “no” was love. Your rules were protection. Your discipline was guidance.

And that’s when they’ll call you not just Mom or Dad, but the truest friend they ever had.

21/09/2025

Parental alienation can leave you with all sorts of emotions and it's so important that you understand these emotions.

For me, I never suffered suicidal thoughts, my life, my partner and my kids mean to much to me just to throw it all away.

No matter how hard life gets it can change for the better within seconds.

For me I was lucky as my guardian angel turned up out of the blue.

We have been together over 10 years now. She really has been the most supportive partner I could ever wish for.

Listening to so many different stories about ex's controlling a situation. For me an ex should play no further part in your life as long as the child/children are safe.

This is not only controlling you but our children as well.

As a parent I want my child to be free to be the person they want to be. To have respect for others and to be the best person they can be every day.

I want them to be happy and to live their dreams.

So no matter what I'm put through, no matter how hard things get I will always be a dad and that can never be taken away.

Never give up, never stop fighting for what is right.

Life is not fair, life is what you make it so be strong and go and achieve something to make a difference.###

20/09/2025

I know a lot of people are struggling with parental alienation.

Having gone through it for over 10 years I understand the emotions you go through.

Life is so very precious and it's important to talk. Especially us men because a lot of the time we just put on a brave face.

No matter what your going through don't be scared to talk to people.

Don't hold everything in.

Well all need to let off steam. We are all here for each other.

Our children need both parents in their lives. ###

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18/09/2025

I copied this from another site and have changed it to show that I will always care.###

Dear kids, I Didn’t Leave—They Pushed Me Out

If you're reading this one day, I want you to know the truth. Not the version passed around by whispers, not the courtroom narrative, and definitely not the bedtime stories that painted me as the villain.

I didn’t leave you. I was pushed out.

You were never the problem. You were the reason I stayed longer than my heart could bear.

I remember holding you for the first time. That moment changed me. It gave me a reason to fight harder, love deeper, and dream bigger. But as the years went by your mother wanted different things.

I stayed when the home became hostile. I stayed when I wasn’t listened to. I stayed when I felt like a stranger in the house I was building.

And then one day, I could take no more and had no choice.Better for the peace, better for my mental health and I hoped better for you kids.

You didn’t see the nights I sat in my car wondering how you all were.You didn’t hear the calls I made that went unanswered. You didn’t know how I memorized your school schedule just to drive by and feel like I still existed in your world.

They said I left. They said I gave up. They said I moved on.

But you were always with me. In my thoughts. In my prayers. In every decision I made.

You didn’t see the courtrooms where I begged to be in your life. You didn’t see how every month I sent support and got silence in return.

They turned fatherhood into a transaction. They made love look like obligation. But I never stopped being your dad.

If you ever wondered why I wasn’t at your birthday... It’s because I wasn’t allowed. If you ever asked why I didn’t call more... It’s because I was blocked. If you thought I didn’t care..., it’s because someone worked very hard to make you believe that.

And maybe you’re angry. I understand. Maybe you don’t want to read this. That’s okay too.

But one day, when life gets quieter and your questions get louder, I hope this letter finds you.

Because the truth is: I never stopped choosing you.

Not for one second.

Love, Dad

18/09/2025

People need to share and understand what is going on in our family courts everyday.

It's not until you go through the family court do you have any idea how wrong the whole system really is.

We need to stand together for every child and every parent to protect our child now, tomorrow and always.

The family court has to be evidence based and parents who lie should be punished.###

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14/09/2025

Hope your all good my friends and had a great weekend with the kids, if you have had them.

If like me your still not seeing your child/children hang on in there.

Keep being awesome, because as children turn into adults they work things out for themselves.

All those questions that have taken over their whole life start to be answered.

Most alienated children only hear one side of a story.

But as they get older they ask different questions. They hear the otherside of what really went on.

A loving, caring parent will never turn a child against the other parent.

Why because a child has the right to live a life free to make their own choices.

To work it out for themselves.

The best kind of parent wants to see their child happy, free to be the person they want to be.

No parent should be forcing their views onto their child.

That's control, that's not being a parent that's setting your child up to have real issues as they get older.

We all need answers, we all want to be free.

Sometimes the best advice can come out of the worst situations.

Never give up on your child/children. Never give up on life because things can change so quickly.

It's a start of another week, stay strong and let's hope this is a great week.###

09/09/2025

Sometimes in life you meet people who make a real difference to people's lives.

I had the privilege to stand with Deano outside the house's of Parliament with Michael Love and many other people going through the same failing family court system process.

We need the government to change a system that is breaking people and families.

Just like Deano I was chucked under a bus by the family courts.

Another loving caring dad who no longer sees his children.

When are we all going to come together to make people aware of what is really going on behind closed doors.

I was just an ordinary dad getting on with life when I entered a living hell.

I never walked away from my children, I was forced by a system that accepts lies and false accusations please share this post all over social media.

It's time for change.###

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