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I Thought I Had Time My name is Emily, and I want to tell you my story before I die.I was once young, full of life, full...
22/02/2026

I Thought I Had Time

My name is Emily, and I want to tell you my story before I die.

I was once young, full of life, full of energy. I was beautiful at least, that’s what people told me. I used to go out with my friends every weekend. We’d dress up, go to the club, dance all night, meet men, drink, laugh. I loved that life. It made me feel like I was living free.

I started smoking when I was 19. At first, just for fun. One cigarette here and there. Then it became a habit. Every time I was sad or stressed, I would light one up. Every party, every drink, came with a cigarette.

I didn’t think much of it. I thought, “I’m still young. I have time.”
But I was wrong.

When I turned 28, I started to feel pain in my lower stomach. I ignored it. I thought it was just normal. Then I started bleeding heavily between my periods. I lost a lot of weight, but I thought maybe it was stress.

By the time I went to the doctor, it was already too late.
“Emily,” the doctor said, “you have cervical cancer.”

I didn’t even understand at first. I cried for days. I begged God for another chance. But the cancer had already spread.
The doctor told me one of the causes was smoking. The chemicals in the ci******es damaged my cervix slowly over time. I didn’t know. No one told me. Now I live with pain every day. I can’t walk properly. I’m so thin now, you can see my bones. I don’t even look like the old me anymore.

All those nights at the club, all the drinks, all the ci******es they were not worth it. The friends are gone now. The men I dated? Gone.
Only my mother sits beside me now, wiping my tears as I wait for death.

To every young girl reading this please stop smoking. Please take care of your body. Don’t think you're too young to get sick. I thought I was too and now, I am dying.

Life is short. Beauty fades. But your health is the one thing you must protect.Don’t let the fun now become your pain later.

🖤😢

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20/02/2026

No one beats the aura of a guy who's not thirsty for women.

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We have been happily married for years but our biggest challenge, is childbirth. We did everything possible medically an...
20/02/2026

We have been happily married for years but our biggest challenge, is childbirth. We did everything possible medically and spiritually, and have been keeping hope until, we decided to go for adoption. One of the things that got us going however, was love because we got married in our twenties after been friends for a long time.

our adopted son is now in his 20s and we are very happy about him. My challenge now is that, for some time now our son has been kind of disrespectful towards me. This always surprise me because, he was not like this. On few occasions, my wife also rebuked him but nothing changed so I took it as part, of the growing up stages.

because I am always on the move to put food on the table of the family, my wife as the woman of the house is more closer to him, just like other mothers of every home. However as a father, I made time for our family holidays, outings and at home. So this sudden attitude came as a shock to me.

all thanks to God, I got answers to my worries. One day, I was travelling to the village for a funeral but about 20 minutes into the journey, realized I left the money, I arranged to settle some commitments in the village. I therefore, returned, parked outside and rushed in. I was shock the gate was not closed. And when I got in, i overheard my moaning upstairs.

I went up quietly and there, was my son, behind my wife having a doggy style. I just took a picture as evidence and left, without even taking the money because it was in the drawer, attached to the bed. I called a friend who gave me money for my journey. I am hurt, sad and disappointed but managed myself as though, nothing happened. As if it was in the movies, few weeks after, my wife came singing songs of prays that, she is finally pregnant for me.

when I asked her who was responsible, she got so mad about my question, asking how many husbands does she have. I feel if I reveal everything now, she might abort the pregnancy but I just want to wait after her delivery, then I can conduct a DNA as evidence, before taking a decision. What should be my best decision, I am confused!!!

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20/02/2026

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19/02/2026

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If you find paracetamol that expires in 1 week, do you use it or throw it away?Most people panic and throw away drugs on...
19/02/2026

If you find paracetamol that expires in 1 week, do you use it or throw it away?

Most people panic and throw away drugs once the expiry date is near, while others keep expired drugs just in case.

Here's what expiry dates actually mean and when it is safe to use 👇🏾

19/02/2026

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19/02/2026

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19/02/2026

Just imagine when the waste isn’t friendly 😂

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