The SelShow, Poole (2026)

17/05/2026

Sel, some years ago, I made a terrible mistake that is now threatening to destroy my marriage and the peaceful life I worked hard to build. I am a nurse working in a public hospital, and before I got married, I was involved in a relationship that I failed to end properly. Even after entering my marriage, I still allowed my ex-boyfriend access to my life, and unfortunately, became pregnant for him.

Sel, fear of shame and disgrace pushed me into making an even bigger mistake. My ex and I, agreed to let my husband believe the child belonged to him so that, my marriage would not collapse. For the past two years, my husband has lovingly cared for the child without ever suspecting the painful secret I have been hiding from him.

Sel, three months ago, I discovered I was pregnant again, and this time I know my husband is responsible. However, after informing my ex in an attempt to avoid future problems, he insisted that he could also be the father because we were still secretly involved. He is now demanding a paternity test for the pregnancy and even threatening, to seek custody of the first child. And this is because I told him, I have had enough of everything and want out.

Sel, at this point, my life feels completely shattered. I am terrified that if my husband discovers the truth, my marriage will collapse and my reputation will be ruined forever. I keep asking myself how I can possibly explain to my husband that the child he has loved and raised for two years is not even his. Right now, I feel trapped, ashamed, and desperate for a solution before everything falls apart.

Anonymous Lady

17/05/2026

Sel, for four years, I was in a committed relationship with Kwesi, a man who genuinely loved and cared for me despite his modest financial situation. He sacrificed a lot just to make me comfortable, and deep down, I truly appreciated him. However, I have always loved wealth and dreamed of marrying a rich man someday. About a year ago, during a program I attended with friends, I met Dave, a wealthy and charming man who showed interest in me. Although I initially resisted because I was already in a serious relationship, my attraction toward his luxurious lifestyle slowly drew me closer to him.

Sel, as my feelings for Dave grew stronger, I became trapped between loyalty and greed. The thought of ending my four-year relationship with Kwesi weighed heavily on me, yet I convinced myself that I deserved a richer and more comfortable future. In my desperation to remove Kwesi from my life permanently, I made a horrifying decision. I began secretly giving him slow poison through his food. Within a short period, Kwesi became seriously ill and was eventually hospitalized. Even after he was discharged, his health continued to deteriorate while his parents sympathized with me, completely unaware that I was the cause of his suffering.

Sel, while Kwesi battled for his life, my relationship with Dave flourished, and I believed I was finally close to the future I desired. However, everything suddenly collapsed two months ago when Dave informed me that he was relocating abroad permanently and wanted to end our relationship. Devastated and desperate, I rushed to meet him and revealed that I was pregnant with his child, hoping it would change his mind. Instead, he coldly told me to terminate the pregnancy because he was not ready for marriage or responsibility. In that painful moment, I realized that the man I betrayed everything for never truly loved me.

Sel, now, I live with deep guilt and regret over the terrible choices I made. Although doctors concluded that Kwesi’s illness was caused by food poisoning, no one ever suspected my involvement, and I escaped exposure. Fortunately, Kwesi has been recovering steadily and recently regained enough strength for intimacy, allowing me to falsely make him believe the pregnancy is his. Every day, I pray for God’s forgiveness he thanks God for making him almost a father and healing him. Some part of me says I should leave him to have his life peacefully, but the other days I should go on with him despite the evil things. But time will tell, just confused.....

Anonymous wife

16/05/2026

Sel, I have cried many times in my life, especially when I lost my father and my only brother. Those painful moments nearly broke me, yet I still opened my heart to love. I invested my emotions, loyalty, and everything I had into relationships with three different men, but each one ended in heartbreak, disappointment, and depression. Like many women after failed relationships, I often found myself asking God why it was so difficult to find a man who would genuinely love and cherish me.

Sel, eventually, I met Mark, and after only six months of dating, we got married. Many of my friends strongly opposed the marriage, insisting that six months was too short a time to truly know a man. Some of them even approached my mother and pleaded with her to stop the wedding because they believed I was making a terrible mistake.

Sel, despite all the warnings and criticism, I followed my heart and chose to marry him. Today, six years later, our marriage has been filled with peace, happiness, understanding, and grace. Looking back now, I can confidently say that it was one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life.

Sel, since our wedding, I have carefully observed how some of those same friends continue to criticize the love and unity we share. Instead of celebrating my happiness, they constantly look for faults in my marriage and warn me not to trust my husband too much. Over time, I realized that not everyone around you genuinely wants to see your relationship succeed.

