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04/02/2025

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Escape to the tranquil Le Pommier Hotel in Guernsey for a rejuvenating weekend retreat, surrounded by acres of lush, natural gardens. This serene haven offers the perfect opportunity to rebalance, reconnect with yourself and recharge your spirit.

25/11/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - WHAT HAS “ACCOMPANIMENT” GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING? Last week’s Thought for the Week was “Transforming Purpose into Action” and, while purpose answers the question of ‘why’, intention answers the question of ‘how’ – how we show up, interact, and bring our values to each moment. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://shorturl.at/e1jNx

Great leaders know that communication is more than delivering services or sharing expertise - it's about walking alongside others. True communication in leadership is rooted in empathy and Empathy really is a superpower!

Along with Empathy, Accompaniment is the art of being present, listening deeply, and empowering those we lead.

When we accompany someone, we practice patience, allowing relationships and ideas to grow naturally. We foster trust by tuning into their rhythm, meeting them where they are. It’s not about control but about creating a space where they feel supported and empowered to shine.

Accompaniment strengthens empathy, builds connection, and inspires others to bring their best selves to the table. This week, consider: How can you show up, not just to lead but to listen and empower?

For more on Accompaniment, read the blog here: https://shorturl.at/3yclW

“Leadership is not about directing the orchestra; sometimes it’s about playing alongside and letting others shine.” – Max Lucado - [Best-selling author who, in his own words, “writes books for people who don't read books.”]

This week, I invite you to practice accompaniment in your interactions. Whether through a conversation, a shared task, or simply being present, focus on the connection. By walking alongside others, both literally and figuratively, we create trust, understanding, and shared strength for the journey ahead.

With warmest wishes, Korinne
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31/10/2024

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It's Coming Closer on Saturday 23rd November!
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25/10/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – ALIGNING VULNERABILITY WITH YOUR TRUE NORTH
Last week’s Thought for the Week was “Break Free from the Judgment Trap”, and if someone is being openly judgemental toward us, it’s easy to feel attacked. However, how we respond can shift the energy of the conversation by the way we respond. We also explored how we can be our own worst judges!
If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://shorturl.at/IgKrc

We often hold back from showing our vulnerability out of fear of being judged - whether by others or ourselves. This fear can prevent us from building stronger, more authentic connections. But what happens when we let go of that fear and allow ourselves to be vulnerable as leaders? Let me share a story from my time working at British Airways …

I have shared with you how I was a Duty Manager in the Lost Baggage Department with British Airways; well prior to that, I was a special services representative, looking after the VIP’s, CIP’s, Royalty etc. Then I was promoted to the lost baggage role.

The first hurdle I had to jump was hearing comments on Day 1 from my new team such as “What’s this ‘posh bird’ from Special Services who is joining as one of our managers going to know about what we do?” They already had a perception of me, and it wasn’t a welcoming one. I had this lump in my throat and was feeling anxious and self-doubt was kicking in for sure!

Yes, I went from one extreme to the other, didn’t I? And while I wanted a new challenge, I quickly realised that this was a daunting one. My confidence wavered, and I couldn’t help but wonder: Would this team accept me? Could I lead effectively when I barely understood the daily struggles they faced?

It would have been easy to put on a brave face, pretend I had it all figured out, and hope they’d come around. But something told me that wasn’t the answer. So, on one of my first days, I decided to show vulnerability instead and decided to address the elephant in the room … read on here: https://shorturl.at/LaKcJ

As Bill George wisely quoted: "True north is about authenticity and vulnerability. People want to follow someone who is real and open, not someone who is pretending to be something they are not."[Former CEO of Medtronic, Author of Authentic Leadership]

I’d love to hear about your experiences!
Thank you for taking the time to share this journey with me. Wishing you a week filled with authenticity, vulnerability and great connections!

With warmest wishes, Korinne
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06/09/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Power of What Isn’t Said.
Welcome back! Last week’s Thought was “Talking with or Talking at?” If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1hN

Have you ever walked into a room and sensed tension without anyone saying a word? Or had a conversation where the other person's body language told you more than their actual words? That’s the power of nonverbal communication at play.

Why is this important?

Often, what we don’t say can speak louder than our words. Our body language, facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, and even the tone of our voice can significantly influence how our messages are received and interpreted by others. Studies suggest that the majority of our communication is nonverbal (93%) - meaning that the unspoken aspects of our interactions carry immense weight.

3 ways to harness the power of nonverbal communication:

Be Mindful of Your Body Language: The way we hold ourselves, our posture, and hand gestures can convey confidence, openness, and attentiveness - or the opposite. Being aware of our body language can help us ensure that it aligns with the message we want to convey. For instance, if our body language is open, we are more approachable.

