28/06/2025
In today’s hyper-connected world, a lie, once whispered by someone of perceived importance or influence, can travel faster than lightning. Before long, it is repeated so often, so confidently, and in so many circles, that it morphs into what people accept as truth.
Recently, I have found myself in a number of conversations where some individuals confidently narrated some hearsays about other people to me which made me uncomfortable, not just because the story wasn’t true, but because I realised how easily someone's image, years of hard work, and genuine effort could be undermined by something inaccurate. However, apart from doing my best not to add to the stories and also being an advocate to the victims in their absence as any good friend will do, I did nothing further until the rumours got to my turn.
A conversation with a friend made me know I was not spared from the hearsay. Although my honour was defended in my absence. I had some lingering questions that stirred me to write my thoughts. I invite you to read and pick some nuggets, share your thoughts and re-share so others can learn from it. Let us learn, grow, and most importantly, let us break the cycle.
In recent times, I have found myself in a number of conversations where some individuals confidently narrated stories or “incidents” involving others. They weren’t gossiping maliciously; they were narrating what they had “heard.