Sel, Mark has brought joy, fulfilment, and true womanhood into my life. When I secured a lucrative job opportunity in another city, he willingly changed his own job just to relocate and support my career, something many people rarely see men do. His sacrifices made me understand what genuine love and partnership truly mean.

Sel, when we first met, I only had a diploma, but he believed strongly in my potential and fully sponsored my first degree. I am currently about completing my MBA because of his encouragement, support, and sacrifices. Beyond financial help, he gives me emotional, spiritual, and unconditional love every single day.

Sel, my husband even insists that I receive ten percent of his monthly salary in addition to my own earnings because he believes we are one team. To appreciate such an extraordinary man, I have chosen to honour, respect, and love him wholeheartedly for the rest of our lives together. Recently, I surprised him with a brand-new Mercedes-Benz, and once again my friends began warning me not to trust men too much.

Sel, but I told them that life itself is a risk, and I would rather appreciate a good man while I still have him. Society often focuses on stories about bad men and broken relationships, but I want the world to know that good men still exist. Sometimes, protecting your relationship also means keeping certain negative friends at a distance and appreciating the blessings God has placed in your life. Wheeping may endure for the night but joy, comes in the morning!. May your Miss and Mr rights locate you and remember to stay away, from negative influence from friends.

Anonymous Lady

16/05/2026

Sel, my brother and I are the only children of our parents, and since our father passed away years ago, our mother has been left to face life alone. Sadly, my elder brother has gradually turned himself into a “mini god” within the family. He believes everything must revolve around him, dismisses the feelings of others, and insists on controlling every decision. To avoid constant conflict and to protect my mother from emotional pain, I chose silence instead of confrontation, even though his attitude has deeply wounded me.

Sel, for a long time, my brother stopped speaking to me completely until I traveled abroad. Even now, whenever I send him money, he rarely appreciates it or even acknowledges receiving it. Most times, I have to call and ask if he received the money before he responds with a cold and arrogant “yes.” Since I traveled, he has never called to ask how my family and I are doing, nor has he shown any concern about my wellbeing or whether I have found stable work.

Sel, one day, while checking up on my aging mother, I discovered she had been hospitalized because she was seriously unwell. Out of concern, I immediately informed my brother, expecting him to show worry and support. Instead, he became angry and questioned why our mother had not personally informed him herself. Since then, he has refused to answer my calls or return them, despite my efforts to reach out during Christmas, Easter, and many other occasions.

Sel, what troubles me most is the painful realization that my own brother only becomes friendly whenever, I send him money. Even my mother keeps advising me to “understand him” and send him money again so peace can return between us since I know that is how he is. I feel emotionally exhausted and burdened, wondering whether money must always be the price for maintaining a relationship with my own blood brother. At this point, I am slowly choosing to let go because carrying such emotional weight has become too heavy for my heart. Am I doing the right thing or not and would also, appreciate various solutions from you and your followers, to my issue.

Worried Brother

16/05/2026

Sel, I am writing this with a very heavy heart because I have become the kind of wife I once promised myself never to be. My husband is a kind and hardworking man who trusted me with all his heart, yet I repaid his love with lies, disrespect and terrible decisions. Out of selfishness and bad company, I secretly squandered money he worked tirelessly for, insulted him in front of people during our arguments and even entertained another man emotionally when my marriage was going through challenges.

Sel, the painful part is that my husband never stopped loving me despite all the humiliation and emotional wounds I caused him. Today, I look at the man I once called my best friend and all I can see in his eyes is disappointment, silence and a broken spirit.

Sel, things became worse when some hidden secrets finally came to light. My husband discovered messages, deceit and several things I had carefully hidden from him for years. Since then, peace has completely disappeared from our home. The laughter we once shared has turned into cold silence and unbearable tension.

Sel, he barely speaks to me anymore, and whenever he looks at me, I can feel the pain and betrayal in his heart. What hurts me deeply is that he still provides for the family and performs his responsibilities faithfully, yet emotionally he has completely withdrawn from me. I now realize that some wounds caused by words, betrayal and wicked actions do not heal easily.

Sel, I am now trapped in a painful dilemma because I genuinely regret everything I did, but I do not know whether my husband will ever forgive me or love me the same way again. Part of me feels I deserve to lose my marriage because of the evil things I knowingly did, while another part of me desperately wants to fight for my home before it completely collapses.

Sel, I cry almost every night asking myself whether true forgiveness still exists after deep betrayal. Sel, have I destroyed my marriage beyond repair, or is there still hope for a woman who has finally realized the value of the man she once took for granted?