Pay Attention to Facial Expressions: Our faces often express what we’re feeling before we even have a chance to speak. A genuine smile can create a sense of warmth and approachability, while a furrowed brow might signal confusion or concern.

Tone of Voice Matters: The tone, pitch, and pace of our voice can drastically alter the meaning of our words. A calm, steady tone can convey confidence and assurance, while a rushed or high-pitched tone might suggest anxiety or uncertainty. Paying attention to how we say things can help reinforce our message.

Nonverbal communication isn’t just about complementing our words; it’s about ensuring that our entire presence supports and strengthens the message we want to convey. It enhances our ability to connect with others on a deeper, more authentic level.

I invite you to take some time this week to observe your nonverbal communication habits and see how they align with your intentions. You might be surprised at what you discover!

"What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say." - Ralph Waldo Emerson -

Thank you for joining me on this journey of exploring the nuances of communication. I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences as you experiment with these insights.

Wishing you a week full of meaningful, unspoken connections!
With warmest wishes, Korinne

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30/08/2024

Looking to meet someone in Guernsey? Recently I have heard people saying it has become more difficult to meet people here. So, let's see what we can do about that!

Here's a set of questions designed to gather insights into what people in Guernsey want, their frustrations with current options and their ideal solutions: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FL7SRNK

16/08/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – A Genius’s Approach to Learning
Welcome back! Last week’s Thought was “How Perspective Changes Everything” when we explored the importance of perspective in our interactions, understanding that differing viewpoints can coexist and enrich our conversations. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1gz

What did you notice about perspectives in the conversations going on around you this week? How did your own perspective change?
This week, I want to delve into something equally important: how we learn and how our unique learning styles shape our perceptions and perspectives.

Benjamin Franklin was polymath learner: a leading writer, scientist, inventor, statesman, diplomat, printer, publisher and political philosopher who altered the course of American history.

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to assume that everyone processes information and learns in the same way we do. However, the truth is that we all have unique learning styles that shape how we perceive the world and communicate with others. Recognising these differences is crucial to building stronger, more empathetic connections.

Some of us are visual learners, relying on images and diagrams to make sense of information. Others might be auditory learners, needing to hear concepts explained to truly understand them.

There are also kinaesthetic learners, who need to engage in hands-on activities to grasp new ideas fully. Some people grasp concepts better through reading, while others need to hear information to absorb it fully. These differences in learning styles aren’t just about preference; they profoundly influence how we see the world.

These differences in learning styles are not just academic - they influence how we interpret and interact with the world. A visual learner might focus on the body language of a speaker, while an auditory learner might be more attuned to the tone of voice. Each learning style offers a different lens through which we perceive our experiences.

This diversity in perception is what makes human interaction so rich and complex. It also means that misunderstandings can occur when we forget that others might see things differently based on their learning preferences.

By embracing the variety of learning styles, we can enhance our communication and deepen our relationships. When we take the time to understand how others learn and perceive the world, we move closer to a place of mutual respect and empathy.

Consider this: if you’re someone who learns best through visual cues, your perception of a situation might be deeply influenced by what you see.

Meanwhile, someone who learns through auditory means might focus on what they hear, leading to a completely different interpretation of the same event.

There are 7 general learning styles in all: Visual, Auditory, Kinaesthetic, Theorist, Pragmatist, Reflector and Activist. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1he

So, this week, I encourage you to consider the learning styles of those around you. Whether at work, at home, or in your community, pay attention to how others absorb and process information. By doing so, you’ll not only enhance your communication but also deepen your connections.

Let’s look at an example: Take Benjamin Franklin, for example, who was a pragmatic and kinaesthetic learner who thrived on practical, hands-on experience and learning by doing. He also demonstrated strong theorist traits, focusing on the underlying principles of problems and developing systematic approaches to improvement. His wide-ranging achievements suggest that he integrated various learning styles, making him a highly adaptive and versatile learner.

"Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn." -Benjamin Franklin-

Thank you for being part of this journey of exploration and growth. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic!

With warmest wishes, Korinne
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09/08/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - How Perspective Changes Everything
Welcome back and I hope this email finds you well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “Connecting Cultures and Decades” and how, by actively listening, seeking diverse perspectives, and practicing cultural sensitivity, we can build bridges of empathy that transcend cultural and generational divides. If you missed it, catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1fu

This week I’d like to delve deeper into a concept that is essential to both our personal growth and our ability to communicate effectively - perspective.

