08/11/2025
HOW TO KNOW HE WANTS NOTHING SERIOUS
Some men don’t want a relationship, they just don’t want to lose access to you.
He won’t say it directly, but his actions will scream it.
1. He loves the idea of you, not the responsibility of you.
He enjoys your presence, your care, your food, your energy but the moment you bring up “what are we?”, he disappears into thin air.
2. He’s consistent only when he wants something.
He’ll text you all day when he’s bored or lonely, but once you start expecting consistency, he suddenly becomes “busy.”
3. He doesn’t plan ahead with you.
Every hangout is “Let’s see how the day goes.”
He never says, “Let’s do this next week.” Because he doesn’t see next week with you.
4. He avoids serious conversations.
Try to talk about future goals, love language, or emotional needs and he’ll turn it into a joke or change the topic. He doesn’t want depth, he wants distraction.
5. He calls you his peace but gives you anxiety.
And deep down you know. Real love doesn’t make you question if you’re enough.
If he wants you, you won’t have to decode his silence.
You won’t have to chase clarity.
He’ll show up, stay consistent, and make you feel safe not confused.
Stop begging for effort.
Stop explaining your worth.
You are not too much, he’s just not enough.
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