18/12/2020
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15 MISTAKES THAT WOMEN MAKE THAT CAN RUIN THEIR MARRIAGE💔
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Infidelity takes a lot of material because overtime is absolutely nothing anyone can do to deter the other partner from cheating so it is a choice because even the best husbands and wives are picked on. However, it is important to note that certain actions and characters will trigger the idea of cheating in a spouse, and we need to make sure we do our utmost to keep our marriage together and our wife happy with us, to the best of our abilities. In this post, I will highlight 15 things women do that put their marriage at risk and hope they take heed, and most notably, those involved turn a fresh leaf to save their marriage.
1) Daring Your Husband to Beat You.
Many women have lost their lives or are nursing serious and permanent wounds because of this mindset of daring their husbands to beat them. The man gets deeply frustrated due to the tongue lashing that usually precedes this unholy appeal. Some women even lock the door and lock the man by the neck, most of the time; these women have ended up regretting their deeds.
2) Daring Your Husband to Sleep With Another Woman.
Generally speaking, human beings don't want to be daring, and if you dare to let your husband sleep with another woman, you're going to be doing a great disservice to yourself. He's only going to do it to see your answer, and only God knows what's going to happen after that.
3) Neglecting Your Body and Looks After Marriage
If you're one of those ladies who think they have to dress anyway because they're married now, they don't have to pretend to look good anymore, please quickly hop down from this table because I'm about to break it down. How do you marry someone's baby, thin and chic, chubby, and beautiful, and you lose yourself by eating instead, and you're almost shapeless now? Most married women do not do basic exercises anymore, eat, dress shabbily, and yet look unkempt anyway. Please, stop it! There were things your husband loved you that you did, just don't stop doing them otherwise, he may just start finding you unattractive, and you're sure of the consequences.
4) Consistently denying your husband s*x.
So you're a business lady or an extremely religious lady ... Hmmm!-Hmmm! You assume that marital s*x is secondary, your husband needs to plead before he owns his ownership properly, you always refuse your body to your husband, because he's physically starved. After all, there's no room to find love in your union. In the meantime, his secretary, colleagues, and girls of the church are alluring to come to them, but the rightful owner has padlocked your Jerusalem and you believe him not to desire after anybody. His mind is going to wander from you towards them, and not falling for him would be very difficult because s*x is very important to men, so be careful.
5) Allowing Your Friends to Cater to Your Husband
"Please help me take care of my husband, my dear friend, and help me take care of my husband and my children while I'm gone for a week on this business trip." My girlfriend, this is a very risky game to play because there is no certainty that you will always have a husband by the time you get back. The odds that you have a co-wife and your guys have a step-mom are very high in the meantime, so think very well before embarking on that path, particularly if you know that the resistance level of your husband is very low.
6) Allowing Your Housemaid to have Unlimited Access to Your Husband
Many women depend on maids so much that the maid is the one who cooks, cleans the home, cares for the children, and even the husband as they watch movies and hang out with friends. The maid has taken over the everyday running of family affairs, although only orders and directions are yelled by "Madam." Oh, it's only a matter of time before the maid applies her services to your husband's bed and your husband's wife, so it's better for you to reboot your head.
7) Hiring an adult as a maid
Some ladies are so bold that they would pull a well-endowed grown-up lady into their house like a maid. They presume that since the girl comes from the village, she knows little. You'd be surprised that she doesn't know that much, but she's very well trained in that area and could be seducing your spouse. Don't make such a mistake, please!
8) Employing a Housemaid That Is More Beautiful Than You
You see a girl with a whole set of options, bigger and better than the ones you've got, and you feel like I'm only laughing in Spanish because she doesn't realize that she's not a threat. A big technical mistake most women commit is recruiting a more stunning house girl than you. Using it is spending the resources to hire a rival for yourself. Don't be silly because you have a maid. They're acting dumb to you for the time being, but when they start to get down with your husband, you're shocked at how hard they're going to fight you and mess you up.
9)Refusing to Upgrade to Digital Mentality
We are in a modern world and that has now been transformed by technology. Therefore, a woman who wishes to be on top of her game must be agile and know a lot of things to have insightful conversations with her partner. Your husband rises with thoughts and all; you don't contribute anything more than sitting down at home to eat. You're loving being married to a hot Yuppy guy, dressed like a man with denim and a hat on his forehead. Your husband is on Twitter , Facebook, Whatsapp, etc, but the only thing you know about cellphones is getting and making calls. Your husband is asking of the stock market; the tomato market is what you're talking about. He 's talking about Forex; fruit and vegetables are what you think about. He 's going to see you upside down, local, and dumb. Upgrade Please!
10) Ignoring the God Factor
It is amazing how people pray a lot when they are single, but unexpectedly become too busy to pray and dedicate their families to God after marriage. Don't make the error of assuming that you have all the skills that you need to hold your family together. Man's wisdom is nothing. Please go ahead and put God in charge of the affairs of your home and you won't regret that.
11) Making Your Mother-in-Law Your Enemy
It surprises me how many single ladies are not able to have a mother-in-law but to pray for children. Please remember that when you become a mother, you still become a mother-in-law instantly, and if you have male children, you can get from your new mother-in-law exactly what you expect. No war can be won with mothers-in-law, but you can do your best to maintain a good friendship with them. You should know that she and your husband have a very deep past, but you should not plan to come and stop their relationship except to join them so that you can have peace of mind and love your husband. They're not all bad and not all witches. Respect your mother-in-law. If you meet an evil one, apply wisdom and stop her as much as possible, and happily.
12) Making Your S*xual Life Public
"Many women have carelessly lost their husbands because they boast of their mates," My husband is so physically demanding, he's a s*x expert, he's a horse, he's almost killing me in bed, he's got a horse height, "etc. Your peers will choose data like this to cover up things that you have lost.
13) Reporting him to his Mum
You do not refer your husband to his mother under any circumstances. Kids in their mother's eyes will never be mistaken, but keep the concern for yourself. Especially when you will be affected again by whatever you report and you inadvertently expose your marriage unduly and grant extended family licenses to mess with your marital relations.
14) Replacing Your Husband With The Children
Several women leave their partners, refusing them love, attention, and care. All love is passed to their children as soon as babies begin to arrive. They put the kid to sleep in the bed between them, making the man feel abandoned and the bond broken. A planned exercise and chore is no hot hugs, caresses, gentle kisses, and even s*x. Many men die in silence because of this lack of treatment, and research has shown that this is the point at which men wander most since they are very vulnerable at this stage.
15) Commercializing S*x
Gender is very influential in marriage. It is currently one of the main variables for marriage enactment and a very strong linking factor for those involved. It induces love and affection, however, unfortunately, in many homes, s*x has become a point of contention. Gender has been turned into a tool of exploitation by many women; they use it to fight for trade, making the man suffer too much before he gets what rightfully belongs to him.
This is terrible and if you are on this table, please just go down and dispose of the broken bits of the table in your dustbin at home. If you're confident that you don't want to risk it to a young schoolgirl who's happy to give him some style whenever he wants it, avoid denying the spousal gratification of your husband. Aim to be physically immense, be tempting, be s*xy, and flirt with your friend even though he is still at work.You would also see the need to become daring in bed so that you can keep him s*xually satisfied if you realize that the ladies outside are willing to go to any extent to get your man, especially if he has little money at his disposal.
Note that the good book states that 'a wise woman builds her home, but it's knocked down by the foolish one,' so do whatever you can to protect your house and please God and your husband.
Thanks for reading
By EricNews6
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