Worried wife

15/05/2026

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15/05/2026

Sel, as the female manager of a busy business branch, I have always believed that leadership is built on teamwork, understanding, and support. I take pride in creating an environment where every staff member feels valued and motivated to contribute to the success of the branch.

Sel, however, despite my passion for the job, managing a team dominated by female staff has become one of the greatest challenges of my career. Day after day, misunderstandings, gossips, silent grudges, and endless murmuring continue to disrupt the peace within the office.

Sel, what makes the situation even more exhausting is that these conflicts are rarely direct confrontations. Instead, they come in the form of subtle tension, hidden resentment, and emotional division that slowly affects productivity and teamwork.

Sel, I have spent countless hours settling disputes, encouraging unity, and restoring harmony among the staff, while even the male employees have grown tired of constantly helping to resolve issues that never seem to end. Ironically, the male staff members work together peacefully and bring a refreshing sense of calm to the workplace.

Sel, the Human Resources department has intervened several times through counseling, transfers, and disciplinary actions, yet the cycle continues. As a leader, I understand that a successful branch cannot function with only male staff, but I also know that this unhealthy atmosphere cannot continue.

Sel, I now find myself searching for a lasting solution — one that will promote maturity, professionalism, and mutual respect among my female employees, while restoring the teamwork and positive energy that every workplace deserves. How do I go about this?

Anonymous Manager

15/05/2026

Sel, I once ignored a man who genuinely loved me for more than two years because I believed I had found a better option elsewhere. The man I eventually married was wealthy, charming, and showered me with affection that made me feel special. I convinced myself that I had found true love and the perfect future. But after theee years of marriage, our greatest challenge became childbirth. After countless hospital visits and medical reports, I was told that I could not conceive, and to my shock, the same man who once promised me forever filed for divorce under heavy pressure from his family.

Sel, the divorce shattered me emotionally and mentally. I felt abandoned, rejected, and deeply betrayed because I truly believed love was supposed to endure difficult moments. The pain changed my perception of relationships and marriage completely. I became withdrawn and hopeless, convinced that genuine love no longer existed. Those were some of the darkest moments of my life, and I struggled to trust anyone again.

Sel, surprisingly, life led me back to Alex — the same man I had ignored years earlier. Despite his own failed relationships, he remained patient, consistent, and sincere in his pursuit of me. When he finally learned about my inability to have children, he never changed toward me. Instead, he stood by my side emotionally, spiritually, and physically, reminding me every day that love is far greater than biological expectations. His kindness slowly healed the broken parts of my heart and restored my faith in love again.

Today, it has been five beautiful years together, and we are blessed with two wonderful adopted children who have filled our home with laughter and happiness. Looking back, I now understand that true love is not measured by wealth, appearance, or perfect circumstances, but by loyalty, compassion, and commitment during life’s hardest seasons. I celebrate my husband with all my heart and encourage every woman never to lose hope, because good men still exist — sometimes, you simply have to look deeper to find them. Join me to say a big thanks to Alex my love and pray you also find one if searching and have a good a better marriage or relationship, if in one already.

Anonymous woman

15/05/2026

Sel, I am a single lady facing a painful dilemma that is weighing heavily on my heart. Though I admit I made a mistake, I sincerely need advice on how to handle the situation wisely. Nine months ago, I entered into a relationship with the pastor of my church, and now I am pregnant for him. Unfortunately, since hearing the news, he has become distant and withdrawn. Though he has never openly asked me to abort the pregnancy, his actions and silence make me feel that he wishes the pregnancy never existed.

Sel, for the past month, he has avoided me completely and has not shown any responsibility toward my welfare or the medical bills. Whenever I try to reach out, he gives excuses and keeps his distance. Feeling abandoned and hidden, I finally sent him a message telling him that I was considering informing his wife and family about the pregnancy so that he would take responsibility officially.

Sel, after receiving my message, he quickly sent someone to plead with me not to expose the matter, claiming it would destroy his marriage, reputation, and ministry. Now, I am deeply confused and torn between protecting myself and protecting his family. I want to go ahead and tell his wife and family the truth, otherwise, I will remain silent and continue suffering alone. Could that be the right approach to handle this as he seems not interested anymore in anything, relating to me.

Anonymous Lady

15/05/2026

Be released today from any financial difficulty, that makes you look as though you don't know what is good!!
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Let's be honest!!!

What do you missed about your ex?

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