14/01/2026
“Things you shouldn't do as a lady:
1). Do not give a man shelter, you're not his mom neither are you his landlord.
2). Do not give him wife benefits, you're just his girlfriend and not a trail wife.
3). Don't give him children if he hasn't married you yet, protect your womb, protect your future.
4). Do not show him off when he is not showing you off. If he's hiding you, hide him.
5). Do not give a man the key to your home. Your privacy is your power.
6). Do not give him control over your emotions. That is where manipulation starts.
7). Do not introduce him to your family yet when he hasn't made his intentions clear
8). Do not give him unlimited access to your body. Intimacy without commitment leaves you empty.
9). Do not always be too available for him, invest your time in more useful things.
10). Do not ever give him your money. You're his partner and not his ATM.”
— Lady advises women