I shared before how I was a Duty Manager in the lost baggage department at British Airways. In my role there, I had to manage negative customer feedback all the time, some of which could be quite critical. Early in my career, I sometimes took negative feedback personally, assuming the customers were simply being difficult or unreasonable.

However, over time, I found myself empathising more with the traveller who had just lost their bag. I realised that when we show genuine understanding of their situation, clearly explain the steps we’ll take to locate their bag and ensure they have what they most need until it’s found and delivered to their home or hotel, it goes a long way in reassuring them.

By approaching their comments with an open mind and seeking to understand the underlying concerns, I was able to implement changes that not only improved our offerings but also strengthened our customer relationships. This experience taught me that what may seem like criticism is often a valuable perspective that can drive positive change.

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that our way of seeing things is the only way. Read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1gz

This week, I invite you to consider this and embrace the wonder of perspective in your interactions. Next time you find yourself in a disagreement or facing a differing opinion, pause and consider the possibility that both sides could be right. By doing so, you’ll not only improve your communication but also deepen your understanding of the world around you.

"We can complain because rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorns have roses"
-Alphonse Karr-

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic.
With warmest wishes, Korinne

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26/07/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - Conversations Across Time
Welcome back and I hope you are well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “Digital Proximity” about how in an era where distance seems irrelevant and borders become blurred, video calls emerge as our modern-day magic carpets, transporting us instantly to the presence of our loved ones, colleagues, or with friends who are oceans apart. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1de

I thought it might be fun if this week, we take a leap further and imagine if we had a time machine! How would our conversations evolve if we could traverse not just space but also time?

Imagine the power of combining the immediacy of video calls with the boundless possibilities of time travel. What if, with a simple dial, we could connect with figures from the past or glimpse into the future? Who would we choose to meet, and what wisdom would we seek?

Conversing with the Past
If given the chance to visit the past, we might seek out great minds and pivotal moments that shaped our world. Imagine a video call with Leonardo da Vinci, exploring his sketches and inventions, witnessing the birth of the Renaissance. We could learn directly from Socrates, delving into the foundations of philosophy, or sit in on the signing of the Magna Carta, understanding the early principles that laid the groundwork for modern legal systems.

These conversations wouldn't just be about historical curiosity - they would provide us with profound insights into how these thinkers approached problems, their creative processes, and their visions for the future. Such dialogues could inspire us to tackle contemporary challenges with renewed perspective and ingenuity.

Glimpsing the Future
Conversely, what if we could peer into the future? Imagine calling a descendant five generations ahead. What advancements and societal shifts would they describe? What environmental, technological, or social innovations would they consider commonplace that are mere dreams today?

These future conversations could guide our present actions. They could highlight the long-term impact of our current choices, urging us to prioritise sustainability, equity, and innovation. Knowing the possible outcomes of our decisions could motivate us to act more responsibly and ambitiously.

Bridging Time and Space
Combining digital proximity with time travel creates a bridge not only across distances but also through the ages. It underscores a universal truth:

The human desire to connect, learn, and grow transcends time.

Whether we're sharing a moment with a friend across the globe or gaining wisdom from a historical figure, these connections enrich our lives and broaden our horizons.

As we continue to leverage technology to bring us closer together, let's also embrace the imaginative possibilities it offers. While time machines remain a fantasy, our capacity to dream and learn from both the past and the future is boundless. In every call, every connection, and every conversation, we build a tapestry of shared human experience that spans both time and space.

Final Thoughts
This week, as you engage in your video calls, take a moment to reflect on the incredible era we live in. Consider the conversations you would have if you could dial through time. How would these exchanges shape your perspective and actions today? Embrace the magic of our digital age and let it inspire you to connect more deeply, think more broadly, and act more thoughtfully.

"To know the past is to know the present. To know the present is to know yourself" - Ibram X. Kendi – [American author, professor included in Time's 100 Most Influential People of 2020].

Have a great week, and let's continue to build those bridges of empathy and connection!
With warmest wishes, Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training
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19/07/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK - Digital Proximity

Welcome back and I hope you are well and thriving. Last week’s Thought was “The Unspoken Connection” and how, despite the rise of digital messaging and video calls, the phone remains a vital tool for communication due to its unique ability to convey tone, emotion, and nuance through voice alone. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1cJ

So, how about communicating on video calls and how they redefine our connections in the digital age?

In an era where distance seems irrelevant and borders become blurred, video calls emerge as our modern-day magic carpets, transporting us instantly to the presence of our loved ones, colleagues, or with friends who are oceans apart. The grainy snapshots of yesterday's video chats have given way to crystal-clear, high-definition windows into each other's worlds.

