NaturalBarnet

05/12/2025

All I'll say is...thank God for His grace and mercy! Because! 👀

03/12/2025

Neither did my husband or myself grow up with this kind of intentionality.

We came into marriage and parenting with gaps to fill and a lot to heal from.

But part of our healing has been choosing a different way forward - slowing down, being purposeful, creating safety, building connection
and practicing the kind of closeness we both longed for growing up.

We don’t get it perfect. But we show up. We stay teachable and we choose connection again and again.

And that’s how our family grows closer...on purpose. 🤍

02/12/2025

How are we arriving the same time as the DJ? African parties are different 😂

01/12/2025

I used to question why it was taking so long to meet my husband… now I understand. Every moment of waiting was God’s way of protecting me and preparing me for something truly beautiful.

20/11/2025

Watch his actions, not just his words!

17/11/2025

14/11/2025

Number four got me!

13/11/2025

💬 1. Remember our spouse isn’t the enemy 👉🏾 When conflicts arise, it’s easy to slip into “me vs. you” mode but the truth is that we’re a team, not opponents. Seeing our spouse as an ally - even in the heat of an argument - changes the whole energy. It’s really not about winning; it’s about solving it together.

💬 2. Model the respect we want to receive 👉🏾 Actions speak soon much louder than words. If we want respect, we give respect first. Listen fully, speak kindly and treat each other like the person we CHOOSE to love - not the person we're FEELING frustrated with. Respect is contagious and it keeps love in the room.

💬 3. No stonewalling - stay engaged 👉🏾 Shutting down or giving the silent treatment NEVER helps. Even when things get messy, staying in the conversation (or agreeing to pause and return) is how problems actually get solved. Not by going on our phone, rolling our eyes or refusing to talk. Communication isn’t always easy, but it’s non-negotiable.

11/11/2025

True story 🤣 Moments like these reminds me how our kids' joy fills the home and that's something I really want to protect as a Mum ❤️

PS. I'd take this over screaming in pain or fear any dayyy

10/11/2025

Who said marriage is boring? 😂

07/11/2025

God first, always 🙏🏾