Beyond mere convenience, these virtual encounters allow us to witness emotions unfold in real-time - the joy of a shared joke, the empathy of a comforting glance, or the excitement of a milestone achieved. Through this visual medium, technology not only bridges physical gaps but also enriches our understanding and deepens our bonds.

Yet, amidst the marvel of technological progress, let us not forget the essence of connection itself. It is in the fleeting expressions, the subtle shifts in tone, and the unspoken pauses where true connection often resides. As we embrace the wonders of video calls, let us also cherish the human nuances they bring forth - moments that transcend screens and remind us of our shared humanity.

In this evolving landscape of communication, let's celebrate the magic of video calls not just for their innovation, but for their capacity to bring us closer, across distances both near and far.

So, let’s explore how these virtual windows shape our relationships and redefine what it means to connect in the 21st century. Read on for 5 main tips for do’s and don'ts of connection on video calls here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1de

As Bill Gates himself said: "The Internet is becoming the Town Square for the global village of tomorrow."

Have a great week, and let's continue to build those bridges of empathy and connection across technology!

With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training

P.S. Please feel free to share your experiences and insights!
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28/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Inbox Tango Between Noise and Silence ...
Welcome back and I hope this message finds you flourishing! Last week’s Thought was “The Strength of Silence” and about how this gives us space to think, process what we've heard, consider our responses, and connect more meaningfully with others. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1aB

Today, let’s turn our attention to another kind of silence that’s becoming more noticeable – the silence of unanswered emails amidst the buzz of our inboxes.

In our fast-paced digital world, it can be disheartening to send out emails and not receive a response. It feels like our messages are disappearing into a void, leaving us wondering if our words were ever read. So, let’s reframe this silence and see it as an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding for both senders and receivers.

RECEIVERS: If you find that you sometimes miss replying to emails, what system do you have in place for managing your responses? A quick acknowledgment like “I’ve received your email and will get back to you shortly” can make a big difference, fostering better communication and respect.

If you plan to reply, be sure to follow through. If the email isn’t relevant to you, forward it to the appropriate person and let the original sender know by copying them on the forwarded email.
SENDERS: For tips and insights, read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1bo

As renowned Business Strategist, Speaker and Author David Newman said: "Email has an ability many channels d n't: creating valuable, personal touches – at scale."

Wishing you a week filled with thoughtful reflections and great conversations!

With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training
P.S. Please feel free to share your experiences and insights with me! And if you haven’t booked your complimentary Clarity Session with me yet, book a time that suits you here: https://shorturl.at/TQXER
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21/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR THE WEEK – The Strength of Silence
Welcome back and I hope you are going strong this week! Last week’s Thought was about mastering interruptions with grace and how handling interruptions while staying authentic is a delicate balance. If you missed it, you can catch up here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1a4

How often do we experience silence during the course of our day?

In our noisy world, silence can feel uncomfortable or even awkward. We often rush to fill gaps in conversation, fearing the quiet moments. However, embracing silence can enhance our communication, allowing us to listen more deeply, reflect thoughtfully, and respond authentically.

I remember hearing as a child; “silence is a virtue” and always associated that with “being seen and not heard”! Perhaps that is one reason why so many of us are uncomfortable with silence?

We also heard, “silence is golden”.

As adults, silence is often overlooked and actually serves as a powerful counterbalance to the constant barrage of words and interruptions. It gives us space to process what we've heard, consider our responses, and connect more meaningfully with others. In addition, it can be a profound tool in our interactions, helping us to stay true to ourselves and foster deeper connections.

Personally, I see silence as a gift. A gift we can give to ourselves and others.

In the blog this week, we will explore three key ways to embrace silence in communication in our daily lives. You can read on here: https://wp.me/pbwxI2-1aB

It’s all about embracing the balance. Integrating silence into our communication requires practice and mindfulness.

It involves recognising the value of quiet moments and trusting that they enrich our interactions. By embracing silence, we can stay true to ourselves, enhance our listening skills, and build more meaningful connections.

Remember that silence is not an absence but a presence. It is a space where we have time to think, understand and when connection can flourish.

“Silence is a source of great strength "-Lao Tzu-

Wishing you a week filled with mindful pauses and deeper connections.
With warmest wishes,
Korinne - Thrive Coaching & Training

P.S. Please feel free to share your experiences and insights with me! And if you haven’t booked your complimentary Clarity Session with me yet, book a time that suits you here: https://shorturl.at/TQXER
Testimonials: https://thrive-coaching.biz/about/testimonials/